You Hurt My Feelings
There's a terrific cast led by 11-time Emmy winner Julia Louis-Dreyfus, but the 2023 indie comedy drama You Hurt My Feelings does try to cover a little too much territory as the original focus of the story gets muddier as the film progresses.
Beth Mitchell is a writer who has been married forever to a therapist named Don and they have a 23 year old son named Eliot who works in a pot shop. Beth had middling success with her first book and is working like a dog on her next one, but is slightly discouraged when her publisher suggests she take another run at it. Beth gets a symbolic punch in the stomach though when she overhears her husband telling her brother-in-law that her new book is terrible.
Director and screenwriter Nicole Holofcener (Can You Ever Forgive Me?) has mounted a story that initially looks like it's going to be a look at the delicate egos of artists and how they hate to think anything they do isn't brilliant. We are initially amused when the script gets flipped on Don and it is revealed that he might not be the greatest therapist in the world either. We are also subjected other subplots including Eliot's anger about being coddled by his parents, Beth's mother, who is in complete denial about what appears to be Alzheimers, and her brother-in-law's frustration over his sporadic acting career.
The scenes with Don's patients are actually very funny...I especially loved the couple who feel Don hasn't helped them in three years and are therefore demanding a refund on the $33,000 they have spent on therapy. Beth's battle with her mother over some leftover potato salad and the brother-in-law's disappointment when someone who recognized him from a movie he made years ago, politely explains that he doesn't want a selfie are also fun. Eliot's bitching and moaning about his parents turned him into a loser gets old very quickly though and helps the film seem a bit longer than it is.
As scattered as the stories might be, the film remains watchable thanks to some wonderful performances. Louis-Dreyfus and Tobias Menzies, who won an Emmy for playing Prince Phillip on The Crown are lovely as the Mitchells and Michaela Watkins garners several laughs as Beth's sister as does Arian Moayed as her husband. Fans of the HBO series Succession might recognize Moayed as Stewey on that show. Jeanne Berlin, another Succession cast member, makes the most of her scenes as Beth's senile mother. It's not a home run, but Julia Louis-Dreyfus is always worth watching.
There's a terrific cast led by 11-time Emmy winner Julia Louis-Dreyfus, but the 2023 indie comedy drama You Hurt My Feelings does try to cover a little too much territory as the original focus of the story gets muddier as the film progresses.
Beth Mitchell is a writer who has been married forever to a therapist named Don and they have a 23 year old son named Eliot who works in a pot shop. Beth had middling success with her first book and is working like a dog on her next one, but is slightly discouraged when her publisher suggests she take another run at it. Beth gets a symbolic punch in the stomach though when she overhears her husband telling her brother-in-law that her new book is terrible.
Director and screenwriter Nicole Holofcener (Can You Ever Forgive Me?) has mounted a story that initially looks like it's going to be a look at the delicate egos of artists and how they hate to think anything they do isn't brilliant. We are initially amused when the script gets flipped on Don and it is revealed that he might not be the greatest therapist in the world either. We are also subjected other subplots including Eliot's anger about being coddled by his parents, Beth's mother, who is in complete denial about what appears to be Alzheimers, and her brother-in-law's frustration over his sporadic acting career.
The scenes with Don's patients are actually very funny...I especially loved the couple who feel Don hasn't helped them in three years and are therefore demanding a refund on the $33,000 they have spent on therapy. Beth's battle with her mother over some leftover potato salad and the brother-in-law's disappointment when someone who recognized him from a movie he made years ago, politely explains that he doesn't want a selfie are also fun. Eliot's bitching and moaning about his parents turned him into a loser gets old very quickly though and helps the film seem a bit longer than it is.
As scattered as the stories might be, the film remains watchable thanks to some wonderful performances. Louis-Dreyfus and Tobias Menzies, who won an Emmy for playing Prince Phillip on The Crown are lovely as the Mitchells and Michaela Watkins garners several laughs as Beth's sister as does Arian Moayed as her husband. Fans of the HBO series Succession might recognize Moayed as Stewey on that show. Jeanne Berlin, another Succession cast member, makes the most of her scenes as Beth's senile mother. It's not a home run, but Julia Louis-Dreyfus is always worth watching.
Last edited by Gideon58; 07-26-23 at 07:50 PM.