He didn't say it was exclusive to Asian cinema.
He literally did:
While I'm aware of the influence and importance of Asian cinema It just isn't something that I can enjoy. The problem is that I don't understand the language, or, to be more precisely, the intonation thereof. And also the body language, come to think of it.
I can't distinguish between good and bad Japanese performances because it looks and sounds the same to me, especially the classics. It's possible that the modern versions are a little more doable.
If you mean he might also find, say, African cinema hard to get due to the things listed above, it might be true, but I don't understand what your overarching point is, then. He himself started talking about Asian cinema and his reasons for not enjoying it. Saying he might also have such difficulties with other kinds of cinema is beside the point. All my points stand. You can develop your tastes, you can expose yourself to more films of a given kind to get them and therefore develop your taste, and whatever my last point was.
But seriously, you can't work backwards from your premise of it being tantamount to criticize other people who do not share that premise.
I can. I can use any premises I want. But that's beside the point again, as it doesn't have to be the most important thing in our lives to still be important. And it should be important to cinephiles. This is a movie forum, after all, so you'd expect it to ALSO have cinephiles, not ONLY people with a fleeting interest in movies. So, it's not perfectly out of line to expect somebody to be a cinephile and if not, then to at least point them in the right direction of becoming one. I understand I might not be very pedagogical about it, but tough love is sometimes the right love, and I was pretty easy on the guy, anyway, trying to point him to the reason why he reportedly doesn't get these films (but now it seems to me like he doesn't even watch them at all!).
I was thinking an obsessive zealot versus a normal person trying to appreciate art pragmatically in the midst of a life rich in other ways, but to each their own.
Yes, I am a zealot, and I have a hard time imagining a true cinephile who isn't at least a little bit of a zealot. I respect those who watch fewer films and thus carefully pick only great ones, but I believe they're still zealots, just in other ways, i.e. in how they champion those great films they love and spite the bad ones (and sometimes the people who love the bad ones, too, while they're at it). Even if they're kind and understanding, exposing yourself to so much good does things to you, it elevates your standards, so to speak, creating a barrier with people who watch weaker films, and with the people for whom cinema is just one of many ways.
There's definitely a form of obsession and zealousness in a passion. That's the very point of a passion. It's not a mere hobby - it's your life. It consumes you, it becomes a part of your life, it's all you think about, all you talk about. It can be less severe... you might also have a meaningful life, and other hobbies, but they're just hobbies... because you can only have one true passion, one thing that makes you forget all else, that makes your heart race and your mind crave.
There'll always be a discrepancy and misunderstanding between those with a passion and those with just a keen interest in something, so the only way for one side is to try to make others find the passion, and for the other side to try and show the passionate that there are other things in life - the very thing you're trying to do now. The thing is, the passionate understand this, and they willingly give up other things for their passion. They don't have to, but they choose to. There's that quote from a Yamada film (not sure which one atm) that life is just choosing what we will regret. Will I regret dedicating my life to cinema? I don't think so, but even if, I'm glad I'm able to dedicate it to just that, to my passion. I could've done much worse, like becoming a hip-hop music lover. I listened to over 260 hip-hop albums, you know. Enough for me to be sure I hate the genre. Now, how many 'Asian' films has
LeBoyWondeur watched?
The main thing is to argue honestly and/or from a shared premise. Otherwise the argument always just boils down to "why aren't you more like ME?"
I imagine it might be cool to share a premise because then it's easier to convince your interlocutor to your position. I'm more of a believer in just giving them some clues, and leaving it up to them to discover their filmwatching is far from perfect, and there's room for improvement and branching out.
It's always hilarious to me that I say such obvious things and they're always seen as controversial here. Maybe it's not the things I say, but the way I say them. I don't mince my words, but why should I?
Every time someone says "you should do more X," whatever X is, I wanna ask: what should they do less of to make room for it?
Anything else, even watching fewer films you usually watch and instead watching more of the "challenging" ones. This isn't a serious question for anybody who's serious about cinema, anyway. Maybe if you put something really special, like somebody you love or a new member of your family, then this can take precedence, but pretty much nothing else would or should for a cinephile. And besides, I think this is a false dilemma. As mentioned, you can watch fewer US films and watch Asian films instead, or just fit in an additional Asian film once a month every month. That's puny 12 Asian films in a year, but it's better than nothing. It all boils down to the aphorism: Where there's a will, there's a way.
What would you say to someone who said the same things to you about literally anything else, asking you why you didn't prioritize it?
Novels and cinema are two different art forms. A better analogy would be somebody reading just American literature and somebody asking why aren't you reading Asian literature, which would be a pretty good question, indeed!
it should be something about how this thing is worth prioritizing over some other thing, yeah? That'd be arguing from a shared premise.
Didn't I do just that here?
What if you just need a little bit of getting used to, a little bit of work to discover and fall in love with a new treasure trove of art?
I believe in deep-diving right away, right to the hardest, most challenging, and difficult stuff. The more challenging, the more rewarding in the end, and the more illuminating, pressing one to delve deeper. But maybe somebody prefers to take little steps and start slower. This is OK, too, if the outcome is somebody broadening their horizons.