by request, i've decided to start a thread and post some of my stories on it...so i'll start out with this one...
this is a true story
Red Sunset on Gravestones or How To Avoid Getting Locked in a Cemetery Before Five
Back in the early 80’s, a show called “Barnum” played on Broadway. The show was loosely based on the life of showman P.T. Barnum, founder of the American Museum in New York and the Ringling Brothers, Barnum and Bailey circus. It starred British actor Jim Dale in the title role and, for a short time, Glenn Close, as his wife Charity.
Barnum was responsible for making famous a few names such as the Swedish Nightingale, Jenny Lind, and Jumbo the elephant. The most famous of all was a little person whose real name was Charles Stratton, also known by his stage name, General Tom Thumb.
It was his grave that we set out to look for one Sunday on a crisp autumn morning on a trip to Bridgeport, Connecticut where P.T. Barnum had lived.
We had gone for two reasons. The first reason was the show. We had seen a Saturday matinee of “Barnum”. Jim Dale was excellent in the title role and we just missed out on seeing some singer by the name of Glenn Close.
And our frequent trips to a town called Port Jefferson didn’t help. There is a ferry that runs from Port Jeff, NY to Bridgeport, CT. We used to take that ferry back and forth in the summer months because it was inexpensive and a good way to keep cool. We would always see the Barnum Museum from the boat and wondered what it would be like to visit.
The first stop was the Barnum Museum, which contains special exhibits about the life of P.T. Barnum. Included in these exhibits were some information on his American Museum, which opened in New York City in 1841 and burned to the ground in 1865. There were photographs and information of the exhibits in that museum, the many he had made famous, from the Feejee Mermaid to the Cardiff Giant, which unfortunately were both hoaxes.
There was also a miniature recreation of the original circus that Barnum had begun before teaming with James Bailey.
There were a few photos of Iranistan; the large Arabian style mansion that he lived in with his wife, Charity and his three daughters until it burned to the ground. Since it is no longer there, we went to the spot where it had been located and tried to imagine that it was still there and what it would look like.
Our next stop was the Mountain Grove Cemetery, where P.T. Barnum and Charles S. Stratton, General Tom Thumb, were buried.
We stopped at Barnum’s grave first. It wasn’t very far from the entrance and it wasn’t hard to find. It was standing by itself in the center of the cemetery, a high gravestone that came to a point. It reminded me of Cleopatra’s Needle in Central Park. There were inscriptions on either side of the stone.
Then we set off to find General Tom Thumb’s gravestone. The information that we had explained that it could be found easily as it had a statue of the man atop the headstone.
There were no markers telling us which way to go to his gravesite as there had been with P.T. Barnum, so we rode around looking for it.
Not realizing the time, we continued to look, ignoring cemetery signs that warned us quite clearly that the gates would be locked at 5:00.
As the skies began to darken, we realized that it was late in the afternoon. Even though we hadn’t found Tom Thumb’s headstone, we still had a two-hour drive in front of us. With reluctance and utter disappointment, we knew that we would have to leave and so we set out to look for an open gate.
We came upon one giant gate that was closed and moved on to another. We rushed to the next one, hoping that it would be open.
It wasn’t.
It continued on like this for six or seven gates before we stopped the car. We were confused and a little scared.
We hadn’t the slightest idea of what to do next. It wasn’t five o’clock yet and there were all these thoughts running through our heads. Maybe they closed earlier on a Sunday. After all, no one else had been there as far as we knew. We hadn’t seen anyone.
There were no cell phones at the time and we couldn’t reach a pay phone. We looked for a guard or a worker, someone, anyone, but to no avail. The guard booths were empty.
Rob and I looked at each other. It was Sunday and we had to go to work the next day. Can you imagine the excuse we would have to give our bosses? Who would believe us when we told them that we had gotten locked in a cemetery in Bridgeport, Connecticut?
At this point, we were determined that there must be way out, so we started the car again and prayed that we would find an open gate. It was now after five and we were getting a little nervous. After two more tries, we came upon the two main gates of the cemetery.
One was closed; the other was wide open.
We rode out of there as fast as we could and didn’t look back. We realized that we had been lucky. We stopped for dinner and headed back to New York.
Since that time, we have only been to Bridgeport to take the ferry back to Port Jefferson when we return from our trips to New Hampshire. It is more expensive, but it is an easier ride and there is no traffic to get stuck in. But we have not been back to the cemetery and have not yet found Tom Thumb’s gravesite. I don’t think that we ever will.
this is a true story
Red Sunset on Gravestones or How To Avoid Getting Locked in a Cemetery Before Five
Back in the early 80’s, a show called “Barnum” played on Broadway. The show was loosely based on the life of showman P.T. Barnum, founder of the American Museum in New York and the Ringling Brothers, Barnum and Bailey circus. It starred British actor Jim Dale in the title role and, for a short time, Glenn Close, as his wife Charity.
Barnum was responsible for making famous a few names such as the Swedish Nightingale, Jenny Lind, and Jumbo the elephant. The most famous of all was a little person whose real name was Charles Stratton, also known by his stage name, General Tom Thumb.
It was his grave that we set out to look for one Sunday on a crisp autumn morning on a trip to Bridgeport, Connecticut where P.T. Barnum had lived.
We had gone for two reasons. The first reason was the show. We had seen a Saturday matinee of “Barnum”. Jim Dale was excellent in the title role and we just missed out on seeing some singer by the name of Glenn Close.
And our frequent trips to a town called Port Jefferson didn’t help. There is a ferry that runs from Port Jeff, NY to Bridgeport, CT. We used to take that ferry back and forth in the summer months because it was inexpensive and a good way to keep cool. We would always see the Barnum Museum from the boat and wondered what it would be like to visit.
The first stop was the Barnum Museum, which contains special exhibits about the life of P.T. Barnum. Included in these exhibits were some information on his American Museum, which opened in New York City in 1841 and burned to the ground in 1865. There were photographs and information of the exhibits in that museum, the many he had made famous, from the Feejee Mermaid to the Cardiff Giant, which unfortunately were both hoaxes.
There was also a miniature recreation of the original circus that Barnum had begun before teaming with James Bailey.
There were a few photos of Iranistan; the large Arabian style mansion that he lived in with his wife, Charity and his three daughters until it burned to the ground. Since it is no longer there, we went to the spot where it had been located and tried to imagine that it was still there and what it would look like.
Our next stop was the Mountain Grove Cemetery, where P.T. Barnum and Charles S. Stratton, General Tom Thumb, were buried.
We stopped at Barnum’s grave first. It wasn’t very far from the entrance and it wasn’t hard to find. It was standing by itself in the center of the cemetery, a high gravestone that came to a point. It reminded me of Cleopatra’s Needle in Central Park. There were inscriptions on either side of the stone.
Then we set off to find General Tom Thumb’s gravestone. The information that we had explained that it could be found easily as it had a statue of the man atop the headstone.
There were no markers telling us which way to go to his gravesite as there had been with P.T. Barnum, so we rode around looking for it.
Not realizing the time, we continued to look, ignoring cemetery signs that warned us quite clearly that the gates would be locked at 5:00.
As the skies began to darken, we realized that it was late in the afternoon. Even though we hadn’t found Tom Thumb’s headstone, we still had a two-hour drive in front of us. With reluctance and utter disappointment, we knew that we would have to leave and so we set out to look for an open gate.
We came upon one giant gate that was closed and moved on to another. We rushed to the next one, hoping that it would be open.
It wasn’t.
It continued on like this for six or seven gates before we stopped the car. We were confused and a little scared.
We hadn’t the slightest idea of what to do next. It wasn’t five o’clock yet and there were all these thoughts running through our heads. Maybe they closed earlier on a Sunday. After all, no one else had been there as far as we knew. We hadn’t seen anyone.
There were no cell phones at the time and we couldn’t reach a pay phone. We looked for a guard or a worker, someone, anyone, but to no avail. The guard booths were empty.
Rob and I looked at each other. It was Sunday and we had to go to work the next day. Can you imagine the excuse we would have to give our bosses? Who would believe us when we told them that we had gotten locked in a cemetery in Bridgeport, Connecticut?
At this point, we were determined that there must be way out, so we started the car again and prayed that we would find an open gate. It was now after five and we were getting a little nervous. After two more tries, we came upon the two main gates of the cemetery.
One was closed; the other was wide open.
We rode out of there as fast as we could and didn’t look back. We realized that we had been lucky. We stopped for dinner and headed back to New York.
Since that time, we have only been to Bridgeport to take the ferry back to Port Jefferson when we return from our trips to New Hampshire. It is more expensive, but it is an easier ride and there is no traffic to get stuck in. But we have not been back to the cemetery and have not yet found Tom Thumb’s gravesite. I don’t think that we ever will.