There's a good read in the link below, it's about Captain Kirk and his alleged womanizing. BTW, Captain Steel you didn't write this did you?
In Defense of (the Original) James T. Kirk
And for those who are too lazy to go and read here's an excerpt:
in word and deed, the Kirk of the original series was, essentially, a modern, mature Horatio Hornblower: an adventurer and military man, yes, but primarily a diplomat responsible for representing his people far away from home. His role as diplomat applied at every level of the drama, really. In the Freudian trinity that was Kirk/Spock/McCoy, Kirk was tasked most weeks with balancing McCoy’s passion and Spock’s logic. Yes, I am aware which portion of the psyche that would make him and, no, I’m not going to say it.
...on the original series, it was excuse enough for women to constantly throw themselves at Shat. After all, it was the ‘60s and an adventure show and that’s just what guest stars did. There’s simply no denying that the good captain had game. But was he really such a player? Kirk (shrewd diplomat that he was,) very often parlayed female affection into vital information or aid, which was, well, using them. But he didn’t often actually bed them to get it, because of network censors and the fact that his mama didn’t raise him that way. If anything, Captain Kirk was a big ol’ space tease. If he were a woman, we’d probably call him empowered.
Alright, alright, there was Marlena Moreau, but what happens in the Mirror Universe stays in the Mirror Universe, amirite? And then there was Miramanee, but he made an honest space-Indian priestess of her and the less that is said about the specifics of the third season, the better.
Kirk also knew long before the phrase “sexual harassment” entered the vernacular not to fool around with women under his command, no matter how much they might want his sweet, sweet captain’s seat...
On those rare occasions when he did express real interest in a woman, she was usually an intelligent, independent, well-rounded character like Edith Keeler, Janet Wallace or Carol Marcus. He was also repeatedly shown to be on good terms with exes, so it’s hard to imagine he was anything less than a gentleman. Well, okay, Janice Lester killed a bunch of people and briefly snatched his body, but who doesn’t have that one ex from Hell? And again: third season...
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