I think they're relatable in the same way any epic tale is: inasmuch as it uses them as stand-ins for real human experience. I don't need an Arc Reactor to empathize with the weight of power and the responsibility that comes with it, the necessity of sacrifice, etc. The Lord of the Rings is a more respectable version of the same thing, but it is still mostly the same thing.
That said, I'm making the comparison to demonstrate to the OP that it's normal human drama underneath every movie that works, whether it has the window dressing of "save the city/world" on top of it or not. And as you allude to, on a purely superficial level it seems like it's the big budget action films that should be interrogated here more than the character dramas which are, at least on the surface level, way closer to our lived experiences.
Big budget films are more accessible because they use the superficial stakes as a way to get people to that basic empathy, but yeah, I think the more you mature, the less you need that. Even if you can still enjoy the blockbusters what they are/different reasons, as I do.
That said, I'm making the comparison to demonstrate to the OP that it's normal human drama underneath every movie that works, whether it has the window dressing of "save the city/world" on top of it or not. And as you allude to, on a purely superficial level it seems like it's the big budget action films that should be interrogated here more than the character dramas which are, at least on the surface level, way closer to our lived experiences.
Big budget films are more accessible because they use the superficial stakes as a way to get people to that basic empathy, but yeah, I think the more you mature, the less you need that. Even if you can still enjoy the blockbusters what they are/different reasons, as I do.