ok i reely need help here...

my life isnt a soap opera lol....

anyways im still tryin to talk to her...everytime i try it to i loose my confidence and end up backin down...its hard 4 me i guess...

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Well, mostly, I meant reading this thread is like that -- everyone on every side of the issue weighing in with advice and all kinds of possible stories taking place ...

I meant that it was sweet and *fascinating* to read.

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Randal, here's a way to look at it, and this may or may not help your confidence...

Picture in your head, her with someone you absolutely hate, and how much it irritates you seeing him treating her bad. Also, picture how it makes you wish you had taken your chance while you had it.

Like I said, that may help, and that may not. Just something to think about, and who knows, it may help you get your confidence up.

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lol im kiddin...

and spud wat u said actually boosts my confidence quiet a bit...thanks

If you just were my mum, damn..

Anyways she is right. We ALL love courtesy, even though we say we dont (some of us do).
The thing most of the girls dont like is guys bragging about whatever can be bragged about, also being a little shy can be helpful, its cute. You will get to know the game, but unlike any other game, there's no real manual to the game of love because its different with every person, therefor its up to you to find out how she works. I always she when god created men he forgot to publish te manual, but the same goed for women. Sometimes women are easy to read, but some are equal to a book full of metaphors. Itll take some time to uncover it at. Take your time.

Never ever forget to be true to yourself, the biggest turnoff is somebody pretending to be somebody else. Get to know both girls better... Take a step into the unknown, it cant be bad. You may get turned off, but then again you may get a girlfriend out of this matter. It is in any way an experience youll be needing in the rest of your life. Life is, and will always be about taking chances.

thumbs up!

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a lot of the time its the aloof ones that pull at our heartstrings the most...

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Ok we have here 4 pages of good advices so does it have any effect?

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The first step is the hardest, when he does it, no matter the outcome (not all situations have the outcome we want) it gets easier from there, that first step can be for some people as scary as jumping off a cliff.

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yes it is very scary lol....i went another day without tellin her...i got so ****ing nervoes wen i tried...one of these days im gonna just decide 2day is the day

Jump!!!

Of course what I mean, is what Nebs said, jump off the cliff!!

Just remember everyone is anxious when asking a girl out, it is normal, the only way to get better at it is to feel the anxiety and push through it you have nothing to loose

yea ur rite....got nothin to loose and everythin to gain....ure rite...thanks

Good! Now you know, lets make a step, you got a weekend to prepare yourself

yea...this weekend im gonna make myself ready to do it...and hopefully on monday i can at least talk to her

That is a good start

ok this is startin to work out...one of my best friends is good friends with her....rite now shes tellin me a whole bunch of stuff about her

heh, go Randal go randal At least for now you can get to know her a bit which is really important. Hey she might turn out to be exactly the person you've been looking for but yeah she might not either but getting to know her outside a 'date' will make you more sure and make it heaps easier to actually ask her .

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