That's a good point. If somebody thinks I'm being mean by asking questions, how on earth would they reconcile that without supporting Trump, who tears people down more viciously and more often? Are your standards for President lower than your standards for talking to people on the Internet?
Donald Trump for President?
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Nah. But based on the logic here, if I were meaner towards Trump supporters, they'd apparently go from disagreeing with me to wanting to vote for me.
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Only in the sense that any values-based statement is an "opinion." But I don't think it's my opinion that discussions are worse when nobody in them is held accountable for what they say.
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And I don't think you actually disagree, because you're asking me to defend what I said right now. So the argument is self-defeating: if nobody has to defend their position, that includes me with my position that Trump supporters should have to defend theirs.
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Amusingly, what you're basically asking for is something Trump supporters usually loathe: a safe space. A place, paradoxically in public, where people can express anything they want without the psychological discomfort of being questioned.
But certainly you can create your own safe space by simply avoiding conflict and confrontation. Just stay out of the thread, avoid certain people if you can, whatever. Is that so terrible?
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They can. But that's not the same as doing it over and over, dozens of times, for half a year, and then getting mad when they're criticized for it.
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Basically, they don't get to have it both ways: if one person gets to express an opinion, people to get to express an opinion about that opinion. Nothing unfair about it. It's the alternative--expecting people to just listen to you and not be allowed to criticize--that's unfair.
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I'm not sure this analogy really makes sense any more. The point is that, if someone's opinion is so damn fragile that you can "tear them down" by asking a few pointed questions, that's on them.
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Nah. But based on the logic here, if I were meaner towards Trump supporters, they'd apparently go from disagreeing with me to wanting to vote for me.
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Does everything here have to be a discussion?
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Can I give my answer? On an internet forum with threads devoted to discussion of topics...yes.
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Nah. But based on the logic here, if I were meaner towards Trump supporters, they'd apparently go from disagreeing with me to wanting to vote for me.
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Basically, I'd like to know what it takes to get thrown off this site.
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Yoda, this is off topic (and this is not in reference to any post or anybody) but is there a thread with site guidelines? Basically, I'd like to know what it takes to get thrown off this site. Not that that's my goal or anything just wondering if it's in writing anywhere?
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Yes Captain Steel, Trump would have been banned from here by now.
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Don't think I haven't noticed how TONGO and TRUMP both start with T and have 5 letters.....
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I guess TONGO can't read me. He's retreated to his own safe space by putting me on his Ignore list again.
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Does everything here have to be a discussion?
I cannot stop you from behaving how you behave.
That's one of the reasons I don't really think of this as an "opinion"--because arguing for the alternative is self-contradictory.
But certainly you can create your own safe space by simply avoiding conflict and confrontation. Just stay out of the thread, avoid certain people if you can, whatever. Is that so terrible?
I think part of the issue is that Trump's made so much bad news for himself (either through his terrible personal history, or just through contradicting himself so often) that just posting about the news in general probably feels like an attack. But that's what happens if you hitch your wagon to a loose cannon, ya' know?
Well, I personally do not do that.
The only people I'm going to bother arguing with are people who I think are failing to live up to shared standards. If someone supports Trump for reasons unrelated to my criticism of him, there's not much to say. But if someone believes in the same kinds of things I do, but is rationalizing or ignoring them to support Trump even though he doesn't align with them, that's when I feel the need to say something.
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Quick follow-up on that last part:
If someone supports Trump because they think things are broken and we need some kind of chaos candidate just to shake things up, okay. I get that. I don't agree with it, but I get it. Ditto if they support him for some other reason that doesn't have to do with policy or ideology. There's not much point in arguing about this guy if the real disagreement is about foundational beliefs, and this election is just downstream of that larger disagreement.
But if someone is ostensibly a conservative, and a Christian, but has talked themselves into thinking Trump cares about furthering or protecting either worldview...that's when I have to say something. Because I'm seeing smart people, and people I considered allies in these causes, contorting their beliefs to fit the candidate. I will absolutely not stop pointing this out, because in some ways it's a far more upsetting thing than just having different beliefs in the first place.
If someone supports Trump because they think things are broken and we need some kind of chaos candidate just to shake things up, okay. I get that. I don't agree with it, but I get it. Ditto if they support him for some other reason that doesn't have to do with policy or ideology. There's not much point in arguing about this guy if the real disagreement is about foundational beliefs, and this election is just downstream of that larger disagreement.
But if someone is ostensibly a conservative, and a Christian, but has talked themselves into thinking Trump cares about furthering or protecting either worldview...that's when I have to say something. Because I'm seeing smart people, and people I considered allies in these causes, contorting their beliefs to fit the candidate. I will absolutely not stop pointing this out, because in some ways it's a far more upsetting thing than just having different beliefs in the first place.
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I think that sounds similar to what Obama said recently, obviously he was more anti-Republican, but I think it follows a similar line of thinking in that if people genuinely support him or see him as a good candidate, then he doesn't blame them but more feels sorry for them for thinking that. But if they know that he is a bad candidate, know that a lot of what he says and does is wrong, and potentially dangerous, but choose to ignore that and accept it because "it's politics"... because he's representing the Republicans, because he is anti-Democrat/Obama/Clinton... then he does not sympathise with them or applaud them when they choose to drop out at the 11th hour when the battle looks lost and/or because further things come out to damage him, these people have been aware of who they have chosen to support all along.
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Aye. And it's arguably worse, because I think he was talking about actual politicians, for whom political survival is a significant consideration that complicates their support or opposition to Trump. But as voters, we don't have that same problem, so there's even less reason for us to compromise on it.
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Also, follow-up on that shocking Utah poll...we've got another one:
This could actually happen.
This could actually happen.
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It ain't complicated: the more people see of this guy, the less they like him. A handful of diehards are hanging on, but there's basically no evidence he's grown beyond his primary base, which is what pretty much all of us were warning 10 months ago.
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Six months ago:
Three months ago:
Two days ago, and yesterday:
Already we see both Trump and his supporters making preemptive excuses for his loss. He'll have no reason to accept blame, and every reason to deflect it and try to retain what influence he can.
There's no doubt that Trump will try to blame a loss on someone else (it's what he does: nothing is ever his fault).
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It sounds like Sexy is saying in a way that Yoda does to people what Trump does when he "tears down people". Is that so or am I misreading what's being said? I'm not trying to start a fight, but it sounds a bit ironic from every which way. If I'm wrong, sorry.