That's not strictly true, rufnek. I'm 'wired' to disappoint as many women as possible. If I were married, to avoid committing adultry, poligamy would be the only way.
You're wired to disappoint women, you're not wired to marry them. The best times of my life were when I was sleeping around with several women, but never felt an urge to marry even one of them, which would have been polygamy since some of them were already married. I wasn't adverse to having wives, I was just adverse to marrying one of my own.
Why get married and make one woman miserable when we could stay single and make several happy? I've always been welcomed back by former girlfriends, but I've never once wanted to go back to an ex-wife.
My second wife even told me once I was a hell of a lot more fun as a date than as a husband.
I do like your point about if you were married, "to avoid committing adultry, poligamy would be the only way." Raises an interesting legal point since the dictionary defines adultery as sex with someone other than your spouse. So say you're married to two women and you're having sex with one--either way you're having sex with your spouse. But to the one you're not having sex with, you're having sex with someone
other than your spouse, in that you're having sex and she isn't. Now if the court takes your point of view, you're innocent because you're having sex with your spouse.
But if the court takes her point of view--she's your spouse, and you're having sex with someone other than her, then you are committing adultery. Man, you could spend time in jail and a whole lot of money on attorneys trying and appealing that case--not to mention both earsful of "I told you not to marry her!" Now you could try to get around it by having sex with both wives at once, but you know how women can get if they think you're paying more attention to someone other than her. And you are going to have two of them on your butt over that! And how far can you carry that before you're totally overpowered? Three wives? Four? More? And if you try to rotate yourself among them, how can you be sure someone isn't backdooring you with Ann while you're pitching woo to Sue? Seems to me polygamy would be a real ball-buster. And that doesn't even address the problem of you busting your butt to make payments on a house big enough for your multiple spouses while keeping them in dresses and makeup and jewelry and cars of their own. They'll be off together on a vacation cruse flirting with the sailors while you're busting your hump at the office trying to earn enough for that month's utility bill.