In the Mood For Love
Some people have expressed that they were expecting more passion. But for me, it’s not as much about lust as it is about loneliness. There are signifiers of sex all around, not just the spouses who are having an affair but Mr Chow’s friend whose lost his money at a whorehouse; Mrs Chan’s boss who is carrying on an affair, leaving her to ring his wife to say he won’t be back; the red curtains of the hotel. I actually really liked that the central love story was restrained and largely unspoken in the midst of all this. It reminded me of other similar love stories I enjoyed like Lost in Translation and Brief Encounter. Restraint is underrated.
I like that things are seen sometimes at a distance, glimpsed through doorways and at odd angles. It expresses what the characters know or don’t know about each other, everything only partially understood and communicated, what we don’t know about them (there are secrets running underneath what we see on screen), but also how confined they are by their marriages, jobs, living situations, people’s assumptions. The past glimpsed through dusty windowpanes, as the ending quote says.
To make a link between this and another of the nominated films, the way we don’t really see the respective spouses reminded me a bit of Rebecca, in which Rebecca herself is an unseen presence. Mr Chan and Mrs Chow are glimpsed, but conspicuous by their absence.
The acting is good, especially from Tony Leung, his face is so expressive but in a dignified, subtle, melancholy sort of way. Partly through acting and partly through lighting, the two leads seem to light up when they see each other.
The music was a major part of the film for me as well.
What I really like most about this film is the way it looks: the colours above all, but also the lighting, the props and set decoration, the slightly grainy look to it which gives the impression of the time and place. And all the rain. I was less taken with some of the quirkier aspects of the direction this time around, they seem very of the time.
A question for discussion: do you think they ever did consummate their love? Is the boy with her at the end his son?
I thought it definitely was, especially coming so close after the “nothing from that era exists anymore” quote. But if it is, does Mr Chow know? Is that his secret?
And how does the development of their relationship fit in with the quote at the beginning of the film?
“It is a restless moment. She has kept her head lowered... to give him a chance to come closer. But he could not, for lack of courage. She turns and walks away.”
Is it he who lacks courage, or her? Or both? Or neither?