I don't like musicals because it annoys me when characters break out in spontaneous, choreographed song and dance. People just don't do that. There are a few musicals that I enjoy - like Chicago - and I have tried to be open to some others, but it just doesn't work for me.
With the exception of the American Civil War (and perhaps some ancient wars), war doesn't really interest me, so I typically don't like movies about it. There are some exceptions however, like Casualties Of War.
As for Science Fiction and Fantasy, I have issues with suspension of disbelief (except in animation, where - for some unexplainable reason - anything goes as far as I'm concerned). That's not to say that I dislike all Sci-Fi/Fantasy, but I prefer films that are based more in reality.
Seems like the thing about musicals and the thing with sci-fi and fantasy are sorta the same thing. That does seem to happen with some people, and I can't tell why. There was a member here a long time ago (Ryan Paige, I'm sure a lot of the longtime MoFos remember him) who we all liked and who seemed to genuinely appreciate good films, but just couldn't enjoy fantasy films...even the best of them, like
The Lord of the Rings. Never could figure it out. We all insisted that it was a beautifully crafted film that held real-life lessons and illustrated real-life truths, but he wouldn't budge.
Anyway, that's what usually does it, for me: finding a moral or message that applies to our world as well as the fantasy one, and I'd say all good fantasy films have that. Ditto for Sci-Fi. In fact, a very good argument can be made for the idea that both genres largely exist as a way to comment on real world affairs from a distance. Sci-Fi, in particular, seems to almost always have a view on just where humanity is going, and it usually has an opinion about whether or not it's good or bad (usually bad, it seems).
Without that kind of commentary, I tend to tire of it pretty quickly. In a nutshell, I can buy into the craziest world if the people inside it still behave and react in a way you or I might if we were simply transported there. Location, environment, etc...I can believe in any of those, so long as the characters inside them share a common humanity with us.
Would be interested in hearing more about why you don't like war films, though. Too depressing? Too similar to one another?
I don’t think you can be overtly sexual and private about it at the same time. I mean, people can be as freaky as they want to be in practice, but if they’re not openly talking about it with people other than their partners and are not dressing suggestively then by my definition they are not overtly sexual. Having a collection of suggestive art and liking raunchy films isn't really overt, unless you're discussing it or showing it to people that you don't know very well. But certainly people who are private about their sexuality can be and often are highly libidinous.
Ah, it seems like we're just using the phrases in different ways, then. I am, indeed, using it to refer to someone who's merely bold in private, or as you say, highly libidinous. Art is a safe way, with lots of built-in deniability, to express those things, I think. Not that everyone does, of course.
That statement alone is enough to make me consider rethinking my whole stance on whether or not there is such thing as ignorance and bad taste in regards to film.
Yoda, you win.
Can't say I expected that.