How to get the Girl/Guy warning: Friends only

You only live once. And if you arent out of your teens, just consider this round a learning tool. Go on and ask her, and if it doesnt work out, you learned something.

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thats awsome adivce mack. u do only live once so why live in fear of rejection without even being rejected. ask her if she says "no u f*cking prick, go away, then u learned somethin" and if she says "yes" than well u can go out with her until she finds some flaw in u and she wants to break up with you

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"An Eye for an eye makes the whole world blind"
-Ben Kingsley, GHANDI

"Snozberries taste like snozberries"

new plan, i try to woo her
i'm sending her an anonymous b-day present that i know she'll like


opinions? a) creepy b) charming

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c

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"All I have in this world is my balls and my word, and I don't break them for no one."

No, No, No, a) creepy

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Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship.
Buddha

well, if i f*ck up, then i'm no worse off than before, that or it'll be the match on the suicidal powder keg

Agent 0 Zero, asked them yet? I would say wait it out, as thats always the best policy but not in your case.

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How do you give a guy the 'just friends' warning?

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I am moved by fancies that are curled
Around these images, and cling:
The notion of some infinitely gentle
Infinitely suffering thing.
T.S Eliot, "Preludes"

man i hate it when girls say no but we can still be friends. i wouldnt wanna be a friend of some one who would say no but rubb it in when they say kindly "but we can still be friends" i hate it!!

honestly, there is no good way to do it, so you might as well just say it

It's not exactly that, I just want to stop something before it develops into something more than it is, because it looks like it's headed in that direction.

yah if u stop the unfolding of sumthin bad then u can stop disasters or cause a bigger disaster. be careful

It wouldn't be bad, in fact it would be pretty good. It just can't happen.

if you just wanna prevent it, then all you have to do is not do anything personal with the guy, don't even go to the movies together, if he persists then tell him u don't want to do anything you both might regret

i agree. or u could just say "i like you but i dont know if this is gonna work" then u can kinda stop going out with him and get over it.

Dude, you're a dude right?

yah. i just know the way women work, i am a ladies man.

I'm sorry, I just had to do it.

Hmmm....It's hard to explain. I definately won't do anything personal with him, right now we're just friends, but it's the type of friendship that the only place it will go is a relationship. He's a great guy, but it just can't go there. I can't be in a relationship, and I don't want to have to tell him that if the time comes. Thanks for the advice though!

Glitter girl, tell him you are not ready for a relationship yet, the only way is to be honest, oh yes, and tell him he is a nice guy