The Ghost and Mrs. Muir
As I said, if there ever would be some sort of ghost story HoF, this was what I’d considered nominating. As it has been in this one, I wouldn’t nominate it now, but I am still happy that it was in one because I haven’t seen it for so long. It was a re-watch that was horribly overdue.
I have never read the book (I always meant to). Therefore, I have no idea how the story plays out in that. And I have never seen the TV show. I can’t compare it to that either. All I have experienced is this film, and this film is all that I need.
I love it. I really, really do.
The first time that I saw it was probably about 10 years ago or so. Before I say what I really want to mention, I will go on about the basics of it.
I know Gene Tierney seems to be the pick in the film for people, and she is good, but I loved Rex Harrison. He is the one that I liked the best. I just love how cantankerous he is! He is hilarious. Just his overall attitude is so entertaining. But the two of them work so incredibly well together.
I love so many aspects of this movie. I like ghost stories, anyway. This one is a little different because of the relationship that they essentially have with one another. I enjoy how he “tests” her in the beginning (i.e. the lights). I can’t help but love how quickly she even starts to talk like him. And it is obvious that he is attracted to her. I really like it when he says to her “My dear, never let anyone tell you to be ashamed of your figure”. That ghost was sneaking a peek at her.

It is kind of a creepy thought to think he can watch her like that, but for some reason, it is cute when it is Rex Harrison doing it.

You know, in its own way, it is somewhat sad that he does end up feeling the way that he does. After all, nothing can be done about it. He can't even touch her. But I do love his jealousy.

I know others may not feel this way, but I honestly think this is one of the most romantic movies ever. And I think the lack of anything happening between them, but still knowing there are feelings between them, is what helps it to be that way for me.
I think this is one of the most charming movies ever made with some pretty clever and funny lines in it. And the cinematography is fantastic. It is just a lovely film.
I mentioned to @
edarsenal the other day that there are some moments that have made me so happy. These are moments that are so incredibly fantastic. So satisfying that I could almost cry over them. They just make me, if very briefly, so very, very happy. I will be so satisfied with it that I may end up feeling like something great happened to me, but what it was was something that happened to some character in a book, TV show or movie. And these moments generally satisfy me because they are not only so unexpected, but they are just so unexpectedly good. And these moments may not generate the same exact feeling that I had when I first experienced them (after all, I know they are going to happen now), but at the same time, they are just as satisfying as the first time I read/saw it happen. Anyway, ed and I had this discussion over the film
Now Voyager. A great move, in my opinion. There are many things that I like in that one, but there is a moment towards the end that made me so happy. He knows what it is.

And it was something that was so subtle that I actually went back and watched it again because I wasn’t sure it was what I saw. And it was what I saw, and I loved it. I didn’t know if anything could make me smile the way that did. Until I saw T
he Ghost and Mrs. Muir for the first time, which was around the time of
Now Voyager.
WARNING: spoilers below
I didn’t expect it. I really didn’t. I honestly didn’t think Rex Harrison would pop up again in the film. I didn’t. If anything, I thought maybe we’d hear a voice or something but that was it. But there he was. When he first appeared again, I can remember that the feeling was almost akin to relief. I was so happy to see him again. There was Captain Gregg to take his Lucia with him. And then to see her young like that again when he took her! You have no idea what that did to me! That is a very satisfying moment. I had something happen around that time – which I will keep to myself – that helped to make this a very big emotional moment for me when I saw it for the first time. But when I watched it this time, I just had this big smile on my face. All those years without her Captain. But there he was. And you have no idea how wonderful that moment was and still is to me. You really don't.
Honestly? I think it is such a beautiful moment. And one of my favorites ever. It is a great way to end such a story. I wouldn’t want it to end any other way.
I didn’t expect it. I really didn’t. I honestly didn’t think Rex Harrison would pop up again in the film. I didn’t. If anything, I thought maybe we’d hear a voice or something but that was it. But there he was. When he first appeared again, I can remember that the feeling was almost akin to relief. I was so happy to see him again. There was Captain Gregg to take his Lucia with him. And then to see her young like that again when he took her! You have
no idea what that did to me! That is a very satisfying moment. I had something happen around that time – which I will keep to myself – that helped to make this a very big emotional moment for me when I saw it for the first time. But when I watched it this time, I just had this big smile on my face. All those years without her Captain. But there he was. And you have no idea how wonderful that moment was and still is to me. You really don't.

Honestly? I think it is such a beautiful moment. And one of my favorites ever. It is a great way to end such a story. I wouldn’t want it to end any other way.
So, yeah, I love this movie. I already knew when I saw it nominated how I was going to be with it. And I knew it was going to be my favorite. It is just the way it is. This film has a hold on me emotionally (for a bunch of reasons – that ending is a big part), and it is one of my favorite movies of all-time.
I just want to say one more thing. Just because I have to.

I won’t go on about the odd things that have happened in my house. It is a pretty freaky house. It is. Growing up, it was worse than living in it now. But it still has its moments. And of 8 people in the house, 7 people (not including my dad – he never knew what was going on with anything anyway) have had multiple experiences. And a lot of those experiences were experienced with more than one person at the same time. I could give many examples but I will just tell you this one. My brothers were always good for getting into fights. And I am talking about big, physical fights. It was so ridiculous. But after things would calm down, and everybody would just be doing their own thing, sitting downstairs (not a single person upstairs), you’d suddenly hear all kinds of slamming coming from above, with stomping footsteps and loud knocking and banging. It seemed as though those fights would upset this “being”. And what always followed the noises was one of my brothers saying something like “The Captain is upset again” or "The Captain is mad now". Why do I tell you this? Because we named him “The Captain”. Why? Because of Captain Gregg in
The Ghost and Mrs. Muir.

And that is all I will say about that.

I just felt like mentioning it.