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Big Lebowski is always going to get mentioned in these conversations since a large portion of the population seems cold to comedies which are predominantly based in character. Basically 'jokeless' comedies where the humor is derived in understanding how a character views their world and having an instinctual grasp of the idiosyncrasies of their behavior in responding to it. What we are suppose to laugh at isn't telegraphed, and there are rarely punchlines, so to laugh along is to allow oneself to become immersed in the world being presented. Experience it along with the characters. Be amused or confused or enraged along with them. It's a very empathetic kind of humor (yet another reason it's unpopular with so many, since humor is often about outsiders, and the majority of people refuse to empathize with broken or ugly or unlikeable people...I assume under the usually misguided assumption that they are better than them). Withnail and I would probably be the other really strong example of this kind of thing (and is also probably the better movie).
For me Big Lebowski is an obviously funny movie, that only gets funnier the more one watches it (ie, the more we understand the characters and what motivates and aggravates them). This allows us to not only align our sympathies with them but be primed to watch them closer for the little moments where the humor is actually to be found.
But this growing personal closeness to the material also has its obvious issues. It doesnt help matters that character based humor has a tendency to develop rabid fandoms around them, as people might begin to identify too closely with characters that (in real life) would be obnoxious losers. This leads to lots of irritating hyperbole about how said film is the greatest of all time, and lots of dialogue quoting, and fan conventions and making those left on the outside even more resentful for 'not getting it'. Because that shit can be deeply hateable. And might make one disinclined to try and join the kind of cult mentality the film seems to cause. I certainly resisted for a long time because nothing makes me turn in the opposite direction faster than a person in real life quoting the film as if it's the ****ing bible.
So basically everyone is both right and wrong about this movie. We all should be ashamed