Obviously not a good highlight for Trump
This is understating things a bit. And more importantly, it's not an isolated incident: he responded to Megyn Kelly doing her job by talking about her menstrual cycle. He called Ted Cruz a "p*ssy" and threatened to sue him (Cruz called his bluff). He offered to pay the legal fees of any supporter who hit a protester for him (then said he never did, even though we have him on tape saying it). And worst of all, he openly advocated we target our enemies' families, which is a war crime. I'm not exaggerating or misrepresenting any of this: he literally did and said all of this, sometimes repeatedly.
This is not just a tough-talking guy who occasionally inches over the line, or a plainspoken dude who doesn't care about political correctness. This is a guy who responds to anyone in his way, even indirectly, by mocking, threatening, and insulting them, sometimes by completely making things up (like literally two days ago, when he claimed a critic of his had been "fired" when they hadn't).
Call me crazy, but I think "thin-skinned and quick to threaten people who criticize them" would win a "Describe the Last Person in the World Who Should Have Lots of Power" contest.
Hey Yoda, so if it's Hillary vs Trump, are you going Hillary?
Somebody else.
America's brand has been so boring and stagnant i've just been happy to see someone shake the cage
To me this is like saying "I don't like the general manager of my baseball team, so I'm going to blow up the stadium."
The fact that Trump is the only one who you think might "shake things up" doesn't mean he's actually the guy to do it. Heck, he's even talked openly about moderating himself as we get into the general election, which is why you've already seen him reverse himself blatantly on a handful of issues. Voting for a disruptive candidate can be justified if that candidate is at least thinking through what they say and do, but not just for the chaos itself.