Group Hugs and kisses. :D

[Aniko]

It seems to me we all could use a nice hug from time to time. So I wanted to create a thread that you could either send someone a hug or let us know you need a hug. With life being so busy, being over-stressed or you've had a bad day...it's nice to show someone else you appreciate them or read that someone cares.


::bear hug::

Hugs to susan...I know you've been crazy busy. Get some rest girl. :kiss:

Hugs to Sammy...because you're always there for me and I appreciate it. :kiss:

Hugs to Caity...after Mardi Gras and the past couple of months you could probably use one. :kiss:

Hugs to Tacitus....just because. :D :kiss:

and Hugs to Nebs...for always being to nice and thoughtful to everyone here. :kiss:


So who needs a hug?


:D

[chicagofrog]

found it!

and i give one to Susan too

i demand 10 % of all the hugs here since Aniko got the idea from one of my posts... :p :p :p
at least from Caity and Nebbs, i think the rest i can live without very well...

[Aniko]

I was going to give you a hug for planting the seed for this thread...
...but if you could live without it...I'm crushed.


Oh heck...here's a hug from me eventhough you don't really want it. :hugs: :p

[chicagofrog]

I was going to
...but if you could live without it...I'm crushed.
Oh heck...here's a hug anyway. :hugs:

:p

they always say they were goin' to... :( :(
;)
but you know, thanx :) it's like coffee and olives, before trying them i thought i could live without them... :D

[Aniko]

:laugh: :laugh:

[SamsoniteDelilah]

For Anniebelle~ ***************hugs***************** you're a genuinely sweet person and I'm happy to call you my friend.

For Yoda~ *****hugs***** for the hard work on the site lately and for putting up with all the grousing before and during.

For Spooky~ *****hugs***** because he gets what is going on.

For Strummer~ *******hugs******* because he's adopted me. ;)

For Golgot~ ********hugs**********for being so educational

For Nebbit~ ******** hugs ********* for being so supportive

For Holden~ ******** hugs ********* because it will make him blush

For Ophelia and Smeg~ ********hugs********* for being here, and the laughs and the music and the pictures.

For Tacitus~ ***********hugs************ because the Earth rotated today... among other reasons too many to list.

For Adidasss~ ******hugs****** for burying the hatchet

For Pidzilla *******hugs******* because robots need hugs, too. ;)

For all mofos ***********************hugs************************* In the words of Matt Dillon, you goofy bastards are about the best thing I've got going for me. ::wipes tear::

[gummo]

nobody wants to touch me?

[SamsoniteDelilah]

For gummo~ *******************hug, fondle, grope******************* Better? :D

[Revenant]

Hugs
For everyone!

[blibblobblib]

Is there a death thread for MOFO's? You know like an opposite to this one? We can go there when we are full of fury.

[Revenant]

Editted, blank space.

Wassup?

[Pyro Tramp]

http://uk.wrs.yahoo.com/_ylt=A9iby409bAtERCkAMwJWBQx.;_ylu=X3oDMTA4NDgyNWN0BHNlYwNwcm9m/SIG=126ok8pns/EXP=1141685693/**http%3a//www.pisymbol.com/images/incredible_hulk.jpg

http://www.pisymbol.com/images/incredible_hulk.jpg

[Revenant]

Edited. Boy what a ****-up.

Again. http://movieforums.com/community/images/smilies/rolleyes.gif

Hugs to you for, well just hugs and more hugs and oh bother. :blush:

[Pyro Tramp]

What exactly happened there Rev? I saw your [img] didn't work but did for me, so I thought i'd post it, then your post changed...

[Revenant]

It's whats called being stupid and not using the preview option before you post. Saw as soon as I uploaded, thought **** and went and fixed it. Then saw yours and removed the bloody thing altogether. No point having it up twice. (I copied the link but forgot to use the link option and who knows after that.)

Boy do I need a hug now.

[gummo]

For gummo~ *******************hug, fondle, grope******************* Better? :D

Thanks, that felt good :D the fondling and groping is just what I needed!

[SpoOkY]

*hugs*......to Reverant because he feels bad for messing the link up.

*hugs*...... to Ophelia because she's a nurse and likes helping people, plus was very cool in having a PM convo with me.

*hugs*...... To Samsonite Delilah because she always stands her ground and adds so much rationality to this forum when it needs it most. Also she seems to think like I do which is cool :D

*hugs*...... To Chicago frog because he's a funny dude and posts when I post, which is nice.

*hugs*...... To Equilibrium because he's had some dramas with girls lately, as have we all but everyone needs a hug sometimes.

*hugs*...... To Pyro Tramp for a similar reason concerning troubles of the heart.

*hugs*...... To Gummo because she made me feel sad when she said 'nobody wants to touch me' so I just had to give her a hug :)

heh note how I give a different kind of hug to girls than to guys, you don't want to hold on too long if its a guy hug and hugs with girls are always warmer ones.......I don't mean it to be that way.......it's the girls I tell you! :p

[Pyro Tramp]

*hugs*........ to SpoOky (in the manliest possible way) for hugging me

*hugs* ......... to Reverant for the earlier posting mixing up and gender confusion

[Eyes]

Hugs to Caity

[gummo]

Hugs to ((((((((gummo)))))))) cuz you are just so darn lovable.

Hugs to (((((((((my MoFo friends)))))))))) cuz you all love me.

Hugs to ((((((((((my MoFo enemies))))))))) cuz you all envy me.


lmao, just kidding

[susan]

hugs to everyone

especially

annie
caity
nebbs
gummo
birdy
chicagofrog
blib
slay
holden

and everyone else...you are the reasons why i stay....thanks...

[gummo]

hugs back (((((((((((((susan)))))))))))))))

[Xui Wan]

~~~~HUGS~~~~ To Pyro Tramp cause well your name just popped up in my head first... :) strange... o and thank you for your gender clarification.
~~~~HUGS~~~~ To Ophelia cause you were the first person to make me smile with an IM and made me feel happy!! :)
~~~~HUGS~~~~ To Eyes for always reading my posts! and I know you do!! I leave a trail as do you heh!! and you were the first person to welcome me :) O o oh and for your funny antics
~~~~HUGS~~~~ To John and I seriously pray that all will go well with the one you desire.
~~~~HUGS~~~~ To Taticus cause you Wan me over with your Irish accent!!
~~~~HUGS~~~~ To SamsoniteDelilah for your criticism... and for your great threads!!
~~~~HUGS~~~~ To Travis Bickle & chicagofrog cause ?? strange you prolly need one so here it is...
~~~~HUGS~~~~ To Sedai for helping me find my scary childhood movie!!
~~~~HUGS~~~~ To GUMMO for her sweet words, kind gesture and for helping me feel welcomed here!!
~~~~HUGS~~~~ & ~~~~KISSES~~~~ To that one special person whom I love who may or may not ever read this post!!
~~~~HUGS~~~~ To Everyone who happens across here and yesssss I MEAN YOU cause Obviously you've taken the time to read my post, and that makes me happy! so MWAH!!! :kiss: <<< kinda scary looking LOL
~~~~HUGS~~~~ Lastly but far from least to you SpoOkY cause you gotta be cute with a description like that!!! heh!! lol Yes thats the only reason, I'm shallow like that! jp lol is gropping aloud?? I noticed someone else doing that!!

Thank-you for making this thread I think its awesome and mwah! kisses to everyone we all need loves :modest:
OMG I cant believe I forgot
~~~~~~~BIG HUGS~~~~~~~ to nebbit for always making people feel welcome and being such a cute ausie

[SpoOkY]

~~~~HUGS~~~~ Lastly but far from least to you SpoOkY cause you gotta be cute with a description like that!!! heh!! lol Yes thats the only reason, I'm shallow like that! jp lol is gropping aloud?? I noticed someone else doing that!!


......:blush:......:blush:.......~~~hugs back~~~ heh you seem so nice Xui Wan....although I definately don't want to cause trouble for myself online as well. I've had way too many dramas in the last year with members of the opposite sex, but yes I will always hug my friends ~~~~hugs again warmly~~~~. PM me and we can chat through that cause I don't know if I'm gonna sign up to AIM. :)

[chicagofrog]

hugs back Susan :) :) :)
and you too Spooky, for posting even when i'm not there hehe ;) :p :p :D

[blibblobblib]

A BIG CARAMEL hug for Susey for giving me my first hug.

[SamsoniteDelilah]

For blibby~ *****hugs***** I miss seeing you around here so much.

[Aniko]

Blibby...here's another big hug for you. :kiss:

*warm fuzzy hugs~*


I'm sorry...I meant to give you one earlier, but ran out of time and my brain's a bit fuzzy.

[chicagofrog]

a bit fuzzy.

and a big hug for the fuzzy ones! :)

[Sleezy]

A BIG CARAMEL hug for Susey for giving me my first hug.

Not much of a grouch, is he? :p

[blibblobblib]

Not much of a grouch, is he? :p:furious: SIIIIIIIILENCE EARTH BOY! :furious:




:) BIG CANDY FLOSS AND WARM MILK HUGS for Sammy and Anni.

I hopefully should be around here a bit more now. Started my new job this week and i have my social life back. Hutzbar!

[chicagofrog]

kinda missed ya Blib, hug ya may i?

[blibblobblib]

Of course :)

[susan]

A BIG CARAMEL hug for Susey for giving me my first hug.

thanks blib, i LOVE caramel...anytime...

[susan]

Not much of a grouch, is he? :p

he's a special kind of grouch..warm and cuddley..always one of my faves ......

got a big hug for you too sleazy!

[Ophelia]

All the eejits on the board get a hug (so yeah, thats about everyone). Not a fan of pointing people out, but....

Smegarific smegaroo - the best of friends...hug
Cat - a good ear, thank you...hug
Piddz - the sweetest robot...hug
Ash - new found sweetheart...hug
Spooky - thank you, too sweet for your own good...hug
Eyes - for that little bit of acceptance, thanks...hug
Xui wan - the smile is returned, thanks...hug
Sleezy - just for the love of neil...hug
Aniko - my favourite mom...hug
Tatty - my neighbour ....hug
Gummo - for the craic...I love your bulletins...hug
Nebbs - for your kind heart...hug
John Mclane - cause he just be sweet...hug
And lastly, Anonymous...if I hugged you first, no one else would get a look in. It's just for you being you...hug

[gummo]

All the eejits on the board get a hug (so yeah, thats about everyone). Not a fan of pointing people out, but....

Smegarific smegaroo - the best of friends...hug
Cat - a good ear, thank you...hug
Piddz - the sweetest robot...hug
Ash - new found sweetheart...hug
Spooky - thank you, too sweet for your own good...hug
Eyes - for that little bit of acceptance, thanks...hug
Xui wan - the smile is returned, thanks...hug
Sleezy - just for the love of neil...hug
Aniko - my favourite mom...hug
Tatty - my neighbour ....hug
Gummo - for the craic...I love your bulletins...hug
Nebbs - for your kind heart...hug
John Mclane - cause he just be sweet...hug
And lastly, Anonymous...if I hugged you first, no one else would get a look in. It's just for you being you...hug


what is craic? ....anyway thanks and hugs back :) ((((((((((Ophelia)))))))))))

[Ophelia]

what is craic? ....anyway thanks and hugs back :) ((((((((((Ophelia)))))))))))

Ah 'tis fun gummo, that is what craic is. Thank you for the delish squish.

[ash_is_the_gal]

okay...:)

Hugs for the Following People--------------

Sammy D ..........for being the first person to welcome me :D here at mofo....and putting up with me ever since....

Caitlyn ..........for sending me the best PMs ever! and not judging me....

Anonymous Last ..........for being a damn nerd all the time....and always being there....

Aniko ..........for being open-minded....

Ophelia ..........for being the ray of sunshine on mofo's lining....;)

Strummer ..........for being so freaking cool to talk to, and for all the music and movie discussions we've had, and making me feel my taste actually means something...;)

Tacitus ..........for your sincerity and kindness

Slay ..........even though he aint here right now, I know he'll come back

Nebbs ..........for not having a mean bone in her body

gummo ..........for all the comments making me feel all tomato-faced :p

Escape ..........because I like the Movie Picture game! :D

Austruck & Pidzilla ..........because I want to get to know you better

you guys are great...i love this place....

[Revenant]

http://i.euniverse.com/funpages/cms_content/2670/images/hugs.jpg

FOR ALL OF MOFO!!

[chicagofrog]

a hug to
1) the cats above,
2) all the non brainwashed people in the countries infested by political correctness (US especially since i don't give up on them, Germany which i long since gave up on, among others),
3) all the people smart (and kind) enough to stay objective enough thru arguments online (i.e. here) and ignore manipulative persons... that they're still willing to give me a hug once in a while
:cool:
thanx to y'all, i'll even wash my armpits before hugging y'all!

among others in no particular order:
Anonymous
LordSlaytan
Sedai
Golgot
Spooky
Gummo
Adidasss
Nebbs
Xui Wan
Coolbreeze
la mía amiga gallega
blib
Caitlyn
Aniko
the Blister
Piddzilla
susan
Eyes

[Pyro Tramp]

***Man hugs for***.......... John, thanks for introducing me to VLC. Worked a treat :D

and

***Man hugs for***.......... OG, thanks for helping with VobSub, even though i couldn't get it to work

and

***Man group hug for***........... In Flames since i'm loving Come Clarity

[chicagofrog]

hug you too Pyro, if you don't mind amphibians...

[nebbit]

http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/3.gif

[gummo]

Anyone remember the Hugga Bunch? I was a child of 4 or 5 when I had the dolls and watched the show. awww childhood memories!


http://www.velona.com/items/017/B01718.jpeg

[SamsoniteDelilah]

http://www.rakemag.com/today/yoivanhoe/archive/fair-group%20hug%202.jpg

[Naisy]

Hugs to Nebbs, Caitlyn, Gracie, Aniko....and a manly handshake to Jas, Yoda, Bullet Boy, Hold's, Slay just cause its good to see your all still around and hot!

[Austruck]

Smoochie hugs to Annie, Slay, Naisy, Golgot (for the kitty pics, of course), Yoda (well, I'm allowed to wipe the schmutz off his face with a handkerchief with mommy spit on it, too, so there!), Gracie (who never comes here any more, sniffle!), Sammy, and so many others.

Ash ... huggies to you too, and I'm sure we'll get to know each other better soon. Hope to be here more often!

[Sedai]

Good to see I am still the black sheep.

*Sets everyone on fire*

When is the group grenade toss?

[chicagofrog]

Good to see I am still the black sheep.


didn't you read my post?? :)

[SamsoniteDelilah]

Sedai. hahaha! You're the sheep who wandered off and are standing alone on an outcropping overlooking the ocean, thinking of things bordering on unsheeply.

********* welcome back hugs **********

[Anonymous Last]

To the kids in MoFo land,
Honestly there are so many hugs to throw around in this cool little joint. I have no idea on where to begin. I just want to flip over the Galaxy High Magical School Bus pull the pilot out with both hands on the wheel and keys on the dash. Cast my nets far and wide…gather all the MoFos up, pile you all in, relax and chill at the gigantic booth seating, fitting all of you in. All squeezed in and comfy (all back of the bus and ****)! Look kids, playing all kinds of movies on this flight. Drinks and dinner served during this party cruise exploring every boulevard, street, back alley, traveling around the world and ...Great Space Coasting while dropping you all off where you want to go. Next stop hugs and shouts…

Hugs thrown and shouts spitted at…I'll start with all of you that I have had the pleasure of getting to know and make friends with in the PMs and emails and have actually had more than a one minute conversation with me, you know who all of you are and what time it is. Next goes to all the MoFos that blessed me and critiqued me in our lost rep system. The things you people have said and came up with had me in tears, slapped my knees and had the coolest ice tea dripping out of my nose. Also to the n00bs that just joined and signed on to our little family tree... hope you all have fun here. It’s what you make of the stay, right? Next set of hugs go straight to those who feel left out for putting up with all my sick babble posts here and making room on this site for a scrub like me.

This one is kind of hard for me to come out with and I never intended to spark a distraught emotional connection to crush my heart felt investment of mixed feelings. I can keep writing this line after line and piling words on top of words and soon you all will think that I'm just ridiculous... but this hug right here goes to someone in my heart. Once was a good friend on this online thing that was closer to most and maybe my pride killed and ruined our friendly little path and nice conversations which left everything between us so disconnected. Growing in different rates.... and now I have only the mess that my own little piss fits was left with. Maybe a hug is too much for the moment … I guess I’ll just drink that **** down/up (warm worm and all) and guzzle it away…


Anonymous Last ..........for being a damn nerd all the time....and always being there....
Ash… Your flattery will not avail you… hugs for you because oddly enough, you, who I think highly of, think highly of me; being a bratty nerd...this is why you and I will more than likely battle to the death in a MoFo Thunder Dome match. Two MoFos enter, one MoFo leaves…I’ll start the fires and steal your mom’s sour cream and then let you win. Thank you for being there…

And lastly, Anonymous...if I hugged you first, no one else would get a look in. It's just for you being you...hug

Ophelia …I want to thank you on so many levels and give hugs for the quilt, packing sessions, candy store, sloppy chocolates of Kit Kats, Diet Coke sips, wheaten bread, blue balloon jumps from stormy to aqua, the red ones, soft giggles out the window at slipping n’ sliding in winter tasting sauce, Regina smiles and poetry tic-tac toes. Thanks for knocking down my world and coming together like the Voltron, cool to kick it with. It’s nothing but the angels putting the seats down and flushing a heaven toilet that is falling on our heads. Thanks for always understanding my rabbles it's refreshing and much appreciated.


Now back to all my MoFo peeps.
The swift bus ride stops here. Let’s all give each other firm handshakes, breast-groping hugs, and hearty claps on the back.


Goodnight sweethearts, it's time for me to go.

[chicagofrog]

Goodnight sweethearts, it's time for me to go.

what?
:eek:
i'm confused, distraught...
quoi?

you mean go to sleep and get up tomorrow back here right??
uh, uh??

[chicagofrog]

wow, i was gone for a while cuz of too much adversity, then i came back (although not *totally* like it was last year) and now Nony's leaving...
:(
what's the use now? :rolleyes:
:( :( :(
i'll hug my best friend here forever!

[Yoda]

Say it ain't so...

[Austruck]

Errr, he just meant that the *post* was over, right??

...right?

[chicagofrog]

i'm afraid not, unfortunately... :(

[Austruck]

Whaaaa? Did one of us, like, fart in his general direction or something? Who can I blame this on? :(

[Yoda]

Whaaaa? Did one of us, like, fart in his general direction or something? Who can I blame this on? :(
I blame the Patriot Act.

[Sexy Celebrity]

*hugs to all of you*

[SamsoniteDelilah]

***Hugs*** to you too, SC! :)

[SmegFirk]

Smegarific smegaroo
who?

[Ophelia]

who?

Smiggy smeggy smoe? Firkin firkster? Smeggarooney?

[SmegFirk]

Smiggy smeggy smoe? Firkin firkster? Smeggarooney?Doesn't ring a bell.

God i must leave this thread, it's just not me heh

[Ophelia]

Doesn't ring a bell.

God i must leave this thread, it's just not me heh

Say hi to Luke...hugs for Luke!

[SmegFirk]

Say hi to Luke...hugs for Luke!

:nope:

[Sedai]

Ummm... Why in the WORLD would Annonymous Last leave MoFo?

Today sucks.

So...what's the rumpus? I notice a lack of responses to anony's post...Clearly, something went down or is going down behind the scenes...

Was there another argument thread that got out of hand?

Is this a exodus from MoFo by a few of our members. with nony the first to post?

The reason I ask is that none of Mr. Last's closest compatriots mentioned his post, yet they have posted in this thread after he did, so they must have read his post.

What happened? nony was a nig part of MoFo, and will be missed... Who else is bailing?

[SmegFirk]

Ummm... Why in the WORLD would Annonymous Last leave MoFo?...
It's tearing me up inside, no doubt.

Seriously, though, is it not the nature of these places that new people arrive and occasionally a "veteran" decides to go. If they have indeed gone. From my experience of forums I would always be sceptical about a grand exit, all flowery. If you want to go you just go, if you make a point that you are leaving it is normally because you are going to stay to watch the reaction.

[Ophelia]

Ummm... Why in the WORLD would Annonymous Last leave MoFo?

Today sucks.

So...what's the rumpus? I notice a lack of responses to anony's post...Clearly, something went down or is going down behind the scenes...

Was there another argument thread that got out of hand?

Is this a exodus from MoFo by a few of our members. with nony the first to post?

The reason I ask is that none of Mr. Last's closest compatriots mentioned his post, yet they have posted in this thread after he did, so they must have read his post.

What happened? nony was a nig part of MoFo, and will be missed... Who else is bailing?

I guess the best way to find out answers is to ask him yourself - no one else can speak for that crazy wee head of his. *shrugs

I have read his post, I have replied to him, just not on the board...

[Sedai]

True, that. I guess I should just ask him! I didn;t know if there had been another thread gone bad where people got on each other over politics or something. I did know that some of you folks were close(r) to him than I, so I figured I would check in with his friends who were still here. I actually don't have a way to contact nony, aside from MoFo. I did have Myspace going, so I guess I could fire that up at home and try to contact him there. I just haven;t been using Myspace because 1) it has been locked out of our network by our sonic wall, and 2) I was getting too much spam on it.

Thanks for the replies.

Come back Nony!

[chicagofrog]

The reason I ask is that none of Mr. Last's closest compatriots mentioned his post, yet they have posted in this thread after he did, so they must have read his post.

What happened? nony was a nig part of MoFo, and will be missed... Who else is bailing?

yep, things are goin' on and the reasons about the silence is

1) for my part, i'm not gonna tell people what he explained to me in private mails since he would've told publicly if he wanted to, right??
i don't betray friends.

2) i just can make an assumption why so many stay silent (compare with the numerous reactions to the banning of Adidasss and when Sammy "decided" to leave (that is in fact: *threatened* since she didn't do what she said she would)!
= taboo again, and the influence of some people telling everyone thru PM to shut up about it maybe?? or a tacit decision by those who know not to spread the reasons why? or maybe for the same reason number 1?? but that would explain why they don't give *reasons*, not why they don't even write that they'll miss him, etc... :( :(

[SamsoniteDelilah]

Ummm... Why in the WORLD would Annonymous Last leave MoFo?

Today sucks.

So...what's the rumpus? I notice a lack of responses to anony's post...Clearly, something went down or is going down behind the scenes...

Was there another argument thread that got out of hand?

Is this a exodus from MoFo by a few of our members. with nony the first to post?

The reason I ask is that none of Mr. Last's closest compatriots mentioned his post, yet they have posted in this thread after he did, so they must have read his post.

What happened? nony was a nig part of MoFo, and will be missed... Who else is bailing?
I've seen nothing on the boards that would explain it from where I sit. It's difficult to respond to his announcement when it's unclear what was meant by it. I figure if he is having a real issue, he'll talk to the people he wants to about it - it's his choice.

[Sedai]

It just came as a big surprise to me. I take it you did a little post hunting looking for an event that might have made him leave?

Me too. ;)

[ash_is_the_gal]

I've seen nothing on the boards that would explain it from where I sit. It's difficult to respond to his announcement when it's unclear what was meant by it. I figure if he is having a real issue, he'll talk to the people he wants to about it - it's his choice.

Exactly what she said...

and just so everyone knows, he is just fine. He wouldn't want people to worry about him. So don't, cause he is okay...and he will be back, I am almost certain.

[Blister]

Goodnight sweethearts, it's time for me to go.

Take care Mr Last..... :(

[chicagofrog]

as for fairness on these MoFos,
1) some threaten to leave and twelve people beg them to come back,
2) others leave without telling anyone cuz they don't need such announcements and no one seems to care,
3) others leave announcing it and the reactions are, at the most, very timid, and cold-hearted, as if no feelings were involved...

but yes, he's fine, just not *here* anymore.

[Golgot]

Well this sucks big time. This is one grand air felatio. Threads without Nony are like nude Johnny Carson pics. Really not wanted.

Have a *hug* young man, if you're still here, invisible and indivisible. I don't normally do these love-in things, but you're a special exception mate ;)

Come back and play when the rainy days have abated :yup:

[SamsoniteDelilah]

*********HUGS********** for Annie, whose thread has been hijacked.
*********HUGS********** for Smeg, and he knows why.
*********HUGS********** for Caity, whose good sense is a beacon.

[ash_is_the_gal]

back on topic...

i'd like to give a hug to someone that just PMed me and made the sweetest comment i have ever heard. knows who they are :)

[Pyro Tramp]

But i don't...

[SmegFirk]

*********HUGS********** for Smeg, and he knows why.
he most certainly does:)

[Xui Wan]

~~~hugs~~~ to ash, aw!!:( cause I hadnt realized I hadnt hugged you!! and I feel bad cause you had stuck up for me long before anyone said anything and now its all over and still nada, I'm so sorry. although, I did say ty in tpam thread... I think thats where. lol well hugs to ya!!
~~~hugs~~~ to nony though we only encountered once I hope that you return, even if its only one of your anon names here!!!
~~~hugs~~~ to froggy again this time with reason, thankyou for your kind words and replies to my posts!
~~~hugs~~~ to thmilin cause I believe your feelings were hurt and I know what it feels like to be disreguarded when your only expressing yourself!
~~~hugs~~~ to Yoda cause you seem pretty kewl from our brief chats!
~~~hugs~~~ and to Pyro Tramp cause I really like the way you jump on and say anything! You respond to posts fast and strange as I find you your kewl! and I know you'll read this!!:) (strange in a good way!!)

[ash_is_the_gal]

~~~hugs~~~ to ash, aw!!:( cause I hadnt realized I hadnt hugged you!! and I feel bad cause you had stuck up for me long before anyone said anything and now its all over and still nada, I'm so sorry. although, I did say ty in tpam thread... I think thats where. lol well hugs to ya!!

no biggie deal little miss....thanks for the hug, it is returned. :)

[nebbit]

Nony Don't leave :bawling:

[chicagofrog]

we need a Group Crying thread now, Nony!

[gummo]

why was Nony's post deleted?

[Yoda]

why was Nony's post deleted?
Which one? His last post is still there (http://www.movieforums.com/community/showpost.php?p=315781&postcount=52).

[gummo]

Which one? His last post is still there (http://www.movieforums.com/community/showpost.php?p=315781&postcount=52).


oh, oops. Sorry, I missed it. I need a new prescription on my glasses...yeah that's it, a new prescription :p

[nebbit]

Which one? His last post is still there (http://www.movieforums.com/community/showpost.php?p=315781&postcount=52).

Thanks Yods I hadn't seen that, all i can say is :bawling: :bawling: :bawling: :bawling:

[gummo]

((((((((((spooky))))))))))

for his post in the regrets thread

[Eyes]

I'm sorry to have only just seen things...

I think that Anonymous Last had his reasons. Whatever they were, I'm still sorry that he's leaving. Hopefully he will return someday with Agent 0 Zero and Mary Loquacious. Wherever they are, and however long they are gone, let's keep a seat warm, just in case :)

[adidasss]

as for fairness on these MoFos,
1) some threaten to leave and twelve people beg them to come back,
2) others leave without telling anyone cuz they don't need such announcements and no one seems to care,
3) others leave announcing it and the reactions are, at the most, very timid, and cold-hearted, as if no feelings were involved...

but yes, he's fine, just not *here* anymore.
:(....annonymous was a funny dude....didn't really get a chance to know him better....( or anyone else on these boards for that matter ....what the hell does that mean i wonder...)

[gummo]

:(....annonymous was a funny dude....didn't really get a chance to know him better....( or anyone else on these boards for that matter ....what the hell does that mean i wonder...)


it means you need to get to know people better :yup: :goof:

[Caitlyn]

Thanks for all the hugs... :) ... these are in no particular order and I probably forgot someone... and if so, it was not intentional... so ((((((hugs)))))) to...


Annie
Ash
Nebbit
7thson
Yoda
Piddy
Eyes
Naisy
Nony
Slay
Mini
Ezikiel
Susan
Sammy D
Sedai
Johnny Mc
Toosie
Tatty
Blib
Gol G
OG
Sexy
Pyro
MP
The Taxi
Silver Bullett
Reporter
Beale
Kong
Tazz
birdygyrl
Undercover
Pimp
Strummer
EQ
Sinny Mc
Hondo
Rev
Gummo
Lance
Moviemaker
Austruck
Thmilin
Fire
Glitter girl
Darth
Sleezy
Gracie
lines palsy
Jrs.
Holden Pike
Led zeppelin
Mark
Blister
SpoOky
Adidasss
Darcy
Ash Lee
Tea
Usual
Iroquois
Godsend
Loner
Mack
sis boom
Deckard
Elephant Man
Hellbent
uconjack
Ophelia
Thursday
Travis
Smeg
Urban
Ruby
Sarge
Twain
Xuiwan
42minus71
Ford
Froggy
Garrett

[gummo]

((((((((((((Xiu Wan))))))))))))) Sorry for your loss :(

[chicagofrog]

wado Caity! a hug for ya too :)

[Blister]

((((((Caitlyn)))))) - at least i got on someone's list :)

[ash_is_the_gal]

((((((Caitlyn)))))) - at least i got on someone's list :)

you should have been added on my list as someone ive wanted to get to know better...sowwy...

[Blister]

you should have been added on my list as someone ive wanted to get to know better...sowwy...

((((((ash)))))) - it's alright. I think most people need to get to know me, i think i just drift around MoFo ;)

[Revenant]

I love my hug Cait.
Here is my hug back...

http://www.wtv-zone.com/ljsmeenge/FunnyAnimalPics/Cats_3cats_hug.jpg

(my picture didn't work. So here's a new one. :D )

[SpoOkY]

((((((((((spooky))))))))))

for his post in the regrets thread

((((((((gummo)))))))) big hug for being one of the nicest mofos around; kind, caring and warm. :)

(((((((caity))))))) for being a level headed ray of sunshine in Mofo & for hugging me of course. I would have given you a hug in my first post but I haven't had much direct contact with you as of yet.

(((((((The Blister Exists))))))) for being a cool mofo.

(((((((Strummer521))))))) because he seems to be on my level most of the time and is a quality member of Mofo.

(((((((Aniko))))))) for starting such an awesome thread, thanks sweety :D

-> For more hugs see previous posts :p

[nebbit]

For you and you and you and yuoooooooooooooooo
http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/1.gif
http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/2.gif
http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/3.gif
http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/4.gif

[Xui Wan]

***hugs*** to ya nebbs and ash, u2 are so sweet Mwah!! :p

[Zeiken]

***arms open for a hug, to anyone who needs one!***

:D

[nebbit]

***arms open for a hug, to anyone who needs one!***

http://bestsmileys.com/signs1/11.gif

[SamsoniteDelilah]

***arms open for a hug, to anyone who needs one!***

:D
**********hugs***********

[chicagofrog]

a hug to Nony for coming back :)

[Austruck]

:kiss: Hugs to Xiu Wan for eating Craisins while listening to Tripping Daisies! :)

[ash_is_the_gal]

a hug to Nony for coming back :)

maybe if i hug him enough he'll leave again... maybe?

[chicagofrog]

uh? you want for him to leave?? uh??

[Xui Wan]

:kiss: Hugs to Xiu Wan for eating Craisins while listening to Tripping Daisies! :)Aw! I have to say Thank you! I rather enjoyed Tripping Daisies, Great taste!!! they have made my next music buy list!! mwah and ****HUGGIES**** to you as well!!!

[Austruck]

That's so funny because I only mentioned them in that other thread because you mentioned something like "smelling lilacs" so I tried to think of a group that would sound like that (a la the Cranberries). Ha ha ha! Go me! :)

[SamsoniteDelilah]

uh? you want for him to leave?? uh??
Maybe he just leaves when he gets too many hugs.

[daiTHEflu]

I could use a hug!

ANYBODY?

[Xui Wan]

I could use a hug!

ANYBODY?***HUGGIES*** to you just for asking!!! and anyone else who needs one or wants one!!! mwah!:modest:

[daiTHEflu]

***HUGGIES*** to you just for asking!!! and anyone else who needs one or wants one!!! mwah!:modest:

Awww.. Thanks.

I can feel the love. Can you feel the love?:D

[nebbit]

I could use a hug!

ANYBODY?

http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/1.gif

[jrs]

I arrived home from surgery Thursday and told to rest. I really need a hug. :)

[nebbit]

http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/4.gif

What kind of surgery did you have? jrs :)

[Revenant]

http://d21c.com/jinnytoo/cats/cat.hug.jpg

[SpoOkY]

Awww.. Thanks.

I can feel the love. Can you feel the love?:D

I'm feeling it.....in the manliest way possible.....a small murmer in my stomach indicating either the love or a bad tuna sandwich, i'm thinking love.

*****hugs***** to daiTHEflu for needing a hug.

*****hugs***** to Jrs because he just had surgery! Hope the pains not too bad man. Did they give you some pain killers? My sister reckons they make you really out of it, how you feelin?

*****hugs***** to dear Nebbit because she always offers to talk when you need it and is a bit of a mother duck on these boards; giving people hugs and offering a shoulder to cry on when people need it. It's much appreciated.

*****hugs***** to Ophelia for being so friendly and offering some wonderous music to me, people who like music and love to share it = coolest people I know. I'm a music nut you see, it's the key to my heart for sure.

[Zeiken]

**Huggs** to spook for making sure hugs are given where hugs are due. ;)

[Eyes]

well, to anyone who is feeling left out from this thread

[chicagofrog]

how cute, you deserve a (slimy) hug! ;) :)

[Sir Toose]

Figures, I missed the orgy.

[jrs]

*****hugs***** to Jrs because he just had surgery! Hope the pains not too bad man. Did they give you some pain killers? My sister reckons they make you really out of it, how you feelin?

I'm feelin alright. I have to to take it easy, move at an easy pace, and I can't lift anything heavier than 5 lbs. for 2 weeks. I wasn't given pain killers, no. They weren't needed. I had same day surgery so it took like 45 mins ( I was out thank God)and got to go right home afterwards. Though the pain was bad the first couple of days with the stitches first put in ya'know. They dissolve by themselves within 90 days so there's no worrying about going back to take them out. Just going back on the 9th for a checkup.

[nebbit]

Nice to hear you are on the mend jrs http://bestsmileys.com/medical/8.gif

[Eyes]

A HUGE Hug to CAITY for talking to me during my Mofo absence.

[chicagofrog]

a hug to everyone with enough balls not to ignore or discard whomever doesn't agree with them at all, or even with generally accepted principles

[Eyes]

a hug to everyone with enough balls not to ignore or discard whomever doesn't agree with them at all, or even with generally accepted principles

seconded

[chicagofrog]

tripled

[SamsoniteDelilah]

a hug to everyone with enough balls not to ignore or discard whomever doesn't agree with them at all, or even with generally accepted principles
Seeing you speaking obliquely about people having "enough balls" to do something has made my day. ***hugs to you*** you obsequious fop.

[Eyes]

Seeing you speaking obliquely about people having "enough balls" to do something has made my day. ***hugs to you*** you obsequious fop.

a big :kiss: to sammy just for making me :laugh: by saying "obsequious fop"

[chicagofrog]

hei, it's world cup time after all, happy to make anyone's day. gonna try and translate obsequious fop into my fave languages. thanx for today's task.
:)

[Xui Wan]

***hugs*** and kisses to Austruck Nebbs yoda and iro!

hehe breathing a little life back into these dead 'ol things :p

[nebbit]

Nice to see you back Xui :kiss:

[ash_is_the_gal]

hiya Xui! its been ages!

[These Filthy Hands]

Hmm...I must smell funky.

[nebbit]

Hmm...I must smell funky.
Not with those hands :nope:

[Equilibrium]

It seems to me we all could use a nice hug from time to time. So I wanted to create a thread that you could either send someone a hug or let us know you need a hug. With life being so busy, being over-stressed or you've had a bad day...it's nice to show someone else you appreciate them or read that someone cares.


::bear hug::

Hugs to susan...I know you've been crazy busy. Get some rest girl. :kiss:

Hugs to Sammy...because you're always there for me and I appreciate it. :kiss:

Hugs to Caity...after Mardi Gras and the past couple of months you could probably use one. :kiss:

Hugs to Tacitus....just because. :D :kiss:

and Hugs to Nebs...for always being to nice and thoughtful to everyone here. :kiss:


So who needs a hug?


:D

I can't believe I didn't make this list.

I don't want your hugs anymore. I lost my hug appetite.

[ash_is_the_gal]

i'll squeeze you, Equilibrium.

[These Filthy Hands]

Not with those hands :nope:

Damn...

[These Filthy Hands]

I'm glad I never had too much self-esteem to begin with. Thanks nebbit

[nebbit]

I'm glad I never had too much self-esteem to begin with. Thanks nebbit
That worked! I feel bad :eek:

[These Filthy Hands]

That worked! I feel bad :eek:

Don't, it was only a joke. I still have zero self-esteem, maybe that's why I can't meet the ladies...

[nebbit]

I still have zero self-esteem, maybe that's why I can't meet the ladies...
There you go something to work on :yup: I never had any when I was young :nope: I do now, who i am is ok. Self esteem hasn't help me get men :nope: but has made my life happier :yup:

[Naisy]

Its ok filthy I have plenty of self-esteem it doesn't help im still single and Carmem Electra still wont return my emails.

[Naisy]

Hugs for nebs because her avatars are always a source of drooling.

Hugs for Caity for she is one of the beautiful souls that walk this earth, that truly dont get the recognition she deserves.

Hug with two pats on the back to be manly for Chris because no matter how busy he is, he has always taken the time to engage in a pointless religious or political debate with me in which I am yet to be shot for.

Hugs for any sexy lady because im a single Australian male with great hugging abilities, I'll hug your socks off.

Hugs to me for giving out such fantastic hugs and well someone has to do it

[Xui Wan]

aw... hi ash hugs to you too! and well everyone else who is missing a hug! ;p

[These Filthy Hands]

Its ok filthy I have plenty of self-esteem it doesn't help im still single and Carmem Electra still wont return my emails.

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one.

[These Filthy Hands]

There you go something to work on :yup: I never had any when I was young :nope: I do now, who i am is ok. Self esteem hasn't help me get men :nope: but has made my life happier :yup:

Thanks for the boost, I'm really not that bad off, just really shy.

[nebbit]

just really shy.
Shyness can be cured :yup:

[These Filthy Hands]

Shyness can be cured :yup:

Yeah, just add Jager.

[Xui Wan]

((((hugs)))) to Nebbit, Yoda, and the lot of ya! :p

[nebbit]

Back at you Xui http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/1.gif

[Caitlyn]

I had forgotten all about this thread.... made me a wee bit sad re-reading it though... lots of AWOL MoFos...

[nebbit]

I had forgotten all about this thread.... made me a wee bit sad re-reading it though... lots of AWOL MoFos...
Now look what you have started :bawling: I miss them :kiss:

[Caitlyn]

Hugs Nebbie... :kiss:

[Aniko]

Hugs to Caity and Nebbs. :kiss: :kiss:

It's was nice reading through this old thread. Thanks for think of it Caity. I made me smile remembering back then. I miss alot of people too and I hope everyone is doing well.

[nebbit]

We miss you too Annie :kiss:

[Juno MacGuff]

Hugs to everyone. I am in a huggy mood.

[Xui Wan]

How I always loved this thread.... Hugs to all!! xoxo

[tramp]

I used to belong to a few online communities, but because of work and being rather busy, this is the only one I belong to at the moment... and well, I guess you could say I need a hug and I thought I'd tell you what was going on in case you don't see me here for a while....

I just got out of the hospital last week after finding out that I have kidney cancer and the tumor has gone into my IVC (inferior vena cava - a large vein that carries blood to the heart) and I need major surgery this week to remove one of my kidneys and remove the tumor and insert a filter in my IVC.

I had been feeling ill since the beginning of August, and after a few trips to the doctor, I finally went to the emergency room on the 1st. Needless to say, it was a shock. I had only taught two days of school, and if the surgery goes well, I should be returning to work on November 1.

The scary thing is that I've also been told that it is very possible I might not make it through the surgery. Of course, my friends and family tell me I shouldn't think about that, but I've had to think about it.... it's a strange feeling, I can tell you that.

I'm hoping that in a few weeks I'll be posting here during my recovery period.

I want to thank Chris and the whole crew here for running a wonderful forum and it's been a real pleasure to post here.

[christine]

oh luv I'm so sorry, you need a lot of hugs from all of us. They have to tell you those bad outcomes don't they, but we'll be waiting to see some recovery period posts. Keep safe , I'll be thinking about you next week, what day?
xxx

[Xui Wan]

My thoughts are with you tramp,
xxxhugsxxx
you will be in my family's prayers today!

[Miss Vicky]

I'm terribly sorry to hear this tramp.

I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts. Best wishes to you.

[ash_is_the_gal]

I want to thank Chris and the whole crew here for running a wonderful forum and it's been a real pleasure to post here.

jesus, don't say that as if you're never going to post here again.

we'll see you real soon. good luck.

[nebbit]

I guess you could say I need a hug and I thought I'd tell you what was going on in case you don't see me here for a while....
Good luck sweetie :kiss: http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/1.gif

[planet news]

I just got out of the hospital last week after finding out that I have kidney cancer and the tumor has gone into my IVC (inferior vena cava - a large vein that carries blood to the heart) and I need major surgery this week to remove one of my kidneys and remove the tumor and insert a filter in my IVC.

I had been feeling ill since the beginning of August, and after a few trips to the doctor, I finally went to the emergency room on the 1st. Needless to say, it was a shock. I had only taught two days of school, and if the surgery goes well, I should be returning to work on November 1.

The scary thing is that I've also been told that it is very possible I might not make it through the surgery. Of course, my friends and family tell me I shouldn't think about that, but I've had to think about it.... it's a strange feeling, I can tell you that.This exact thing happened to my father about two years ago. Luckily everything went fine, despite hearing similar warnings. All I can say is that medical care isn't free for a reason. The technologies these days work wonders.

http://i756.photobucket.com/albums/xx205/planetnews/hug.gifhttp://i756.photobucket.com/albums/xx205/planetnews/glomp.gifGet well soon!

[tramp]

thanks for the well wishes. :)

Planet News, glad to hear someone else went through this and it went fine.

Surgery is currently planned for Thursday, but they may move it up to Wed or Tues. I'll know tomorrow.

[Ðèstîñy]

Yep, my mother had a very large tumor in her stomach a few years ago, and is fine these days. It's amazing what they can do. Get well soon!

[7thson]

I'm hoping that in a few weeks I'll be posting here during my recovery period.




I know you will be here sweetheart - you are too stubborn to do otherwise ;). Best of luck darling.

[Caitlyn]

Prior to Katrina, I worked with a guy who had kidney cancer and also had to have a filter... I saw him the other day and he's still doing great... Huge hugs Tramp... I'll be keeping you in my prayers and sending some good vibes your way... come on home as soon as you can... we'll be here waiting... :)

[Dempsey]

Hi Tramp, I know I dont know you, know a friend of a friend who went through this 3 years ago, shes doing great now. Im wishing you all the best

[Ðèstîñy]

Now that I think about it, a man at my mother's church had it, and his surgery was a bit more evasive. He's been back to work, and doing rather well. It didn't take much time, either.

[Yoda]

Wow, I hadn't even ventured into this thread and had no idea this had been posted. Really sorry to hear that, tramp. I hope you take heart from all the testimonials here; you'll make it! But it's awfully thoughtful of you to share this, and to tell us, just in case.

I'll pray for you. Hang in there! There are too many great movies left to see! :)

[shapeshifter]

Hello tramp along with everyone else I wish you all the best & hope to read your posts again soon. Big hug from me.

[Sedai]

Sorry to hear that, tramp. May you have the courage to face the tough challenges ahead!

[Caitlyn]

I wonder if they moved her surgery up or not... hopefully she can check in soon and let us know everything went okay...

[tramp]

Hey guys...

No, the surgery is tomorrow, Thursday. I'm having to prep for it today...

I wanted to thank you all for what you said; I'm feeling better about the surgery than I was feeling a few days ago. It seems many people have gone through this and they came out ok!

Obviously, I'll be away for a while, but my son can post in here and tell you all how it went. In case you didn't know, "Man of 1000 Faces" is my son. ;)

Thanks again for the well wishes. It really does help, you know. :D

[mark f]

Best of luck, tramp. Hugs and kisses going out your way. I'll be looking for your posts very soon.

[Caitlyn]

Good luck Tramp... we'll all be pulling for you... and please have your son keep us posted... we'll be looking forward to having you back with us soon... :)

[Aniko]

Oh dear...good luck to you Tramp. Here's a big hug for you. I'll keep you in my prayers.

[Fiscal]

Good luck Tramp, everything will go great!


My dog got out of the back yard somehow yesterday and bit my neighbors daughter. I am really scared about what will happen to my pup. He has never escaped from the yard, or even tried for that matter. Our gate to the fence was wide open, so I think the kids let him out, but I can't really prove it.

He is a border collie that isn't aggressive at all, I have no idea how this could've happened. The girls parents were extremely mad, yelling at me and what not. I mean its understandable, I would be furious if this happened to my son. I just know that the dog had to be provoked some how. Kids are always messing with him and my younger puppy when they are in the back yard.

He has never even snarled at anyone before. The cops came by and I had to write a statement, but no one witnessed what happened other than the little girl. Ugh, this sucks. Hopefully I don't get sued, or even worse have to put down my dog or get rid of him.

[Caitlyn]

I'm assuming the little girl is okay Fiscal... and it sounds like she or possibly another child (they will run and hide) let the dog out... hopefully it will all work out okay but you might want to invest in putting a chain and padlock on all of your gates to insure it does not happen again... you might also want to check out what the laws are where you are pertaining to Beware of the Dog and Posted signs... sometimes just adding one or both of those can make a world of difference to the outcome of something like this...

[Fiscal]

The girl is okay, she has a bruise on her leg. I added a lock and sign immediately after the cops left. Texas has a "one bite rule" but I live on an Air Force Base which usually has rules of its own.

[Golgot]

Good luck tramp, don't worry, you'll be fine! Let us know when you're all mofo'd up and ready to roll again :)

[Caitlyn]

The girl is okay, she has a bruise on her leg. I added a lock and sign immediately after the cops left. Texas has a "one bite rule" but I live on an Air Force Base which usually has rules of its own.


Could you tell the bruise was actually made by your dog? Did any of your neighbors see anything?

[Fiscal]

It was in the shape of a bite. I feel terrible that she was hurt, but at the same time I am completely baffled that he would do such a thing. I knocked on some doors and no one even knew it happened.

[Caitlyn]

It was in the shape of a bite. I feel terrible that she was hurt, but at the same time I am completely baffled that he would do such a thing. I knocked on some doors and no one even knew it happened.

It doesn't sound like it was an aggressive bite since it didn't break the skin... How old is the girl? Dogs often nip someone as a warning... so she or another child may have been hurting him. Maybe not intentionally, but still...

[christine]

oh dear Fisc :( I'm glad the little girl is ok and hopefully there won't be any consequences for your dog otherwise you'll be heartbroken.

You can't trust dogs 100% though can you? My first German Shepherd, Perry, was the most docile of all the shep's I've had but one day when the kids were young they were running up and down the garden with their friends, Perry ran out of the house and caught one of them around the waist and brought him down. She obviously thought she was playing cos she was wagging her tail and licking him but he had a red bite mark (unbroken skin, but still, and it turned to a nasty bruise) on his side. I took him straight home and thankfully his mum had lived all her life with dogs so was very understanding, and the little lad wasn't scared or anything but I bloody was! I've been extremely wary with the kids and dogs mixture since.

Dogs are pretty easy to read when you're there watching them, you can see when play turns to impatience, but if you're not there or something happens suddenly then dogs only have their own instinct to turn to.

[nebbit]

Sorry to hear about your doggie Fizzle :(

When people ask me if "does your dog Bite" I say "not yet" because you never know it is there only defence to being annoyed :yup:

[Caitlyn]

I hope Man of 1000 Faces is able to pop in soon and tell us how Tramp is doing...

[christine]

I hope Man of 1000 Faces is able to pop in soon and tell us how Tramp is doing...

I hope so too. I've been thinking about her all week.
x

[Xui Wan]

((xXHugsXx)) for Fiscal
I wouldn't doubt that children were tormenting your pup its in their nature maybe not intentionally but it does happen a lot. I am very protective over my children so I can't accept that this would be a possibility at all. if my neighbor is known to have a dog my children don't go outside unattended. Luckily I only have one neighbor with a very big dog that looks like a horse, and well needless to say my children won't bother to bug him... still I think this is most defiantly in part the parents fault for not attending to their children. it probably started out as playing and she might have got scared then hit him, hurt him or something of the like...
Good luck I hope your dog will live to be a very old Dog.
ps... I am so scared of dogs!!!

[Caitlyn]

Still no news from Tramp yet huh... :(

[Yoda]

Yeah, I was just thinking that the other day. Hasn't been too long, and if there's anything going on at all I'm sure there's plenty on her/their plate, so they may have just forgotten to post an update. Hopefully it turned out alright.

[Xui Wan]

Hugs and Kisses to all the mofo's and where ever you are please just say a little prayer for our Tramp, I do hope she comes back to us soon! ;p

[nebbit]

:yup:

[tramp]

Hi everyone. :)

I'm finally back home. It's been a long ordeal, with a total of three visits to the hospital, but the important news is that the cancer was completely removed! I've had some other minor complications -- some swelling and a blood clot in my lung which delayed me from coming home -- but I'm now on the road to recovery!

I'm still very sore and have trouble sleeping, but, hey, it's a small price to pay. So many of the nurses and doctors I saw say that I was very lucky to get through that surgery and have all the tumor removed.

There was one bit of very sad news... two days after my surgery, my little dog, Macey, got hit by a car and died. She was staying with family and I was nervous about their fence, and when the family came to see me, she escaped the yard, most likely wanting to find me. I found out when I was in the hospital and it was pretty rough. I'm pretty crushed about it and now that I'm home and she's not here, I'm feeling rather sad. It will take a bit of time to get over it. She was my little baby girl....:(

Thanks for all the well-wishes and Caity, thanks for the email. I hope to watch some films during my recovery this month, and when I'm feeling stronger, hope to be posting more!

It's hard to put into words what this has all meant to me, but suffice it to say that I'm very grateful to be alive. My birthday is coming up and I plan on celebrating it this year. :D

[Fiscal]

So glad everything went so smooth, that is such great news. I know it must be hard to loose your 4 legged pal, we become so attached to them. Best of luck in your recovery!

[Yoda]

Whew! Great news. After about a week and a half we started to worry! Thanks for checking in to let us know you're okay. :)

[Sedai]

Awesome news - glad to hear it!

[christine]

So glad to hear from you Tramp, and great news too about all the tumour being removed, you must party extra hard on your birthday!

Sorry to hear about Macey, that must've been awful for you. Your family who were looking after her must've felt terrible too. We get so attached to our dogs I know.

big hugs
xxx

[genesis_pig]

Welcome back Tramp..

[nebbit]

So glad to hear you are on the mend :kiss:

[ash_is_the_gal]

phew! welcome back.

[Caitlyn]

Sounds like you've had a time of it Tramp... but I'm so glad they got all the cancer and you're now on the mend... and able to check in with us. A very wise Irishman on here once told me the internet is a powerful place... and he definitely knew what he was talking about...

I'm so sorry about your doggie...

[rufnek]

Hi everyone. :)

I'm finally back home. It's been a long ordeal, with a total of three visits to the hospital, but the important news is that the cancer was completely removed! I've had some other minor complications -- some swelling and a blood clot in my lung which delayed me from coming home -- but I'm now on the road to recovery!

I'm still very sore and have trouble sleeping, but, hey, it's a small price to pay. So many of the nurses and doctors I saw say that I was very lucky to get through that surgery and have all the tumor removed.

There was one bit of very sad news... two days after my surgery, my little dog, Macey, got hit by a car and died. She was staying with family and I was nervous about their fence, and when the family came to see me, she escaped the yard, most likely wanting to find me. I found out when I was in the hospital and it was pretty rough. I'm pretty crushed about it and now that I'm home and she's not here, I'm feeling rather sad. It will take a bit of time to get over it. She was my little baby girl....:(

Thanks for all the well-wishes and Caity, thanks for the email. I hope to watch some films during my recovery this month, and when I'm feeling stronger, hope to be posting more!

It's hard to put into words what this has all meant to me, but suffice it to say that I'm very grateful to be alive. My birthday is coming up and I plan on celebrating it this year. :D

I had a cancer removed back in 1979, so I identify with your comment about it's hard to express your feelings after something like that. When I came out of surgery I promised myself I was gonna have fun every extra day I'd been given--I highly recommend that prescription.

Glad to hear you're doing well and so sorry about the loss of your pet. It's awfully hard to lose a loved one before their time. But concentrate on the memories of good times shared and focus on the good times still before you once you're fully recovered. Have a good life!

[Xui Wan]

Welcome back Tramp and so sorry to hear your sad news.
In my culture there is a belief that when a pet dies it is so its owner can live. well its not always a pet but anther being. It's almost a sacrifice as a show of unconditional love. its the spirit choosing to return in place of the person being called back. I'm not sure how, if at all religious you might be however that is a thought, maybe a little comforting. I hope your recover is a blessed one. <3 XxHUGSxX

[tramp]

Thanks, everyone. I really appreciate all your kind wishes. I've been feeling rather depressed when I know I should be celebrating, so it's uplifting to read your posts.

I have trouble sleeping and I can't really get around much (and my house is a mess!) so that's getting to me a bit. I just need to relax, I guess. I'm not up to being on the computer much at this point, but soon, I hope..

:)

[Aniko]

I'm glad to hear that your surgery went well. I hope you feel better and stronger soon. Try not to worry about the mess...take care of yourself first and get some sleep. :)

[nebbit]

Thanks, everyone. I really appreciate all your kind wishes. I've been feeling rather depressed when I know I should be celebrating, so it's uplifting to read your posts.

I have trouble sleeping and I can't really get around much (and my house is a mess!) so that's getting to me a bit. I just need to relax, I guess. I'm not up to being on the computer much at this point, but soon, I hope..

:)
This is a big thing in your life :kiss: I am sure you will go up and down for a while :yup: Remember the more you relax the sooner you will regain your strength, don't push yourself :kiss:

[eMilee]

this is so hard to write but it needs to be said somewhere. today i went off on the guy i call a husband and a father. things were said that needed be to said and it was the truth. poor guy cannot see what its doing to me.. turning my love to hate for him. i don't regret what was said but something has to give soon before i really open up and tell him what he doesn't want to hear. i won't go into specifics but just i feel better by getting some of this out.

[mark f]

We hope it does the trick and makes things better for all of you.

[MadMikeyD]

I hope everything turns out well. Speaking as a husband who has been gone off on a time or two, there are times we need it. Hopefully it does the trick.

[nebbit]

this is so hard to write but it needs to be said somewhere. today i went off on the guy i call a husband and a father. things were said that needed be to said and it was the truth. poor guy cannot see what its doing to me.. turning my love to hate for him. i don't regret what was said but something has to give soon before i really open up and tell him what he doesn't want to hear. i won't go into specifics but just i feel better by getting some of this out.
A big http://bestsmileys.com/hugging/4.gif for you both :kiss:

[eMilee]

thanks alot for all the words of support and the emohug. i knew i could count on nebs to leave one. as far as an update, there isn't much of one. i went to work and barely said much to people or customers even though i got to see some i hadn't seen in a year. i got home and he asked if i was still mad. i told him to get help with his issues before they ate him alive and ruined everything. he then said his feelings were still hurt from what i said. sad thing is i am too numb to feel anything right now. i am EXISTING because i have a child to raise and nuture...one that i cannot imagine life without. i have done alot of soul searching tonight. i have made my mind up on alot. i will update when i talk to him about it.

[genesis_pig]

Proud of you girl!!.. Hope things work out for the best now.

[Caitlyn]

Hope everything works out the way you want it to eM... :)

[tramp]

eM, this all sounds so stressful. I wish you the best and hope it all works out for your family.


I went back to work this week.... i am a bit tired, but feeling good. Glad to be getting back to normal. :D

[eMilee]

thanks tramp... go to know you are on the mend and back here at the forum.

[7thson]

I went back to work this week.... i am a bit tired, but feeling good. Glad to be getting back to normal. :D

Good to hear you are improving. :)

[nebbit]

I went back to work this week.... i am a bit tired, but feeling good. Glad to be getting back to normal. :D
Nice to hear you are on the mend :yup: don't overdue it :kiss:

[christine]

So glad you're feeling like things are getting back to normal Tramp. Take it steady now xxx

[eMilee]

today has been one of hell of a bad day and just ready for it to be over with. ready to throw the covers over my head and sleep.

[nebbit]

ready to throw the covers over my head and sleep.
Hope you have nice :sleep:

[rufnek]

this is so hard to write but it needs to be said somewhere. today i went off on the guy i call a husband and a father. things were said that needed be to said and it was the truth. poor guy cannot see what its doing to me.. turning my love to hate for him. i don't regret what was said but something has to give soon before i really open up and tell him what he doesn't want to hear. i won't go into specifics but just i feel better by getting some of this out.

Look, I don't really know you or your situation, but I've been on both sides of things like this--telling someone off and getting told off, so for what it's worth, here's some things I've discovered:

No matter what you do or how long you work at it, you can't change people. The only person you can change is you, so either change being bothered by whatever now bothers you or change locations so you're no longer around the person or what he does to bother you.

Now this sounds rude and crude, but it's something that gets down the brass tacks of it all and clarifies the issue. And that's the basic question, is the f--king you're getting worth the f--king you're getting. That's not just limited to sex, of course. It's just a way of asking if what you're getting out of this relationship is worth all the negative load that comes with it? Is there something so wonderful here that you're willing to endure all that you have to put up with? And if not, why are you putting up with it? Someone once told me, if you find love once, you can always find it again. I don't believe in soul mates--I've deeply loved several women over the years. Some I left, some left me, but another love always came along. So don't ever think what you have now is the best you can do because you can always trade up.

Anyway, for what it's worth. Sounds like you've thrown away the pink glasses and you are looking at the real world now. If you and this person can work things out, great--I wish you the best. But sometimes you just can't paste things all together again. Sometimes the smartest thing to do is turn mother's picture to the wall and go on down the road. No sense throwing good love after bad--find someone else who'll appreciate it. Counseling really worked well for me and my wife, and I would recommend it. It helps to have a third party who isn't taking sides and can help you think things through. It would be nice if he would get counseling with you, but if not, go by yourself but then concentrate on what's best for you.

Main thing, if you decide to stick it out, you both are going to have to work hard to make it better. And if he doesn't believe that and if he is not willing to change himself at least as much as you change yourself--well, it takes 2 people to make a couple. It won't work if only you are making an effort.

Hope it works out for you. Remember, you've got complete strangers rooting for you here! :)

[eMilee]

not much to say in this thread tonight execpt thank you for all the support. for people who just know each other on here and not in real life (its a shame because i would love to meet several in person)..your words of encouragment and support mean more to me than you will ever know. on this forum, i can be the REAL ME. the film lover, proud mother, and a i hope a good friend to all.... here i can talk movies and learn from others.


this is my home....

[nebbit]

We :love: you Emm :kiss:

[eMilee]

well its been awhile since i was in this thread and came back to read the words of encouragement. i need it again... just this time, i do know what i want out of my life. i am slowly realizing things will never change. it hurts me to put my child thru this much longer. i am in the process of getting things ready to end things. i am sick of his lying. i can take alot but the lying is the breaking point. i feel like i am raising two kids. all he did today was play video games.. last week, we had a long talk and i thought FINALLY he got it. but as soon as i got home, i realized nothing had sunk in. i am slowly backing off and doing what i can for my child and myself.

so, tonight i am making a list of what i need to do in the next few months. i see things thru new eyes and i am not afarid of what's coming next for me. i am ready to start over yet again but this time, i know i am doing what's best for my child. i cannot have her grow up in this home to hate me later on.

i even re-read Rufnek's reply to see if it could change my heart. nothing can..

just had to get this off my chest tonight, mofos

[nebbit]

We are here for you Emm :kiss: You do what is right for you and your baby :yup: