lol Scarlet. Your spoiler is adorable!
You could ask 10 people this question and get 10 different answers. What do you think?
I say go with your gut instincts. I could write a book on this and never get to the end of the rabbit hole, or I could just get to the point in a sentence and look around for another thread, so to take the middle path I'll be mindful and simply keep it as short as humanly possible because it's such an interesting topic in my movie watching world. I think my opinion comes from the fact that while reading TLOTR my first time when I was a kid a school friend asked me what chapter I was up to and suddenly fat little tears ran down my face as I mentioned the chapter Shelob's Lair, and then she dropped THE clanger on me. I still remember the feeling of the arse dropping out of the end of my world and when she saw the look of utter devastation, like the look a kid gets when some clown tells them santa doesnt exist any more, or your dad is an arsehole, or the dinosaurs and bees all went away never to return, and the ozone has a hole in it and you'll be lucky if you see in the year 2000. Gahhh, that was a very long sentence!
Now my sister read this chapter to me and my two brothers on either side of me as we sat in the garden one school holidays so I knew the suspense of the particular incident (I can't even talk about it now incase someone reading the thread might read the book one day and I dont want to give the spoiler. That's how lodged in my psyche the spoiler tagging topic has been lurking in my book reading world just like Shelob. Well not only did she give THE spoiler, but she gave the reverse spoiler and I thought I was going to die. She double spoilered me to try to make my world all right again, or so I thought! I dont think it was intentional initially, but what got me was the look of utter joy on her face as she kicked me in the belly the second time with her big floppy clown shoes.
so to wrap this up in a nutshell, each movie is different for me as to whether or not I use a tag, and as Yods said, this doesnt take much effort at all, and saves the problem of speaking in riddles to save giving spoilers which can be very irritating on a movie forum. I simply try to be mindful when discussing movies or books both on the net and in the real world. One of my nieces loves movies as much as her auntie and whenever a movie topic crops up in movie discussions at family lunches the first thing I say is NO SPOILERS!!! If she keeps itching to drop a clanger I walk away with her and discuss that particular movie down the side path or in the back garden if no one else has seen it. I think the spoiler drama can easily be avoided if people today are simply mindful of others around them, being well mannered, and not being an absolute imbecile by purposefully dropping clangers to wreck another person's enjoyment. Saying that, however, some people these days dont know simple etiquette in the real world so it's a pretty difficult task to keep the spoiler trolls at a distance. And before anyone jumps on me, I'm not pointing skinny ole fingers at any particular generation. Spoiler trolls can come from any generation!
Thank You for Reading
or not.
that was the first time I got to the crux of why the spoiler topic is so important to me so thanks for starting the thread, Scarlet.