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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
The problem isn't putting yourself in the shoes...

The problem isn't putting yourself in the shoes of the cheater. Do you really think that is what I am doing? Yes, if someone I am with is messing around, I want to know about it, but that isn't the...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

There are stories of brides having sex with male strippers at these parties usually of the BJ variety so it works both ways.
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Which is another reason not to tell the boyfriend...

Which is another reason not to tell the boyfriend anything. OP hasn't even seen the other guy, has no actual knowledge if anything she told him is the actual truth. And he has no crediblity with the...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Look, it is still sex, and it would be more...

Look, it is still sex, and it would be more serious during a marriage, but, yeah, I don't consider a one time blow job before there is even an engagement the same thing as intercourse. Do you? The...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

An affair during the marriage is far worse than a BJ before there is even an engagement.
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

We don't know if she even BJ'd him once. Just because she told the OP she did doesn't mean she did. Like I said in an earlier post, she may have been fantasizing or trying to shock someone she thinks...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
It is two different things. Would I want to know...

It is two different things. Would I want to know she is doing what she is doing? Of course. I may or may not want to marry her after talking to her because the behavior to me is borderline. She is...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Originally Posted by teeter_g...

Originally Posted by teeter_g http://www.movieforums.com/community/images/buttons/lastpost.gif (http://www.movieforums.com/community/showthread.php?p=907374#post907374)
I think that I would just...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
If a woman you were happily married to for five...

If a woman you were happily married to for five years said "You know, AKA23, before you proposed (the gal is not yet engaged; she knows he has the ring because her parents told her, but he hasn't...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

You don't get HIV from BJs.

Yes, talk to her to be open with her boyfriend about what has been going on or to change her behavior.

No, to being a meddler, particularly since I doubt with the...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

Planet News' advice is rat on her not for moral reasons, but for the fun of it.
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

Honestly, I don't know why you are friends with this person. She's uninteresting, vapid, not very intelligent, you can't have a substantive conversation with her, and she's pretty morally bankrupt as...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

Never rat out a friend
To betray a confidence
Common sense
Says being a rat
Isn't cool
Even Peter O'Toole
Would agree with that
A friend is a friend until the end
So zip your mouth
If you...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

I get it now. She knows he has the ring because he told the parents and they told her, but he doesn't know they told her. But why hasn't he asked her yet? Maybe he is having second thoughts.
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

Oh, so she hasn't even accepted the proposal?

At this point there isn't even anything to rat on.
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
If she was a guy, would you be friends with...

If she was a guy, would you be friends with someone who is vapid and uninteresting? Despite your protests, I think her main attraction to you is she is a woman you find physically desirable and the...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

I couldn't be a friend with someone I didn't think was interesting to talk to.
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
We know what you would do.

We know what you would do.
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
The scenario is they have been faithful. A lot of...

The scenario is they have been faithful. A lot of people have marriages where they pretty much know where their other is most of the time. Just because you find out about some fling before marriage...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

If they have been faithful for something like a decade, you should be able to trust them. They might be more trustworthy because they has their little fling before they tied the knot. They got it out...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
I wasn't talking about her. I was responding to...

I wasn't talking about her. I was responding to Yoda's notion that in general finding out your marriage partner was unfaithful before you got married would be by itself a marriage killer. I guarantee...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
It is a good reason not to marry them if you find...

It is a good reason not to marry them if you find out before the marriage. In the scenario that you have been going along with, it is understood there was no infidelity during the marriage and while...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

It is a pretty superficial reason to get a divorce for, particulary for a religious person. Once married, you judge a person for their behavior during it. I am certain if you went to your pastor or...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
Re: Do I rat on a friend?

That all may be true, but what is OP going to say to fiance, your girl BJ'd a dude? Why would anyone want to get in the middle of that drama? Just drop the chick with the blabber mouth because she is...
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Do I rat on a friend?
Posted By will.15
We shouldn't be making these judgments for...

We shouldn't be making these judgments for ratting on someone under these circumstances. I will make a judgement that this behvaior is not important if discovered long after a marriage where this...

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