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Look, I'm not judging you - after all, I'm posting here myself, but maybe, just maybe, if you spent less time here and more time watching films, maybe, and I stress, maybe your taste would be of some value. Just a thought, ya know.
Does your voice modulate when you're on the phone?
I definitely have a "phone" voice. My normal speaking voice is kind of gruff so when I'm on the phone at work I try to smile and make it more pleasant. Unfortunately (or fortunately) the actual result is that I sound like a phone sex operator. Like I've seriously been told that I should do that for a living or be a late night radio DJ.
It's actually where my username comes from. At the first clinic I worked at, the manager told me that I should start a 900 number and call myself Miss Vicky. She used to always ask how much it was per minute when she'd call the office on her days off.
That's hilarious but I don't agree with it. I definitely have some sadistic tendencies but I also have a side that's protective and nurturing. I don't show it much, but it's there.
I've never given it any thought. I'd probably hate the sound of my own voice still.
And tell me honestly -- do you think it would be easier if you were a gay man?
In some ways, yeah. I get the impression that men in general have things a bit easier, but I think that's less so for a lot of gay men. I think that's especially true when it comes to fashion and personal style. I feel like there's a lot of pressure there for them, possibly even more so than for hetero women.
I'm afraid of never finding that one person that I want to spend my life with. I'm afraid of dying alone. But I'm also afraid of taking the steps to keep that from happening.