That you consider only female characters in movies relatable is somewhat concerning.
Surely the ability to make characters relatable isn't limited to their gender or race or ethnicity or religion or whateverthehell. There are movies with asexual robot characters that can be relatable.
Men should be capable to empathizing with female characters just as women should be capable of empathizing with male characters. Their gender should be incidental. The only reason it seems otherwise is because female characters are often brushed to the side only to collect the tablescraps of effort necessary to flesh them out with personalities.
I don't believe it's so much that you have so few characters to relate to so much as there are so few female characters developed to the point of relatability.
you're right.
i didn't say i didn't relate at all to the other characters, though. but i'm not sure you quite understand what it's like to very rarely see people of your own gender, except for maybe one, which is supposed to represent all of them, doing the thing. you are a guy, right?
this isn't a new theory or anything, either. men feel this way, too. ha, here's an example: after my fiance and i moved in together, i kinda sorta got him into Buffy (i love Buffy, he'd never seen it). we watched the first three seasons together and he really dug it. he likes fantasy and magic and stuff. but he made it a point to say to me, "i really love the characters in this show, they're riveting and well written, but i feel like there's none i can really relate to, because basically all the men in this show are either one-dimensional villains, whiney vampires, or mean teachers/principles; the only consistent "good guy" character is Xander, who has no sense for magic, no badassery, and is kind of, well, lame. i wish there was a more diverse male cast."
and i stared at him for a minute and was like, "i think, uh, that's kind of the point of the show. Buffy is definitely female centric to a fault, but it's a nice change of pace, right? how many other shows can you think of in this vein like this?"
and he was like
so, i dunno, i think it's a lot easier to say seeing your gender represented doesn't matter, buuut it kinda sucks. sure, i can find traits in male characters representative of myself, but it's not on the same scale as seeing another girl doing that stuff! plus, it kinda pushes the message that women aren't as capable of that badass shet as men, right?