Hi I saw this statement and found it pretty odd. I wanted to hear your opinion on it more.
The point is that Bond is a misogynist, and kind of a sociopath. He later lets that same girl get murdered and he doesn't even feel remorse.
Are you talking about a specific Bond/movie? Because these statements couldn't be more incorrect.
in several of the films Bond goes well out of his way to save the females, even risking his own life (ex. Dr. No, The Spy Who Loved Me, etc) - Bond never purposely lets any woman be killed in any movie I remember. He also goes well out of his way to save others by thwarting evil conspiracies (without any strong material or financial incentive - as an MI6 agent he'd only receive a fairly modest salary for all his troubles).
While there are multiple instances of Bond saving various women across the series, he also has his fair share of failures. In
Moonraker he sleeps with one of Drax's female employees so as to convince her to help him steal Drax's secrets - when Drax finds out, he has the employee mauled to death by dogs. That's either an instance of incompetence or malevolent indifference on Bond's part. As stated previously, there are also instances of misogynistic actions as Bond will occasionally hit a woman or threaten her with physical violence (such as saying he'll break Maud Adams' arm while interrogating her in
The Man with the Golden Gun). This happens frequently enough so that it can't be an isolated incident. Also, it's debatable just how much of Bond's motive for thwarting conspiracies has to do with the intangible reward of saving innocent lives. It's his job, after all - what's he going to do, not do it? I imagine salary's not much of an issue when he lives off an MI6 expense account during his missions, and when is he ever not on a mission?
If you could post the scene from Skyfall where he "let" her get murdered I'd like to see it, because I don't remember him intentionally letting her get murdered at all.
The scene in question involves Bond and the bad guy playing William Tell with a shot glass of whiskey instead of an apple and antique one-shot pistols instead of bows. The fact that he apparently waits for the bad guy to fire his own one-shot pistol (killing the woman in the process) before effortlessly defeating his enemies does seem questionable. The Editing Room's parody said it best
HENCHMEN take DANIEL OUTSIDE where BERENICE is tied to a statue thing.
BERENICE MARLOHE
Oh thank goodness, you're alive. Now you can overpower everyone and save me, right?
DANIEL CRAIG
Not quite. These goons are just sliiiiightly too well armed. Maybe if they had one fewer bullet I could take them.
BERENICE MARLOHE
One? That's all? But why would they have exactly one fewer...
(realizes)
...oh, you *******.
JAVIER fires his GUN at BERENICE who presumably DIES but of course they can't actually SHOW us because we are poor delicate fainting wisps of creatures who of our own free will just paid MONEY to see A JAMES BOND MOVIE FOR CHRISSAKE I THINK WE WERE AWARE SOMEONE MIGHT GET HURT.
DANIEL CRAIG
That's better!
(defeats all bad guys)
Phew. It may look like I won without breaking a sweat, but trust me, if they'd had that one extra bullet, hoo boy!
So yeah.
As far as the "sociopath cliam" - that sounds more like a "pop culture" definition such as one you'd see in a "Facebook quiz" more than any real clinical definition, and seems like a pretty hateful statement as well.
Having a visible lack of emotions for one, doesn't equate to "having no emotions" - a person in a field such as military or secret agency for example would be trained not to become attached or show emotions because it's necessary to do their job; people with some psychiatric conditions (ex. high functioning autism) or from more reserved cultures (ex. Japan) also display less visible emotions.
So this statement strikes me as very ignorant, since by the same standard any military veteran or police officer would automatically be a sociopath according to "armchair psychology".
The actual psychiatric diagnosis for sociopathy (according to "The Sociopath Next Door" by Martha Stout) requires that a person demonstrate a pattern of aggressive or harmful actions against others for personal gain. Simply "not showing emotions" would not fit the criteria, so you're basically inventing your own definitions and presenting them as Gospel here.
I'm not about to get into a debate as to whether or not Bond is a sociopath because it does get thrown around and misused an awful lot. What makes Bond fit the supposed definition of the sociopath that you outlined in the last paragraph is how his harmful behaviour is being directed towards villains courtesy of his superiors at MI6, thus giving him an acceptable outlet for his more dangerous tendencies. They naturally want to capitalise on his ability to kill without remorse in the missions that they assign him. The movies (especially the Craig ones) try to show him struggling with his emotions from time to time so as to counter such claims that he is a sociopath, but it's debatable as to how well they work.
I missed that scene, but I think it's without a doubt the creators weren't implying that he raped anyone. There were rumors that some quote by the villain in Skyfall was implying that Bond was gay too - and I think they're equally nonsense.
Of course the filmmakers would never deliberately imply that their hero raped anybody (at least, I hope not), but it does seem awfully fishy because the back-story for the woman in question involves her spending most of her life as a sex slave, so for Bond's response to that revelation to be taking the next available chance to have sex with her comes across as grossly insensitive at best. There's no confirmation as to whether or not Bond is gay - if anything, the villain's just trying to intimidate him by any means necessary and Bond's response is out of defiant bravado.