I've got a few things that I want to say now that this is all over.
First of all, I know that I thanked everyone before, but I would like to thank you one more time for being so understanding with everything that had happened to me during this time. Thank you. It meant a lot to me.
Second, my mother.
For those of you who don't know it, I lived with her. And I spent a good deal of the past 10 years taking care of her with a couple of different illnesses. But this that happened in October was completely unexpected and out of nowhere (I will spare the details).
Anyway, I did like to regale her with tales of this website. So she wasn't completely ignorant to the existence of a lot of you here.
She even took part in this countdown. She helped me with the photos that were chosen for each film. I gave her a list of names and she chose the 10 actors that are in the first photo (Cary Grant, Teresa Wright, Henry Fonda, Ingrid Bergman, Humphrey Bogart, James Stewart, Joan Fontaine, Dana Andrews, Gene Tierney and Joseph Cotten). I really like knowing that she helped out with this countdown.
She read each and every one of your lists.
If my memory is correct, I believe the list belonging to @
Captain Spaulding was the one she liked best.
My mother was a huge part of my life. And I miss her terribly. I know it may sound a little dramatic, but a little bit of my own being died a little when she did. She really was the best person I know. And I know people (maybe not everyone!) feel that way about their mothers, but she was just such an enjoyable person to have in my life. But it is the little things that drive me crazy now. When you guys were being negative about
Rope, it was killing me that I couldn't go downstairs and then rant to her about it.
The fact, though, that I can't talk to her at all is the hardest part.
I really wish she could've seen the end of this countdown. For anyone who still wonders why I went ahead and finished it, my mother would've said it was "silly" if I didn't. She knew the work and time that went into it. So it had to be done.
Anyway, I showed her my list last. And I can still picture her saying to me "Who's list is this?". I said "Why?". She smiled at me and said "Is it yours?". I admitted that it was and she said "This is the best one out of all of them".
So, Mom liked
mine best!
Here is my list:
1.
The Best Years of Our Lives 16
2.
Arsenic and Old Lace 18
3.
The Ghost and Mrs. Muir 33
4.
The Pride of the Yankees 59
5.
Dumbo 36
6.
Rope 8
7.
Now, Voyager 78
8.
The Picture of Dorian Gray 52
9.
Bambi 35
10.
The Lost Weekend 24
11.
His Girl Friday 14
12.
It's a Wonderful Life 5
13. Going My Way
14. The Corn is Green
15.
The Uninvited 96
16.
Heaven Can Wait 63
17.
The Great Dictator 11
18.
Pinocchio 23
19. Penny Serenade
20.
Meet Me in St. Louis 48
21.
How Green Was My Valley 40
22. Mrs. Miniver
23. The More The Merrier
24. Mr. Blandings Builds His Dream House
25. The Heiress
I know that a few of you told me to take breaks with this countdown, but I did want to finish it as planned. I am going to take a break now, however. I have a lot that I have to deal with now. I have some things in life that I really have to focus on. So I won't be around for awhile. I am NOT leaving this place - for those of you who would care if I did.
I just have to focus on other things for a little while. I will maybe stop by here and there (I do have to see how the MoFo Drinks Countdown turns out), but I don't think I will be able to be as committed until I get some other worries out of the way first.
Anyway, thanks again about my mom and thanks for letting me have the opportunity to do this countdown.