You're alone in your feelings.
I think you're the one who's alone.
You have your own clear point of view, but if you're unable to defend it and can only throw with (extremely) repetitive questions and shallow, unfounded detractions and insults, it might be better to stay away from this topic until you actually can add something meaningful to the debate.
You're acting like a child who gets angry from the moment someone does not completely (or instantly) agrees with him. Maybe you should start acting more mature...
Analyze the differences in opinion so you can advocate your point of view by using proper arguments to win over your discussion partner, instead of calling him names and showing no respect.
You're not doing anyone a favor while insulting people on the opposite side of this discussion, especially not the people who want to defend a similar point to yours by actually using the courteous rules of
proper debate.
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That's a delicate one for me. I would definitely never truly judge a woman who has an abortion after she finds out she got pregnant because of a rape. The woman had no choice and never even willingly committed herself to be part of the act that could cause pregnancy, so it's hard not to sympathize with her.
The
main PRO-abortion argument that you could use here is that the woman may suffer from severe psychological damage if she is forced to keep the baby of the rapist inside her for nine months and also has to make the decision whether she wants to keep it or not. It's probably even worse when the rape victim in question is an under-aged girl.
So you could argue that some mothers in these cases are also in a sort of (psychological) 'danger', caused by a pregnancy that she could impossibly have avoided, and therefore should be able to have the choice to remove the fetus inside her body that otherwise would have grown into an unbearable burden for her.
The
main ANTI-abortion argument is that the unborn child should be given the chance to develop as a human being, regardless of the fact that he/she is the result of a conception that wasn't caused in a morally acceptable way.
The unborn child's existence should not be settled on how it was caused, but on the fact that it is already there and that it's a human life in development. The mother could be supported psychologically and should learn to disconnect her guiltless child from his/her natural father's crimes against her.
The mother could also give birth to the child and let it be adopted to make another (childless) couple's dream come true. She could then find comfort in the thought that she made two people very happy and that she inverted a bad situation to something wonderfully positive and even beautiful. It requires a lot of bravery to do something like that, but ultimately it seems like the right thing to do.
I think the PRO-life side on this matter has a very positive message, but if it's enough to legally forbid a rape victim to have any kind of safe and controled abortion, I personally can't say. The woman is definitely put in a very difficult position, while she absolutely can't be blamed for what happened to her. She is completely defrauded of any choice in this matter and keeping the child will definitely have a lasting effect on her.
Let's say that the legality of an abortion for a woman/girl in that situation seems at least defendable to me.
I do have to point out that this situation is entirely different than all the other cases you have presented me and that I don't know for sure if I should take your "Okay" responses to my arguments regarding those cases as an agreement with my train of thought or just as an ignoration.