I get a lot of vibes and when I don't get them I just think they don't exist.
That's pretty much what I do unless/until someone gives me a genuinely new prism to look at the film through. That's more likely to prompt a rewatch than just an insistence that it's actually good.
I think just reacting to films is in a way the most sincere and "pure" way of experiencing cinema. Especially if you wish to read about a film a lot after watching it. You're then risking post-watch bias. As in, you didn't really like the film, but you read a lot of people praising it, maybe interpreting it differently, and then you grow to appreciate it more. Yeah, appreciate is the word. But you didn't like it initially by your gut feeling/instinct. I'm not saying you shouldn't analyze films or anything like that, but if I dislike the "vibes", I don't care about the meaning.
I get it. And I agree that those risks exist. And then you get into the thing where you can't tell whether you're deriving enjoyment from the thing itself or from your own ability to find meaning in things whether it's there or not...which
then leads to wondering whether that's a meaningful distinction, or if all art deserves credit for creating that springboard for you. This is something that came up on the podcast with Slappy and I a lot.
All I had in mind when I said that, though, is the type of moviegoer who has a lot of immediate, visceral reactions to actors/genres/films, decides they just don't like them, and that's that. It's a very commoditized way of looking at movies that is technically within the letter of "just let yourself react" but not at all in the spirit of what you're describing.
It's the exact opposite for me. If something's unexplainable, I prefer to leave it that way. On many occasions, I didn't understand the film very well and then either thought about it myself or talked about it with somebody else, which cleared up some things. This readily made the film less enigmatic and therefore worse. I like the mystery. I like to not understand.
See, this is interesting, because part of my desire to explain is to find the genuinely inexplicable. If I am constantly trying to analyze my reaction to things, you may feel that spoils the purity of those emotions. But another way to look at it is that I can only spoil the ones that were not pure to begin with. That, in doing this, I may "cost" myself some wonder in the short term, but what
remains are the most transcendent and inexplicable reactions. It's kind of like trying to guess the ending to a mystery because it's more gratifying to be genuinely surprised while trying not to be.
Anyway, very much a "different strokes" kind of situation. I think all approaches will spoil some things. There are films I only love because of all the thinking I've done about them after the fact. I am essentially "trading" those loves for the ones I ruined through analysis.
Obviously, my feeling is that this has been a net gain, but whether it is or not, I think this kind of thing is pretty intrinsic to people and can't easily be turned off or changed, anyway.
Nice you mention this movie because I think Skinamarink could have been amazing but every time the director managed to build an interesting atmosphere, they had to resolve it in the most unsatisfying way by reaching for the boring toolset of generic horror.
I kind of agree. If you're interested, there are a lot of really good posts about it in some of the horror threads which are among my favorite exchanges on the site over the last few years. I think you'll find them agreeable, too: even though most involved love the film, there was a fair bit of agreement about its flaws, too. It definitely has problems, even if I think they pale in comparison to its accomplishments.