First of all, I want to apologize to Yoda for being so insulting earlier. I have no excuse, but if I come up with a good one, I'll use it!
I'm sorry, Chris.
Originally posted by Toose
Okay... the caveat I will take with this is the in making the slaves in America a focal point. It's cutting nuts, and your viewpoint is valid, I do have issues with slavery being the sole responsibility of America.
Well slavery was pretty common in Europe, and Europeans came over to this continent, eventually creating the United States (with the help of slaves, of course). I wouldn't say I put the sole responsibility of slaves in America on America. Blaming all slavery in the world on America would be extraordinarily ignorant, in my opinion.
I will tell you that having lived in New York state then moving to the south it is a completely different world of race relations. The hate shown towards white folks by black folks here is way on the rise. I'm seeing reverse discrimination on a daily basis and no one is squeaking about it. I don't see how it's any better or different than the reverse of it but there sure is more tolerance of it.
I used to live in NYC and noticed a little racism against whites, but noticed a higher amount of disgust for that racism amongst African Americans. I certainly hope that hasn't changed too much.
As far as how bad reverse racism is perceived, I mostly agree. We obviously need to work to irradicate all racism; however, I think you would admit that whites being much larger in number than blacks in this country, and having much more power, makes white on black racism more powerful than black on white racism. I think that is one legitimate reason for the different outlook on the two types of racism. Having said that, we should still try to treat all racism with the same amount of intolerance, in my opinion.
Hmmm... I don't know about this. I hear what you're saying but I remain unconvinced that we are a product of evolution. I see the similarities but I don't buy them. We have instincts... we are capable of thought but I don't think one will ever be exclusive of the other, in fact I think they require the presence of each other to exist in a synergistic relationship. I DO think some people are more prone to thought and reason and some are more prone to instinct but drawing a line and saying that we are one or the other is maybe stepping too far out there for me.
I don't say that, but every single instinct CAN be overcome by us. Are they usually? No. But if you choose to refrain from having any sex, you CAN do it. If you choose to refrain from eating, you CAN. No other animal on this planet can do that.
You don't have children, do you?
I'm helping to raise an 11 year-old girl. The most incredible thing I've ever played a part in.
Originally posted by Yoda
Good question.
I think it would be a good question directed at you as well, Chris.
Originally posted by Toose
Well, firstly I think the similarities in boys and girls at a young age are due to the fact that the hormones are not in swing until puberty. As soon as that engine starts the diffeences become obvious.
Absolutely. Once puberty starts, boys begin to produce more testosterone than girls, and girls begin to produce more estrogen than boys. The natural physical differnces start to get huge.
To me this underscores that the differences are inherent to gender...not to surroundings. ALL people are individual..some girls excel at sports, some boys do not... no biggie, that's what makes the world turn.
You haven't noticed how much more into sports girls are now, or that they are competing with boys MUCH more than they did say 50 years ago? That is society at work, not nature. Toys are a big part, but a girl can play with the same kind of toys a boy plays with, and still get much less encouragement to play sports by people she meets, tv shows and movies she watches, etc. Nice anecdote, but the girl I am helping to raise is the best running back in her intergender football league. As she gets older, the natural differences will get bigger and she will not be able to dominate like that.
I think you're on the right track overall. Acceptance of differences will be the paramount (tantamount(?) ) factor in healing wounds between human beings. Will it happen? Not without some huge event I'm afraid to open eyes to a much wider focus than they are accustomed to being opened.
Well, as I indicated, I believe we have made huge strides already. I hope we keep it up.