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Randal Graves 09-08-06 08:51 PM

ok i reely need help here...
 
ok there is this gurl in my french class and im really into her...shes really beautiful and attractive and i want to ask her out but im like 90% sure she'll turn me down...and the fact that my last relation ended horribly...its was like a car bomb or sumthin...anyways any ideas as to wat i shud do..or any words to help build my confidence?

Othelo 09-08-06 09:17 PM

Originally Posted by Randal Graves
ok there is this gurl in my french class and im really into her...shes really beautiful and attractive and i want to ask her out but im like 90% sure she'll turn me down...and the fact that my last relation ended horribly...its was like a car bomb or sumthin...anyways any ideas as to wat i shud do..or any words to help build my confidence?
As the great god of Nuclear Warheads once said: "Just Do It!"

A man who does not risk making a fool of himself, is already a fool.

nebbit 09-08-06 10:35 PM

Originally Posted by Othelo
As the great god of Nuclear Warheads once said: "Just Do It!"
http://bestsmileys.com/signs12/17.gif




You don't have anything to loose :nope: If she says :yup: great, If she says :nope: it only means she is not attracted to you, not that you are ugly or something :kiss:

Randal Graves 09-08-06 10:51 PM

ok i guess i shud ask her out...but how shud i do it??? just walk up to her and say sumthin or wat?

Bill 09-08-06 10:53 PM

First, say somethign nice about her. Then talk to her a little, then ask.

Randal Graves 09-08-06 11:12 PM

ok ill try that on monday...if i have enuf guts lol...ill try...

nebbit 09-08-06 11:19 PM

Good Luck Randal http://bestsmileys.com/thumbs/3.gif

Randal Graves 09-08-06 11:20 PM

thanks

Bill 09-08-06 11:21 PM

I wish you the best luck.

7thson 09-08-06 11:29 PM

Also, my two cents: be confident, even if you are not; it seems to help. Do not blame me if it does not though.....;) good luck.

Randal Graves 09-09-06 12:22 AM

any ideas wat i shud say to her?...im not good with women lol

Bill 09-09-06 01:07 AM

Comment her. Flirt alittle with her, and be kind. Good luck.

7thson 09-09-06 01:09 AM

Be "fickle" and comment on what you think the best part of her is...do not hold back.

Randal Graves 09-09-06 01:14 AM

so i shud just walk up to her and start talkin?

7thson 09-09-06 01:16 AM

Originally Posted by Randal Graves
so i shud just walk up to her and start talkin?
Yep

Xui Wan 09-09-06 01:24 AM

Originally Posted by 7thson
Be "fickle" and comment on what you think the best part of her is...do not hold back.
um... k nice rack!!!! NO DON'T!!!:rotfl:lol :p be different as much as woman like compliments we are attracted to confidence as well... just like men we do care about more than looks!!! or some of us anyways... if her nails are done compliment those we like when guys notice the little details. or I do anyways, lets me know he's paying attention to more than my... "BRAIN" yeah brain.... NEWAYZ good luck and if she isn't into you meh! her loss cause any guy willing to ask strangers how to treat me!! is definately a keeper!!! or at least worth another look!!! GOOD LUCK!

7thson 09-09-06 01:31 AM

Originally Posted by Xui Wan
um... k nice rack!!!! NO DON'T!!!:rotfl:lol :p be different as much as woman like compliments we are attracted to confidence as well... just like men we do care about more than looks!!! or some of us anyways... if her nails are done compliment those we like when guys notice the little details. or I do anyways, lets me know he's paying attention to more than my... "BRAIN" yeah brain.... NEWAYZ good luck and if she isn't into you meh! her loss cause any guy willing to ask strangers how to treat me!! is definately a keeper!!! or at least worth another look!!! GOOD LUCK!
Well I certainly was not tyring to be sexual, I meant eyes, smile, sense of humor, etc...:D

ash_is_the_gal 09-09-06 01:57 AM

Originally Posted by 7thson
Well I certainly was not tyring to be sexual, I meant eyes, smile, sense of humor, etc...:D
you are a golden gem dahling! never change!






also, if you can manage it you should try to be funny. don't know about the girl in question, but i am soft on a guy that can make me laugh.

however don't make fun of her--that will undoubtedly backfire!

B-card 09-09-06 07:09 AM

Hmm well I guess you are American I'm not sure how american girs are but here is a tip-less talking more listening it always does the trick and try to agree with everithing she says if you happen to go out on a date that is.If don't like what I said go watch Hitch;)

Randal Graves 09-09-06 09:43 AM

ok if i talk to her ill keep all that stuff in mind...thanks!


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