Originally posted by Toose
Yes...so something bad happening to my kids is my worst fear/phobia.
I agree. I have two daughters, 4 and 11, when I see movies that depict child abuse, in any way, I
always internalize it. I think about what I would do...
When my oldest daughter was seven, she went out bike riding with a local 11 year old girl. Now, the eleven year old was known to have some family problems, but she was a sweet kid when she was away from them. They had started riding their bikes,around one in the afternoon, by two, we were looking for them. At the time, my family and I were living on an island on the Columbia River, that seperated Washington and Oregon. It is about 5 square miles in size, with many stores, hotels, and restaraunts. Not to mention a main railroad line, which sported a great many transients. By five in the evening both of our families were in a panic. By seven in the evening the police were involved, plus a good number of our neighbors, yet there was no sign of the girls, or their bikes. I was looking by the train tracks in the brush. I can't describe how it felt, looking for my Angel's body, at the old quarry, or behind the train yards. I have been on the streets, been in jail, and fought in a war, but I had never known fear until then. Around nine that night, our neighbor went to a fast food place, Taco Bell, and he saw the bikes. they were hidden amongst some trees between the drive-in and the hotel next door.
Come to find out, the older girl wanted to go into the hotel, when she noticed some flyers for a convention advertising a free buffet. She was never fed very well, unless she came to our home. My daughter didn't know how to get back home, so she stayed with her friend. Maybe she was just caught up in the adventure of crashing a convention and stuffing her face, but when she saw all the police cars and all the family that came to give us their moral support, she broke down.
I kissed her and hugged her, and thanked doG that she was safe. Then I grounded her for two weeks.