I have heard this term in relation to someone having a drug or alcohol problem. But I'm not sure exactly what it means, and it confuses me because we are all codependant aren't we?
From what I understand, a codependant is a person inside an abusive relationship who remains there trying to "fix" the problem themselves, or "enable" the person with the problem to continue it.
To me, codependance is a negative term. But we are all codependant on something or other aren't we?
Take religion for example. Any sect will tell you that having faith in something, such as a deity, and praying to it, will help to "fix" your troubles. Or a friend asking for advice about something is just "enabling" you to help him/her with a problem that they might be having.
If we are all codependant with each other, how can that be bad?
edit= changed "that" to "who" in paragraph 2.
From what I understand, a codependant is a person inside an abusive relationship who remains there trying to "fix" the problem themselves, or "enable" the person with the problem to continue it.
To me, codependance is a negative term. But we are all codependant on something or other aren't we?
Take religion for example. Any sect will tell you that having faith in something, such as a deity, and praying to it, will help to "fix" your troubles. Or a friend asking for advice about something is just "enabling" you to help him/her with a problem that they might be having.
If we are all codependant with each other, how can that be bad?
edit= changed "that" to "who" in paragraph 2.
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