What takes the cake is you post in the Silent Hof: (posted the day after it ended)
The host is not obligated to PM you, that's an excuse, the responsibility is yours, not the host. The deadline was clearly posted and even extended. The ONLY person who is responsible for you not finishing, is you.
What takes the cake, is you telling me that I said she is obligated. That I used that as my excuse. I never did, and you left out my next post.
I posted in that thread that I wasn't able to finish because something awful happened in my life. That was going to end it for me, but because I noticed that it had been extended, etc . . . and asked if they wanted me to go ahead, I was going to check back. Then, the only reason I made that PM comment, was because by the time my net was back up, I forgot. It was mainly because my 1-800-comcast guy weirded me out, by letting me know that he knew exactly where I lived. That he used to live behind me, and he remembered me. I had to make sure he wasn't the one that would show up at my house the next day.
It's really easy to say "If this", or "If that" We all do it. That was a simple thought. An, "Oh pooh, I wish she had PMed me" thought . . . . and why did I have that thought . . . because sometimes we do exactly that for these things. We PM the members. So it's a natural thought, being turned into something bad. Just like Cricket up there saying that if I had simply posted about those two movies, then none of this would be happening." Yes, and since I had no idea I would be doubted like this, I didn't. Between the music and movies, I know there's been more than ten threads I've been in. It's not right doubting me over two. As far as that "disappearing" stuff Cricket brought up. Yes, I have. I disappeared when they thought I had cancer, when I spent seven days in the hospital watching my mother die, gall bladder issues, gall bladder emergency surgery, hernia surgery, severe flu bug, and my last issue, that I don't want to share. This is why I told Raul I don't know what else to do. Because I sure the hell don't want to keep reliving all this over some freaking movies.
I never claimed that you said you were busier than everyone here, Destiny, I said that you weren't.
You still make it sound like we all spend the same amount of time in life with work, play etc . . . You don't know my schedule, or all of my responsibilities. Why are you claiming to know how busy I am?