i'm sorry if this hurts or offends anyone in any way...its really late over here and i just got an upsetting phone call...i'm hoping that, seeing as most of you are in the northern hemisphere and will be on the boards while i'm sleeping, well, i'm hoping to get some replies of advice by tomorrow evening
a friend called saying that this guy who we haven't seen in a while is in a really bad state mentally...he's admitted to his family that he wants to committ suicide, and has been withdrawn and depressed for nearly a year now...
he was a successfull radio producer and business magazine editor when we knew him....but over the past year, he has quit working, no longer goes out of the house (its been months since he has literally stepped outside of his house) and his mother called us saying that she needed help with him and that she didn't know what to do any longer...she was so desperate that she asked us if she should just "let him go"!!!
he seems to have completely convinced himself (and his mother apparently, which i think is just bizarre) that dying is his only way out of his depression....i know that he was on medication, but don't know whether he still is....his parents forced him to see a psychologist at the local hospital - and apparently this "doctor", after one visit, smiled at his parents saying there was nothing wrong with him and that they were being overprotective and worrying over nothing...that was about 4 months ago
my mate and I are going to go to his house tomorrow evening for an "intervention" kind of thing
have any of you been involved in anything like this before?? anyone know about interventions?? should we be kind with him, or should we be tough?? have any of you ever known anyone who has faced this??
i deal with depression every day of my life, was diagnosed with it about 2 years ago and although i have my bad days, mostly my medication is keeping me level - for me personally, it was actually a load off my mind to be able to put a name to what was going on in my head, and to be told that with medication and deep soul searching i can can overcome it - which seems to be working for me
i feel so MAD about this....so mad with his parents evidently ready to give up on him...BUT I'M NOT!!! i'm thinking of going there and facing him harshly, dragging him out of his house kicking and screaming and making him talk to me, make him tell me his worries and make him "get it out"
sorry if what i've written hurts anyone, and sorry if its garbled...i'm crying right now - i'm feeling so many different emotions...but i'm positive about the path i'm going to take, that is, confronting him and being there every day until he gets sick of seeing me (so to speak)
anyone have any thoughts that may be able to steer me in the right direction?? anyone experienced this or read any books??
if you feel it is too private, please feel free to PM me...i'll be loggin in from work tomorrow to read any thoughts anyone may have
cheers
a friend called saying that this guy who we haven't seen in a while is in a really bad state mentally...he's admitted to his family that he wants to committ suicide, and has been withdrawn and depressed for nearly a year now...
he was a successfull radio producer and business magazine editor when we knew him....but over the past year, he has quit working, no longer goes out of the house (its been months since he has literally stepped outside of his house) and his mother called us saying that she needed help with him and that she didn't know what to do any longer...she was so desperate that she asked us if she should just "let him go"!!!
he seems to have completely convinced himself (and his mother apparently, which i think is just bizarre) that dying is his only way out of his depression....i know that he was on medication, but don't know whether he still is....his parents forced him to see a psychologist at the local hospital - and apparently this "doctor", after one visit, smiled at his parents saying there was nothing wrong with him and that they were being overprotective and worrying over nothing...that was about 4 months ago
my mate and I are going to go to his house tomorrow evening for an "intervention" kind of thing
have any of you been involved in anything like this before?? anyone know about interventions?? should we be kind with him, or should we be tough?? have any of you ever known anyone who has faced this??
i deal with depression every day of my life, was diagnosed with it about 2 years ago and although i have my bad days, mostly my medication is keeping me level - for me personally, it was actually a load off my mind to be able to put a name to what was going on in my head, and to be told that with medication and deep soul searching i can can overcome it - which seems to be working for me
i feel so MAD about this....so mad with his parents evidently ready to give up on him...BUT I'M NOT!!! i'm thinking of going there and facing him harshly, dragging him out of his house kicking and screaming and making him talk to me, make him tell me his worries and make him "get it out"
sorry if what i've written hurts anyone, and sorry if its garbled...i'm crying right now - i'm feeling so many different emotions...but i'm positive about the path i'm going to take, that is, confronting him and being there every day until he gets sick of seeing me (so to speak)
anyone have any thoughts that may be able to steer me in the right direction?? anyone experienced this or read any books??
if you feel it is too private, please feel free to PM me...i'll be loggin in from work tomorrow to read any thoughts anyone may have
cheers
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"So you take me for what I am...a psychopathic, schizophrenic, serial-killing, femme fatale?"
"So you take me for what I am...a psychopathic, schizophrenic, serial-killing, femme fatale?"