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Originally Posted by SamsoniteDelilah
Are you saying this is torture?
I'm saying that torture might be needed.......
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Originally Posted by Tacitus
I'm saying that torture might be needed.......



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Do I have to call myself Chicagofrog though???
Can Storm Siren be my safe word???
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Originally Posted by Sedai
.... After a few more days have gone by and I have re-read all this stuff, she just over-reacted. Mayhap it's time to lock this thread and move on...
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Originally Posted by SamsoniteDelilah
Yes, he did apologize and nobody seems to have a gripe with him, but you chimed in at that point to suggest that we americans (and since I was the one american who'd reacted to his choice of words, I'm thinking that meant me) were too dull to understand his meaning. This was not the case, as he clearly stated that his usage of the word "elitist" was "bad" when he said it.


"Hate"? You are overblowing the whole thing, in a very transparent attempt to paint the reaction as irrational. I certainly don't hate adidasss. I found his description to be not only inaccurate, but insulting to people who have been nice to him. I'm glad to see that he simply chose the wrong word, and that he is aware that people have welcomed him here. It is you who chose to be rude, and it's very clear that you're doing so under the guise of not liking americans.

The definition of "elite" is as you have given it, a non-judgemental term. But the definition of "elitist" is as follows, per www.dictionary.com:
e·lit·ism or é·lit·ism ( P ) Pronunciation Key (-ltzm, -l-)
n.
The belief that certain persons or members of certain classes or groups deserve favored treatment by virtue of their perceived superiority, as in intellect, social status, or financial resources.

The sense of entitlement enjoyed by such a group or class.
Control, rule, or domination by such a group or class.

So, not only is the standard definition of the word insulting, but he knew his usage of the word would be.

Don't try and change it around now, it's all clearly visable upthread.



Utter crap. This is, ironically, exactly what you are doing.


That's great. You implied that others don't.


Your rudeness has nothing to do with the Germans or "offensive" directors. Don't try and pull all these people in with you.
i just wanted to say ( if i may) that when i used the word elitist to describe the people who hang around here i never had a bad thought, i just couldn't think of a better word to describe knowledgeable people who like to hang around other knowledgeable people ( and i'm not trying to kiss anyone's ass with this post )...i later realized that the word does have negative connotations, mostly implying that elitists are condescending, which you people are not...nuff said?



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Originally Posted by adidasss
i just wanted to say ( if i may) that when i used the word elitist to describe the people who hang around here i never had a bad thought, i just couldn't think of a better word to describe knowledgeable people who like to hang around other knowledgeable people ( and i'm not trying to kiss anyone's ass with this post )...i later realized that the word does have negative connotations, mostly implying that elitists are condescending, which you people are not...nuff said?
Totally cool.
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Originally Posted by adidasss
i just couldn't think of a better word to describe knowledgeable people who like to hang around other knowledgeable people
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history *is* moralizing
what about a thread to help Samsonite out of her emotional void (expression first used in this context by one of the best comics writer, Dave Sim (Cerebus))? lack of logics? forgetting things (in posts and private messages) she wrote one month earlier and saying she never did? hating about someone what she liked a lot some time before?

i'm writing this although i don't visit the forums to get bad vibes, but i'm not the one that's gonna shut up when a frustrated feminist attacks me.

i don't agree with Yoda on many things but at least his arguments are deep. it's just he believes in objectivity i guess. and i don't. and i've got better things to do than losing time on whether the apple or the pear tastes better.

adidass gave here another (nice) possible definition of that word i was defending. tis all about possibilities against taboos and prohibition. i'll always be for the first. against 99% of Americans, Germans and French all together if need be.
and yes, i do believe that insulting a whole country/state is better than insulting individuals, Yoda.
so ****** the US, ****** Germany and ****** France. and i love you SOME Americans, some French and some Germans. after all, i'm an elitist a$$hole.
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Originally Posted by chicagofrog
'll always be for the first. against 99% of Americans, Germans and French all together if need be.
and yes, i do believe that insulting a whole country/state is better than insulting individuals, Yoda.
so ****** the US, ****** Germany and ****** France. and i love you SOME Americans, some French and some Germans. after all, i'm an elitist a$$hole.
Turn your TV off.



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history *is* moralizing
Originally Posted by PimpDaShizzle V2.0
Turn your TV off.
NO! i like Korean TV crap too much.



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Originally Posted by chicagofrog
what about a thread to help Samsonite out of her emotional void (expression first used in this context by one of the best comics writer, Dave Sim (Cerebus))? lack of logics? forgetting things (in posts and private messages) she wrote one month earlier and saying she never did? hating about someone what she liked a lot some time before?
I never liked that you're a bigot.
Sorry if you were confused.



Originally Posted by chicagofrog
what about a thread to help Samsonite
Now Froggie don't you ever say anything nasty about our Sammi again or I will pull your legs of and eat them



Originally Posted by chicagofrog
i don't agree with Yoda on many things but at least his arguments are deep. it's just he believes in objectivity i guess. and i don't.
If you don't believe in objectivity, then you don't believe in anything, including what you just said (because it's subjective). Fun, eh?

Also, the mere act of arguing presupposes that there is an objective truth to convince the other person of. If there is no objective truth, then there is no right or wrong side to things, and thus all argument is rendered pointless. So are we to believe your words (in saying there is no objectivity), or your actions (arguing as if there is a real truth to convince people of)?


Originally Posted by chicagofrog
and yes, i do believe that insulting a whole country/state is better than insulting individuals, Yoda.
so ****** the US, ****** Germany and ****** France. and i love you SOME Americans, some French and some Germans. after all, i'm an elitist a$$hole.
Substitute "country/state" with the name of a race or ethnic group, and you'll see why Sam's calling you a bigot.



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history *is* moralizing
hei Nebbs,
1) i wish you'd take sides more indiscriminately
2) you've been so nice that i'd give you a frog leg of mine were you to be very very hungry

Originally Posted by Yoda
If you don't believe in objectivity, then you don't believe in anything, including what you just said (because it's subjective). Fun, eh?.
yeah fun. what i say applies to me, and only me. what you say, to me, just applies to you cuz there's no objectivity, except this one: there's NO objectivity. definitely not yours. i do believe in close-mindedness though. your little "fun eh?" don't impress me more than your thinking you're more intelligent, oh so! smart, etc. if it makes you happy, fine.
there's no discussion possible with someone who believes there's ONE truth. and even less with someone who thinks he's got the truth.
fun eh?

Also, the mere act of arguing presupposes that there is an objective truth to convince the other person of.
yes, but only one. that words don't have any inherent meaning, and that everything is subjective. and things are what your eyes show they are, only... your eyes.
all you're coming with is the same typical problem represented by christianity/western-american democracy/taboo words/puritanism, all "theories" based on one sole truth and prohibitions, that began AD 0 and kept brainwashing people too many centuries already.
i don't even hope something could change you. don't expect in return, i'm gonna be easy to brainwash like in your schools.

then there is no right or wrong side to things
the Bible again. "right" and "wrong" as universal rules. dumb, stupid, puritan, disgusting. your point of view, keep it. i don't buy it, and don't want it for free either.

So are we to believe your words (in saying there is no objectivity), or your actions (arguing as if there is a real truth to convince people of)?
see above. no contradiction.

Substitute "country/state" with the name of a race or ethnic group, and you'll see why Sam's calling you a bigot
1) i can do that. i'm not the one with taboos here!
2) a word is a word, yep. first, i don't even have to answer to her, it's like if after talking politics i'd call her "nazi" or whatever, which has nothing to do with the subject. (note that your country and Germany are specialists of this base technique, since no one can criticize Israel without being called an antisemitist). i mean it was meant to insult, not to reason and argue. (i've seen women are good at that, Sam, you're another clicheed proof, nothing more). secondly, funny i get to hear that from the most bigot country in the world. thirdly, i'd swear "bigot" after the definition would rather designate people who believe, like you, there's not subjective truths, but one objective truth, and they're the happy ones to have it. plus they hate or disrespect or insult you for having another view.

it sucks.



Originally Posted by chicagofrog
yeah fun. what i say applies to me, and only me. what you say, to me, just applies to you cuz there's no objectivity, except this one: there's NO objectivity. definitely not yours. i do believe in close-mindedness though. your little "fun eh?" don't impress me more than your thinking you're more intelligent, oh so! smart, etc. if it makes you happy, fine.
"no objectivity, except this one." That about sums it up; no absolutes...uh, except that there are no absolutes. But how have you discerned that, I wonder? How would you arrive at that conclusion? You must have picked it randomly, because you could not discern the existence of an objective truth if you did not have other objective truths, even small ones about the validity of reason or deduction, or the inherent evil of human suffering, to lead you do it. So either you believe in other things as well, or else you chose your ideology out of a hat.


Originally Posted by chicagofrog
there's no discussion possible with someone who believes there's ONE truth. and even less with someone who thinks he's got the truth.
Why? You say this is the case, but you're offering absolutely no basis for it. In fact, logic dictates the opposite is true, and I've already told you why: because no meaningful discussion is possible with someone who doesn't believe there's a truth to get at in the first place, which would be the entire point of such a discussion. Would you argue with someone over the best way to get to a place they didn't believe existed at all?


Originally Posted by chicagofrog
i don't even hope something could change you. don't expect in return, i'm gonna be easy to brainwash like in your schools.
It's good not to be brainwashed, but not if you can only avoid it by never believing in anything at all. That's like deciding it's better to never talk to avoid ever mispronouncing a word.


Originally Posted by chicagofrog
the Bible again. "right" and "wrong" as universal rules. dumb, stupid, puritan, disgusting. your point of view, keep it. i don't buy it, and don't want it for free either.
I fail to see what purpose, if any, these sentences serve. I'll note, though, that though you have some negative emotional reaction to words like "puritan" and "taboo," not everyone shares those connotations, so simply invoking them doesn't really further whatever argument you're making.

So, The Bible is "disgusting" because it believes some things are "right" and some things "wrong." Is that objectively true? Would you say The Bible is "wrong" and your disgust for it "right"? If not, and if it is simply your preference, why try to talk me out of mine? Which should I believe; that your view is superior and I should adopt it, or that we all have our own preferences and subjective opinions and therefore no one can say which is better?


Originally Posted by chicagofrog
see above. no contradiction.
You'll have to point to me the part in which you reconciled the obvious, blatant contradiction in your worldview. I don't see it. Must be that damned Western/taboo/puritan/Christian brainwashing again.

I'll try explaining it once more, in simple terms: you say there is no objective truth, yet make many claims that you believe are true, and expound significant time and energy to convince me of their truth. If these things that you believe were not truths, but merely preferences of yours, what reason would you have for trying to persuade me of them? And even if you for some odd reason enjoyed the mere act of persuasion for its own sake, from what basis would you claim that they are superior to my own, given that you deny the existence of any objectivity? Without objectivity, my beliefs cannot be wrong, or even bad; just different from your own.

Your response to this was "I'm only trying to convince you of ONE objective truth." But that's not true. We've argued about countless things, in terms of politics, society, and culture, and you've made dozens of forceful statements on each. This is not by any means the only thing you've tried to convince me of. And even if it was, how many objective truths you're trying to convince me of is irrelevant to the point being made; it can be one, or it can be ten-thousand. The same counter-arguments apply.


Originally Posted by chicagofrog
1) i can do that. i'm not the one with taboos here!
Great. So do it. Defend that same statement directed at a specific race of people, rather than a country. I'm not saying you cannot do it; I'm simply asking that you own up to exactly what it is you're saying, because I think you're obfuscating it.

So let's shine some light on just where your beliefs have taken you, ideologically: you think that it's okay to insult an entire race of people, rather than individuals within that race for their individual actions. So my question is: why? Isn't the connection between races largely an artificial one? Don't their circumstances and personal decisions define who they are to a much greater degree than any biological similiarity they may have with their race, and don't they therefore deserve to be judged individually, rather than generalized about?

These questions are largely rhetorical, because we both know the answer to all of them is "yes" to anyone but an ignorant, backwards man. So then how have you gotten yourself into a position where you must defend it? Simple: by setting up a reasonable thing (voluntary social taboos, which are really just collective opinion) as an unmitigated bad, and opposing it at every turn no matter what positions you have to take to do so. You've turned yourself into a puppet; all I have to do is declare something "taboo" and you rush to take the other side, no matter how indefensible the thing I'm condemning is. The result is that you defend the indefensible (such as a racist worldview, or a monarchial political system). Ironically, by being so open-minded, you open yourself up to more manipulation and restrictions than the people you have such an obvious disdain for.


Originally Posted by chicagofrog
2) a word is a word, yep. first, i don't even have to answer to her, it's like if after talking politics i'd call her "nazi" or whatever, which has nothing to do with the subject. (note that your country and Germany are specialists of this base technique, since no one can criticize Israel without being called an antisemitist). i mean it was meant to insult, not to reason and argue. (i've seen women are good at that, Sam, you're another clicheed proof, nothing more). secondly, funny i get to hear that from the most bigot country in the world. thirdly, i'd swear "bigot" after the definition would rather designate people who believe, like you, there's not subjective truths, but one objective truth, and they're the happy ones to have it. plus they hate or disrespect or insult you for having another view.

it sucks.
I don't see what point you're making, so I'll simply make note of this: whether or not my country is largely comprised of bigots has no direct bearing on a) whether or not I am a bigot as well, and b) whether or not you are a bigot, which is the accusation at hand. Even if I did come from a country full of bigots, it wouldn't change the fact that you appear to be one. Your response, then, is ad hominem.



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Originally Posted by chicagofrog
...the Bible again. "right" and "wrong" as universal rules. dumb, stupid, puritan, disgusting. your point of view, keep it. i don't buy it, and don't want it for free either...
Now that I understand that words have no objective meanings, I've discerned that what the frog meant by this statement was actually as follows: "Rose bushes, while difficult to grow, reap rich rewards for those willing to put in the effort." And I agree with him.



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Originally Posted by Yoda
But how have you discerned that, I wonder? How would you arrive at that conclusion?
first, better argumentation than in the previous mails, bravo Yoda, i mean it.

looking around with open eyes, reading books and watching movies, observing the movement of the stars, etc etc... everything is a proof of impermanence and subjectivity.
not listening to school education's lies helps too, and getting informed/making your opinion on your own permits to detect those lies, mostly well hidden, even in official dictionaries, to put one example.

or the inherent evil of human suffering
human condition like anything samsaric is suffering. necessary, not evil.

else you chose your ideology out of a hat.
we all chose one, didn't we? i could ask you the same question.

logic dictates the opposite is true, and I've already told you why: because no meaningful discussion is possible with someone who doesn't believe there's a truth to get at in the first place, which would be the entire point of such a discussion. Would you argue with someone over the best way to get to a place they didn't believe existed at all?
i understand that argument of yours. but if there's only one truth whatever the question is, only one person is right, absolutely right, and that position of yours doesn't leave any free room for other interpretation of facts, history, theories, ideologies, ... so why at the end would you be willing to discuss? just to prove how right you are and how wrong the others? when one does, shouldn't that person always try to learn something too? to me it seems more humble and, to use one of your words, "right", than always being persuaded you detain the truth and others don't, always wanting (and thinking you're able to be) the teacher and never the pupil.

any system of thought pushed to its extremes shows some weakness, mine like yours (although you're the one that'll try to persuade others of the contrary, your system of course is perfect and has no failure at all... ).
i chose mine since i prefer to have one limit of tolerance rather than 1000 different ones. "everything is relative/subjective" has one sole limit of tolerance/adversary: its opposite: "every single thing is objective (and thus, objectively right or wrong)".
yours has 1000 limits of tolerance; if one political system is right, all the others are wrong, if christianity is right, all other religions are wrong (or at best, they detain some petty elements of truth that only your religion has entirely), if one word is offensive, no free interpretation of that word is possible, etc...
and since there's one absolute truth, this is true everywhere, anywhere, any time, objectively.
that's exactly the system of thought i've been struggling against all my life.

not if you can only avoid it by never believing in anything at all.
i do believe in some things. i wouldn't try to convince people of my opinions though, except the "limit of tolerance" of my system, that begins where their tolerance ends too.

that though you have some negative emotional reaction to words like "puritan" and "taboo," not everyone shares those connotations
that's exactly how it all began, with the word "elitist". i can use your own words: not everyone shares the connotations given the word "elitist". plus, come to Europe and tell anyone you're a puritan (whether you really are or not, just to test), and you'll see that yes, everyone here does connotate that word negatively. and try and call someone puritan here, it's an (objective ) insult.
you fail to see how subjective your comments are, and how your attacks can just as well be applied to you and your convictions.

So, The Bible is "disgusting" because it believes some things are "right" and some things "wrong."
i didn't call the Bible disgusting. but your system like the subjective!!! way it was read and interpreted by people, the church... and missionaries is one proof more that tolerance ends where your (and the missionaries') conviction that there's only one truth begins. in my system of thought, you wouldn't kill infidels or torture people that don't accept your faith, you would learn from the Cherokees and Apaches and their religion and not force your Bible upon them, you would respect the fact that some cultural systems are patriarcal or matriarcal, monarchic or democratic, Buddhist or Muslim or Avestic, that the men in some tribes in Africa can have 3 wives just as there are other tribes where women can have 3 husbands, ...... etc etc, and you wouldn't see any contradiction in believing in something, choosing your way of life and moral principles etc, while still being able to respect other ways. i don't want 3 wives, i don't wanna be to my wife one husband next to 2 other ones, i believe in faithfullness and monogamy, i do NOT believe in the power of majorities or that because most think so, it makes it true, that is i do not believe in democracy and would prefer some sort of monarchy (which only your close-mindedness makes you see as "objectively" despicable - i don't care, first, since objectivity doesn't exist, second, because history in many cases proves you wrong)... the difference with you is i don't wanna change/convince/baptize anyone (especially against their will, like missionaries did all over the world, like the French revolutionaries/bourgeois (a fact too often forgotten) did in France and Britanny and Savoie (nope, they're not the same country!) and the US still try to do in Iraq and will keep doing so etc...).
some of your friends of thought thru history even called that "giving us the honor of being educated by them, to be shown the truth... rings a bell??)

If not, and if it is simply your preference, why try to talk me out of mine?
did you actually read my post? i know you did, so, do you interpret things so differently than me there's no use in even using the same language?
when one says: "keep you Bible for you", is he trying to convince you into adopting another religion? doesn't sound so to me, or i would have said, like your Xtians throughout history, "burn your sacred book(s), destroy your idols and adopt the only one true god".

or that we all have our own preferences and subjective opinions and therefore no one can say which is better?
...uffffffff, so much energy to come to an intelligent conclusion...

If these things that you believe were not truths, but merely preferences of yours, what reason would you have for trying to persuade me of them?
must really be the Xtian point of view that when you talk to people, you're trying to convince them you're right...
again, you make the mistake of applying to me a system of thought that's yours.
1) yep, they're preferences of mine, like yours are nothing more than preferences of yours
2) the only thing i ever wanted to convince you of, is not to adopt my political, religious, social... opinions, but to see that yours can be right somewhere, some time, for some people and peoples, like mine can be right somewhere, some time, for some people and peoples.
of course, in your system, the contradiction is too big: since there's one truth only and one god, how could several truths and several gods coexist in the same universe at the same time? oh, sorry, i forgot: for you there is necessarily only one universe too!

from what basis would you claim that they are superior to my own
all the time, repeating and repeating, there's no superior system of thoughts. i would add there's one though, that has been the cause for exterminations, wars, religious intolerance, censorship on TV and in movies and comics and novels, etc... and this one is not mine!
in Europe, as far as TV/other media censorship is concerned, we call that an insulting word: "puritanism".
try and apply all your questions to yourself first.

Without objectivity, my beliefs cannot be wrong, or even bad; just different from your own.
wow, if you actually could think that very simple, tolerant way, we would all part friendly........ and so would it have been all over the world in all those centuries and we would have been spared most of the wars... and boring TV political contests...

We've argued about countless things, in terms of politics, society, and culture, and you've made dozens of forceful statements on each. This is not by any means the only thing you've tried to convince me of.
we could keep talking about 1000 more things, you're the one that thinks he's right and the other(s) wrong, and the one that wanna persuade other people, infidels and pagans and opponents to democracy, of the one unfathomable truth (yours). in your system, there are 1000 things to persuade of, on each single subject. in mine, whether we talk politics or religions or whatever, there's one only: that i am as right as you are, depending on the eyes of the beholder (place/time/country/ ethny...).

And even if it was, how many objective truths you're trying to convince me of is irrelevant to the point being made; it can be one, or it can be ten-thousand. The same counter-arguments apply.
idem here. i take your sentence. you see? some things you say i do agree with completely. (like two citations above too)

Great. So do it. Defend that same statement directed at a specific race of people, rather than a country.
the man's and woman's brain are biologically different.
Asian people cannot drink as much alcohol as White people, since they lack an enzym.
wouldn't i have added a scientific fact like the last one, and ended the sentence with "white people", i'd probably be sued for racism, right?

don't they therefore deserve to be judged individually, rather than generalized about?
it' bullsh!t to deny that there are constancies observable in each country, within races too, and the existence of individual differences doesn't contradict the existence of differences between peoples, races, countries, whether cultural, biological, etc... even the color of the skin influences the resistance to the sun and heat, thus having influences on the (cultural) way of life of different peoples. we now live in a world where such scientific facts are not to be mentioned since they could be related to that taboo word "race". how stupid is that?

The result is that you defend the indefensible (such as a racist worldview, or a monarchial political system).
define racism first, i know at least 3 definitions of that word, including the simplistic one found in dictionaries.
i could say "i don't know how democracy is defensible", and actually i don't, but in my system there may be one place, one time, one universe, where that system might not be so bad... i see how monarchy is, how weird einh? and who's close-minded here?

Ironically, by being so open-minded, you open yourself up to more manipulation and restrictions than the people you have such an obvious disdain for.
nope, i can still fight something, someone, some ideology, but knowing that it's a choice i've made, only a choice, not because i've got the only truth.
that's how old European pagans thought before the intolerance of judeochristianity was brought upon them at the edge of a sword.

Even if I did come from a country full of bigots, it wouldn't change the fact that you appear to be one. Your response, then, is ad hominem
so is yours, since i did say it depends on the definition and simply who you apply the word to. like, to me, you are the bigots, and there's not bigger bigotry than your way of thinking.