I Remember Mama
“What do you have to do that’s so important?”
“I have to chloroform a cat!”
(Spoilers, I suppose)
This movie reminded me of two things. The first is the TV show The Waltons. I don’t mean this as a pejorative comparison at all: I grew up with the Waltons and when it was good it was good. There’s the large, poor but good family, the eldest, a writer looking back on their childhood with all its quirks and life lessons (there’s even Ellen Corby who played the Walton Grandma as a timid aunt). As a film this doesn’t have time to get tiresome and this slice of nostalgic life is heartwarming and heartrending, sentimental perhaps but never sickly sweet. The second is Meet Me In St. Louis - a similar nostalgic look back to a simpler time. But while that is a lush, colourful musical version, this is much plainer, quieter, focusing on poorer people but still with that same emphasis on family.
A couple of my favourite things: that the cat is called Uncle Elizabeth! Mama’s concern that, “It’s not good for her to grow up believing I can fix everything.”
WARNING: "I Remember Mama" spoilers below
Uncle Chris introducing Mama to his wife on his deathbed.
Uncle Chris introducing Mama to his wife on his deathbed.
The only thing I didn’t like so much was Mama approaching the famous author, as it made me cringe a little. Although even here, the humour levels it out with Mama finding the recipe for goulash. Throughout, the tone shifts deftly between humour and sadness: Uncle Chris’s account book throws a new light on his earlier, humourous claim to be a better physician than any doctor. It’s also very quiet in its triumphant moments, no big melodramatic moments.
There are more visually impressive films out there, but I could have easily watched another hour of this family just living their lives. I can’t believe I’d never heard of it before, although I’ve since noticed it on a couple of ‘best of’ lists out there. A wonderful film.