It's funny you say this because I was just thinking, about an hour ago, about how I was handed this huge ****ing list of terms to not use and use others in place of them in essays and such when I arrived at the University Of Souther California in 1990. I was like, "What the **** is this?" And it was called "Politically Correct", without malice. It's actually what the people who were promoting it wanted to call it, not a term of derision.
Anyway, I remember getting really irritated, for whatever reason a 17 year-old white male does about **** that doesn't hurt him in any way, over learning that I was now supposed to call a "man-hole cover" a "person-hole cover". And for some reason, I really got pissy about this. I mean, like somehow this actually harmed me in some ****ing way. I don't know why it was really that particular term that bothered me, but I went on this whole thing with my professors about how it was actually called a man-hole so why wouldn't I just call it a ****ing man-hole cover?!!!
And I thought about it tonight as I watched something from the 1970s (actually an episode of The Electric Company) in which they referred to the "Weather-person" instead of the "Weatherman" and I was suddenly transported back to that time and that anger and wondered... "What the **** was I on about? Young men are just adorable."
Anyway, I remember getting really irritated, for whatever reason a 17 year-old white male does about **** that doesn't hurt him in any way, over learning that I was now supposed to call a "man-hole cover" a "person-hole cover". And for some reason, I really got pissy about this. I mean, like somehow this actually harmed me in some ****ing way. I don't know why it was really that particular term that bothered me, but I went on this whole thing with my professors about how it was actually called a man-hole so why wouldn't I just call it a ****ing man-hole cover?!!!
And I thought about it tonight as I watched something from the 1970s (actually an episode of The Electric Company) in which they referred to the "Weather-person" instead of the "Weatherman" and I was suddenly transported back to that time and that anger and wondered... "What the **** was I on about? Young men are just adorable."
example: "Black folks say the N-word all the time, so why can't I?" But you CAN use it, we're just telling you that everyone will think you're an A-hole whenever you do, so go for it. A-hole. I, as a non-racist person, have found this rule astoundingly easy to follow. It's like if someone decided "white folks shouldn't eat mud." Cool, I wasn't doing that anyway. Done.
A few months ago my baby-boomer aunt shared her outrage with Facebook over the news that Aunt Jemima was being retired. "PC Police are getting out of hand", "What's next?", and so on. This came as a shock to me because in all the years I've known her I was not aware of how passionate she was about her pancake mix, nor that she was so invested in this particular corporate mascot. Of course she was neither of those things in reality. She probably couldn't tell you what brand of pancake mix was in her kitchen right now if you asked her. And if Aunt Jemima had been replaced with a talking frog years ago she wouldn't have noticed. But the "you can't tell me what to do" mentality kicks in and suddenly she's boycotting a pancake mix that she may or may not have even bought in the past 10 years. So much unnecessary angst.