I don't really get your take on this. I don't see how times where sex is impossible or undesirable due to the pill send a conflicting message to the man. At least not to any reasonable man. I don't think many people are actually expecting '24/7' 'sex access'.
It really only applies to women who have side effects. For example, a woman doesn't feel "in-the-mood" because of nauseousness or some other side effect...yet she's taking something so sex is more readily accessible. The two just do not mesh.
Good grief people, I'm not actually advocating that the pill's only intention is so people can have sex like rabbits 24/7. Not that this wouldn't appeal to some people.
The point I am making is that the pill removes the possibility of children from the sexual act for the sake of making sex more accessible/worry-free. The 24/7 might have been an embellishment, yes, but the point is still valid. When there are less consequences from sex, people are, generally, going to want/have it more...yet the side-effects would be a deterrent going against this very claim.
No args against communication, but you seem to be ignoring the fact that NFP inherently involves periods where sex is unavailable too (or at least ones where traditional safe-sex approaches would be required on top). Don't really see how you're holding it up as superior on that score.
I'm not holding it up as superior but rather an equal alternative. NFP users would argue that the periods where they have to abstain builds sexual restraint and provides them with a time to explore other parts of their relationship, i.e. a time when a back rub is just a back rub and not a way of getting the other person in the sack.
Um, ok. Who's arguing that?
No one, I was just stating it for the hell of it.
It would be an intriguing stat tho. I'd be tempted to believe that any low divorce rate amongst NFP users might also suggest an existing 'social' predisposition. Which would dally near my 'suits some relationships but not others' hesitation to endorse it as fulsomely as you
Where did I say otherwise? I wholeheartedly agree with your statement that it will better suit some people, which is why I harped on the same line twice now; this system can really only apply to a married or committed couple.
Lighten up, John, I didn't accuse you of specifying anything. And yes, I know how the process works with the "constant/daily" checks. I also know it's human nature to get rushed and forgetful and not make the checks and it's also natural to get carried away and just say "To hell with it, I'll take the chance this one time!" There are just naturally too many things that can go wrong with the natural way. Personally, I put more trust in pills and plastic. But with pills you're counting on your partner to remember to take them, and I've learned the hard way that if a lady wants a baby (say because her sister you married a year later than her already has a baby) then it becomes very easy to "forget" a pill. You on the other hand know if you have a condom in your billfold--I'm more comfortable when I'm in charge of prevention since I'm more likely to take the necessary measures. But as anyone who ever used them knows too well, they too often tear or come off in the heat of the moment, leaving you unprotected. If you really want to exercise precaution, then the vasectomy scapel is a man's best friend.
If I sounded mean, I assure you that was not my intent. I was only hoping to make things clearer.