oh, I already knew THAT, adi. you would. say what you want but from my vantage point you desire to excise any point or strand of argument that you cannot win with a resounding triumph from that thread.
Your vantage point is wrong, I had no such intentions with my request. The only reason I wanted it separated is because they were two very different and very interesting topics. This one is much less clear cut, in my mind, so there's plenty of room for a reasonable and intelligent debate. This is why I tried to get more people involved, also baring in mind that you tend to be forgetful regarding responding to posed questions so I felt a separate thread on the issue might even draw your attention to it. Obviously it worked. Well, it drew your attention anyway, you haven't actually addressed any of the questions posed.
I don't have much respect for Sexy as a person or as a gay man. That post is a clear indicator of why I feel this way. I'd also disagree that I've asked him not to share his negative views on gay marriage, he has expressed them but they weren't based on anything but his personal disillusionment with other gay men. How anyone could feel that could be a reasonable basis for denying the millions of other gay people whom they've never met of the same rights other people have is beyond me. That's what I was trying to tell him, to look at it more objectively and reasonably. Sorry if it didn't translate. Obviously he could have responded but didn't because let's face it, he rarely has anything insightful or intelligent to say. :\
moving on, the email i got showed you saying more - that i was just a homophobe. so I added it back into your quote, and i'll answer you old post, not your edited one, since you did the same for me.
call me whatever you want, adi. im sure "homophobe" is tame compared to what i may be called elsewhere, if only in your thoughts, so im ok with it.
Just another little sign of the paranoia that's probably eating you up. Try to keep it to yourself, or see a therapist.
I removed the word "homophobe" from my initial post because this forum showed some very peculiar reasoning when it comes to its use and on occasion it made the other party look like some kind of victim which I was trying to avoid here. But I'm glad we agree you're a homophobe though, at least you're reasonable about that.
besides, its not as though I have ever shrank from that point. in fact, i explained what I think quite clearly, and with painstaking detail
here,
here,
here and
here.
but lets not digress into that discussion that we've already had.
A discussion which you ran away from when you were faced with a simple, very easy question to which there was only one, very simple answer. But yes, let's not, obviously it won't lead anywhere, just like any discussion with you really. I'm not even sure why I'm bothering responding to this post, clearly I have too much time on my hands.
i also explain, quite laboriously above i might add, why i think my point about hate crimes fits squarely within the gay marriage discussion.
It was laborious gibberish and completely pointless, the topics are obviously very different.
i dont agree with gay marriage - no bones about that. im comfortable with it. and anyone who harbors the belief that i think homosexuality is a good thing is probably blind or hasnt been reading the words ive been typing. however, i also do not have a problem with hate crimes legislation as a whole. i have a problem with it as it applies to gays because....
I'm glad we've got that cleared up.
...i believe that there is a gay agenda (lobby). this is understandable, nor do i have a problem with people lobbying for respect. i dont have to agree with an ideology to understand it or to understand why a person would want to fight for it. but far from being responsibly "above it all" or from taking the high road, i believe that that agenda (lobby) is hell-bent on bending everyone to their will, by any means necessary. and if we continue to chart a course faithful to one we've been on, i see legal strong-arming in our future.
So in other words, you disagree that gay people should have the same protection other minorities already have solely because of your prejudice and paranoia of what
might happen in the future? There's something deeply disturbing about that.
Rufnek thinks im overreacting, or that it wont go that far. I hope he's right.
but im intrinsically a cynic. look what happened with the Patriot Act. people twiddled their thumbs and believed in George W. Bush, and told the nay-sayers they were "over-reacting" until we got raped of our exisiting rights - in the name of Freedom.
I'd say you're intrinsically paranoid.
we've long since traversed the ground that we disagree fundamentally about gay marriage and even homosexuality - im well beyond that point in my arguments. thus, my points about Prajean were meant as a supporting proof of the irresponsible-ness and unreasonable-ness of the gay lobby.
This argument has nothing to do with Prajean, I'm not sure how you've managed to connect it. Your posts related to that incident remained in the thread because they were related to the topic. This is a separate topic.
they excuse in themselves what they condemn in others, and its unfair and hypocritical. your little digs make me laugh - far from being stream of consciousness, i point to these deviations to support my point about being against gay marriage and broad, overeaching gay hate crimes laws.
But you've yet to explain
how they're broad and overreaching. And if they are, can they be somehow fitted to conform with your (paranoid) views? I've already posted a quote which explains very clearly that religious freedom is not and cannot be threatened with this legislation. Did you not read that or are you just ignoring it? I'm perfectly willing to hear your concerns, as long as they're based on more than paranoia.
Also, if you're talking about the insistence on equality in law and social respect, then I'd say their (our) goal is justified. But I've read somewhere that you don't really care about racism or changing people's mind about it. That's fine, some of us have a more proactive approach to human rights. I also think it's mind boggling you don't see that everything you've said about the gay rights movement can be said about the African-american civil rights movement (both of which have the same agenda).
my point is quite simple, really. once you've tasted blood, i just dont think you all will stop there. your endgame is utter annihilation of the opposing view, and it shows.
Again, as stated above, I'm not sure this is such a bad thing, but I'd say that about any human rights issue, racism included. In any case, I think "we're" just fighting for equal rights and respect, based on logic and human compassion rather than a 5000 year old "sacred text".
whatever the case - the deed you did in splitting the threads is done. as I clearly indicated was ok before you posted.
so let's talk about Hate Crimes.
Yes let's!
Very well stated. I'm a girl, though.

And I consider myself and am considered by most people I know - religious or not - to be quite cynical, so I wouldnt paint me as "charmed by religion." I graduated college at 18 yrs, and received my law degree from a 1st tier US law school at the age of 21, so I think Im well grounded.

This is also true of all but one of my siblings (we had a black sheep).
I would say the difference between you and I is first that Im a much younger (29yrs old) girl, and that of all my education and cynicism, the one thing I have never lost is my faith.
My friends and I often discuss in terms of religious belief that intellectualism precedes the death of Faith. We do not think it has to, or that one necessarily has to exist mutually exclusive of the other. One of our friends went to Harvard undergrad and Johns Hopkins and is basically working as health advisor to 3rd world countries. She is "no more" as it were in terms of truly believing in God, though she is still very religious and goes through the motions.
So, it is somewhat of an experiment as it were, for me. When we were young we mixed with a lot of people who actively worked against education and enlightenment for fear that it would precede spiritual death. As children, we strongly believed in God (still do), and took the attitude that we would break the ceiling in religion, and span the divide between the highly educated and deeply devout. Jews do it - why cant Protestants?
God, if there is a God, should have an answer for any question asked, and the answer is not to "not ask questions." This is the philosophy I live my life by, and to date, I have no issue with God, nor do I feel that he hasnt been able to provide an answer for any question I pose, and believe me - I dont hold back. The answers may not satisfy everyone, but the most important thing is that they satisfy me.
But yes, a lot of the religious argument within religion takes on a new level of depth, depending on one's education - I know, because I worship with a lot of people who havent had the benefit of advanced education. It does not make their Faith any less real.
So there you have it. The difference between me and Ruffy, according to him is that I still believe in God. Check back with me in 30 years and I may have stopped, but if I have any say about it - I'll still believe in God.

Oh wait. There doesn't seem to be anything in your post about hate crimes
at all. Maybe next time? :\