Maybe it is sexist, but Patrick Bateman's brutal treatment of women in the film was unsettling
As opposed to him...
murdering people in cold blood?
That would be like watching a graphic documentary on the Holocaust, and yet finding the 'most unsettling part' a scene where Hitler kicks a dog.
Very disproportionate focus of concern, and the focus seems to be more on the type of genitalia the victim has, rather than the actual relative degree of the violence itself.
and I just found it unusual that a woman would could condone the way Bateman treats women in the film.
Right, and showing Batemen
stabbing people to death means that she 'condones' serial killings in real life as well? WTF?

So now a director showing a "bad guy" doing "bad things" means the director thinks doing this in real life is "okay"?
That is also sexist in the sense that no one would suggest it unusual for a male director to feature villainous characters 'treating men poorly'. Essentially it's suggesting that any director who happens to have a vagina must be hypersensitive, and not able to distinguish between entertainment and real life.
Call me sexist, but that's how I feel.
Just curious. Do you feel that the creators of horror films, or violent video games like Call of Duty are 'condoning murder' and think committing mass murder in real life is hunkie dorie?