Ok just finished watching this and I have to say that I'm not feeling all too comfortable but at the same time it was a pretty good movie. I'd be lying if I told you I didn't cup something while watching the 'snipping' scene, scary stuff, especially for 'our' 50% of the human population to whom this is one of the primal fears.
Loved how both characters have no redeeming qualities at all. I, for one, would not side with either of them in even the least bit. Haley is void of any compassion or mercy and Jeff really has to be forced (and how!

) in admitting what he did and more importantly realising the implications. And though a practising* pedophile is indeed something to be hated and feel completely disgusted by, Haley's actions are simply injustifiable. The movie creates a similar 'ambiguity' in respect to Jeff, who, even though he is an abominable person, you could feel some compassion for (I did a bit) while Haley puts him through everything she does. It's this kind of ambiguity that made the movie really interesting to me.
*I don't think that someone who has a sexual preference towards people, children, below the age of consent, is per se someone to be hated. In a way it is not different from other sexual preferences/orientations. The problem is that the object of their desire is generally not psychologically (or biologically!) ready for such experiences and can not comprehend their impact and therefore can, and most likely will, be damaged. Thus, I think, that 'only' as soon as pedophiles give in to their urges, it becomes untolerable. When they do this I think their actions may very well be compared to Haley's last actions in the movie. And such manipulation is without a doubt among the most dispicable imaginable.
ok, I'm gonna be hiding from the flak now