Need you guys' help again-still reeling from heart break [Archive]

Equilibrium

02-02-06, 05:24 PM

Now, before I start I know that I've started at least three threads about the same issue.

But the thing is, I know i should move on and I am but I need you guys to understand that I like to understand things before I put them away.

so please I need you to really try and help me figure this one out and give me the most likely answer.

Haven't spoken to my ex in 3 weeks. The last conversation we had ended with her saying this: "i think you and i will be together in the future but for now i just want to date and stuff and not have a serious boyfriend. Anyways i have to run i dont know when i am going to call you but i know that ill call you"

3 weeks later...(yesterday)

She calls....i pick up. We small talk for a bit about normal stuff. Then she tells me shes on her way to a guy named jacob...The way she said it though was her begging for me to ask her "whose jacob" but i didnt. So she saw i wasnt gonna ask so she goes "yeah he comes to see me all that time so im gonna go see him tonight"..i pretend to be unaffected and just shrugged it off and talked about other things..then she brings him up again "can you believe he already wants me to fly to meet his mother?Hes paying for it and everything... He must really like me!"
Again i just shrug it off...And say "thats cool"

then I change the subject and such and then she says she has to go and says "later babe"

the general tone of the convo was very..."im trying to make conversation/stuffing u with information about this new guy"

was she just trying to get a reaction out of me? Are things definitly over for good?

So today I log online and I see that she switched her facebook account to a new school, and added all her friends except for me. Not only that but theres a picture of her and the new guy making out. Keep in mind shes known him for less than 3 weeks.

Everyone I've talked to said that she is trying to make me jealous, trying to make me want her back and beg her to come back so she can say no and have the power.

Do you guys think this is true? or is this merely a case of her letting me know that things are definitly over...and then moving on by not even bothering to add me to her new facebook.

I talked to my ex gf..THE ex you guys remember her from about a yea and ahalf ago..well she told me that there was no doubt in her mind this is a GAME. She wants attention and that I should pretend like nothing is wrong, that'll make her come back...and then *I* can chose if i want her back or not.

Another person said that she deleted me from facebook because she didnt get what she wanted from that phone call, she didnt get my drooling for her so shes going to show me she doesn't care about me.
help, long nice posts about this are always nice to read.

ash_is_the_gal

02-02-06, 05:35 PM

i hate to say it but HOW CAN YOU EVEN LIKE SOMEONE LIKE THAT?

okay...sorry...im sure i have liked worse. seriously though...that is almost laughable.

I talked to my ex gf..THE ex you guys remember her from about a yea and ahalf ago..well she told me that there was no doubt in her mind this is a GAME. She wants attention and that I should pretend like nothing is wrong, that'll make her come back...and then *I* can chose if i want her back or not.

if anything, take that advice...even if it kills you and you want her still. i mean, if she's going to be playing games then she can at least be more slick about it...geez.

you can do better...

Yoda

02-02-06, 05:49 PM

Yes, it's a game. Yes, she's trying to get a rise out of you. But she's probably doing it because she wants to keep you around as a backup plan. She wants to "sow her wild oats," or some such nonsense, but wants a nice guy to play the role of safety net when it stops being fun.

In other words, both are true: she doesn't want you right now. But she wants the option of you. That alone tells you all you need to know about this girl and her level of emotional maturity. Real love doesn't have any interest in these sorts of mind games.

Next time she calls, don't just pretend to be uninterested. Actually be uninterested.

Sedai

02-02-06, 05:57 PM

Ash probably has the right of it, good riddance, says I...

We love you Spid3y!

SamsoniteDelilah

02-02-06, 06:24 PM

What part of that do you even want?

John McClane

02-02-06, 06:54 PM

Sounds like her loss. Mind games are just sick to play on people. Like the famous Gib said in True Lies "Women. Can't live with 'em. Can't kill 'em!" But yea, women are just crazy. Of course this doesn't apply to any women at Movie Forums. :)

susan

02-02-06, 07:53 PM

try not to respond to anything that she does or says...

time is a great healer...

Sleezy

02-02-06, 08:09 PM

Why do people even do this? It seems like every time I tried to talk to my ex, she was always trying to subtly rub something in because she knew it hurt. Do people actually do this, or do we just interpret what is said as some kind of "nanny nanny boo boo" thing?

ash_is_the_gal

02-02-06, 09:38 PM

SamsoniteDelilah

02-02-06, 09:45 PM

Both genders play head games.

Sleezy

02-02-06, 09:47 PM

Both genders play head games.

Yep. It's easy to pick on the opposite gender, but both do it.

Equilibrium

02-02-06, 09:48 PM

I know that there is a part of her that knows its over. But I agree that she still is keeping me around as backup, but I think she delted me mainly because she knows that perhaps im not as much of a backup as she thought I was.

Thank you for all the help my friends.

ash_is_the_gal

02-02-06, 09:55 PM

the fact that she deleted you, the fact that she calls you and tells you about her "new man"....that to me is just her trying to get a rise out of you, because she wants to see if you still have feelings for her. not because she actually wants you back, but she probably still has feelings for you. its definitely cruel, and pretty immature...and the best way to deal with it, is like i said, remaining neutral about everthing to do with her.

John McClane

02-02-06, 10:08 PM

Just give her a round house kick to the face. That ought to straighter her up. :p :)

Strummer521

02-02-06, 10:17 PM

Just give her a round house kick to the face. That ought to straighter her up. :p :)

Man, everybody is really into those Chuck Norris jokes

gummo

02-02-06, 10:40 PM

Equilibrium, don't even talk to her anymore! If she calls, answer the phone and say you are too busy to talk. If she keeps calling, tell her you are busy until finally tell her, "Look I don't want to talk to you, leave me alone." By talking to her and listening to her go on and on about these other guys is not good for you emotionally. Even if you are still in love with this girl, you have to find a way to let her go. It will be for the good anyway because she sounds very immature with this game she's playing. Yoda is right, she probably wants you for a backup. When she finds what she is looking for she will probably dump you all over again...but it doubtful she even knows what she wants. She is too immature for you, E! You should go out and find a nice girl that likes you for you. In all your sexiness you shouldn't have a hard time....though you may have to beat the girls off with a stick! ;)

Equilibrium

02-02-06, 10:44 PM

You guys are so awesome. You know that?

I'm so glad I stuck around this forum..because I feel like you guys are my close friends even if I never meet you. So thanks, all of you.

I'm taking the advice to heart and letting go of her.

Equilibrium

02-03-06, 04:28 PM

I'm not really trying to ellicit pity or attention or anything like that by posting here. Any comments are appreciated and welcomed. But more han anything this is me trying to get my feelings and thoughts out to a place wher ei know they are heard...rather than a diary or journal where no one will read them. Even a love forum or relationship forum isnt the same...this is MY community and you people know me.

I know that in any breakup there will be periods of "wow i dont need her at all there's so much to look forward to in life I'm only 19"

and then there are periods like right now...."I feel so alone, they could hold a parade in my name and everyone of my friends could call me at the same time within the next hour, but I would still feel so alone in this world"

Highs and Lows.

I'm trying my best to get on wit it, to dabble in every day life's tragedies. I go back to school tomorrow, I go back to a place where I have no friends...my only friend was her. She kept me going through that place and now its biting me in the ass, I should not have relied on someone so much to get me through something because now I have to get through it on my own.

I know she is no good. I know I am attractive. I know she cheated on me and that alone should have been the end of things. Its easy to think that way at times. But its not easy right now, to picture and remember the countless hours we spent talking to each other on the phone. How she told me it was because of me that she knew she never really loved her first boyfriend, that I upped the standard of what love is.

1 week after she told me she no longer loved me she was already seeing someone else.

And I hate all these games she plays. Well actually, no i dont. I love the fct that she's playing games because it means she still has feelings for me and is trying to ellicit responses. She knows I'm impulsive and even though I haven't intiated contact with her for the past month, she knows that I might break.

Is it wrong for me to think "That new guy is just a rebound and she'll be done with him sooner than she was with me"?

Is it wrong for me to assume she is still thinking about me?

Is it wrong for me to think that almost every move she makes is catered towards trying to make jealous?

Or is it that I'd rather not face the truth...is the truth: SHE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU, AND YOU'RE NOTHING BUT A GUY SHE DATED FOR A LITTLE WHILE AND SHE ISNT DOING THAT STUFF TO ANNOY YOU, SHES DOING THAT STUFF BECAUSE SHE FORGOT ABOUT YOU.

I don't know, but moving on would be so much easier if I knew she was just as bent on what happeneed between us as I am.

ash_is_the_gal

02-03-06, 04:36 PM

you poor thing...i feel for you...and don't really know what to tell you for fear of telling you the wrong thing. i know there are other people on this forum more capable of giving you the proper advice. i can't really give objective advice on this particular subject at the moment anyway.

just, good luck. heh.

Sedai

02-03-06, 05:00 PM

Man, everybody is really into those Chuck Norris jokes

The Chuck giveth, and the good Chuck taketh away!

gummo

02-03-06, 06:57 PM

Breaking up with people you love is so hard that it feels like it's the end of the world. But the feelings do ease. Not right away, but eventually. I don't want to sound cliche, but it really is true. I was in love with someone who dumped me and it took me a long time to get passed it. To this day I occationally think of this guy. My bestfriend is still friends with him and she tells me that he is married now, etc... and I still feel hurt because it wasn't long ago that we were planning a wedding.

You think of the good times you had together and even the bad times that you both made it through...it just hurts. One day you will find happiness with another woman. Only this time round you will have a person who wants to be with YOU! Your first love will always be in your heart, but that doesn't mean that you can't love someone else just as much.

It is not wrong for you to think those things. You could be right. But while you are thinking about all that, think about something you could be doing to get her out of your mind. Do you play guitar? I found that when I broke up with this guy that is when I wrote my best music. Or do you play another instrument? Or paint? write? anything creative will help get everything out. Although writing here is perfectly fine, I even encourage it, having other creative outlets as backups are good. Even post some paintings or drawing here.

I bet if you were the one that ended it between you two, she would be just as hurt as you. But I don't know either of you so I can't be a judge of that.

Come back when ever you need to talk to all of us. We sincerely care about you!

Pyro Tramp

02-04-06, 02:53 PM

I went through a patch with my ex, she says i'm her best friend but she always talks about her new guy. When he went away, she rang and texted me a bunch so it was pretty clear how she felt. I just tell her where to stick it and she then pays for the meal.

Personally, i'd let yours keep tagging onto you, but be a dick to her, she'll get the impression you're not interested and you might see her real motives, plus it helps you get over her if you set yourself in the frame of mind that you don't want her.

Anyway, this new guy just sounds like he's trying to get in her pants- plane tickets after 3 weeks? He's probably a jerk with something you don't have, age and money (no offence) and she's enticed by that, but if she loves you, she'll be back.

Best advice: if in doubt, wait it out.

Equilibrium

02-04-06, 06:39 PM

Again, I appreciate all the comments. It helps to READ about my situation rather than to torture myself with just my thoughts. I assure you, for those of you who care enough, that I am heeding the advice (pyro tramp im not sure I understand yours though) meaning that I am trying not to think about her, shes no longer at the forefront of my thought but rather more like an afterthought.

My plane leaves in an hour back to college. I am going back to place that is painted with her name, not becasuse she goes there but because my schedual there revolved around her and when I would talk to her. It is going to be tough but I can do it, and school is more important anyways.

She hasn't contacted me since that phone conversation, and i am still deleted from facebook and her account says "In a Relationship" followed by a picture of her and the new guy making out.

Maybe this is completely off the mark but, she met him only a week after things ended with me, isn't that a bit soon for her? I pity him, hes going to have to go through "I'm confused" conversations with her. During those confused states is when I'll be the most vunerable because she may call me...I've decided I just can't pick the phone up anymore for her. I am going to wait a minimum of 4 months before I do.

Call me crazy but I hope that this new relationship of hers ends just as suddenly and swiftly as it started, not so I can get her back but so that she can see what she lost.

My biggest fear is not that she wont return, I couldn't care less about that. What hurts the most is the possibility that she doesn't even give a thought to me. I'd rather hate me...than be moved on because that why i'll still be on her mind.

Again, thank you mofo for listening to this next episode. and unless anyone has any objections I am ging to keep ranting in this thread whenever I have the urge, so be prepared.

Pyro Tramp

02-04-06, 07:55 PM

Huh, what don't you understand. Pffft.

All i was trying to say is, treat her like she treats you and wait and see how things turn out.

ash_is_the_gal

02-04-06, 08:49 PM

i am glad you are staying strong!! :p

Mrs. Darcy

02-04-06, 08:58 PM

Hey Equilibrium,

I'm new to the forum, but I'm older and have been through all this relationship crap, so if you'll give me a little lee way here I'll give you some advice: It's gonna hurt like hell for a long while.
You'll be glad it's over when the anger stage hits (any time now).
Like Yoda said, she wants you as fall back guy because she knows you want her, and if things don't work out with her new single life, she wants someone she's comfortable with and willing to take her back after her game playing is over or falls through.
Game players play games forever, if not this, then some other game that hurts just as bad.
Let her go...

Equilibrium

02-05-06, 11:52 AM

I appreciate the advice. And believe me I am taking it. I am letting her go.

At the airport today, I stood in the spot where we first met, and where we had our first kiss. I stood there for two minutes reenacting everything that happened at that very happy moment in my life. Then I realized people were looking at me so I had to stop.

I'm in my college dorm now, I havent been here since the disaster. As soon as I walked in, the first thing I noticed was a thank you card she sent me..inside was a poem she wrote for me saying "Thank you for making me realize that all the tears I cried for him were for nothing, you're the one I've been looking for so thank you, for making my heart whole again"

I read this now, knowing that im only picking at the scab of the wound rather than letting it just be. But we humans are very saddistic creatures. The pain makes us feel....alive.

But sometimes I wish I could have that feeling back with her, that feeling like I was on top of the world.

I hope she thinks about me as much as I think about her.

Equilibrium

02-06-06, 11:34 AM

Yes, i miss her, and I probably still love her. But I would never take her back.

She and the new guy are officially dating. They are boyfriend and girlfriend and there is a picture of the two in which they are kissing and she calls him "my sweetheart". So, I think whatever it is she has with him is pretty serious and not merely an attempt to make me jealous.

There are only two possible explantions for whats going on.

She realized something about me and decided not to bother with being with me or salvaging a friendship and shes moved on and its done. This would explain why she hasn't called me in a month (except once to tell me about her new guy).

The other possibility is that I'm just on hold, she knows I'm a good guy and she knows what I have to offer and shes waiting until later to revist her situation with me.

I cant bring myself to accept the first possibility, which admittedly is the most probable one.

I just want to yell out: HELP.

Yoda

02-06-06, 11:48 AM

Yes, i miss her, and I probably still love her. But I would never take her back.

She and the new guy are officially dating. They are boyfriend and girlfriend and there is a picture of the two in which they are kissing and she calls him "my sweetheart". So, I think whatever it is she has with him is pretty serious and not merely an attempt to make me jealous.
I don't know about that. It's been, what, a week or two? So many people my age have this odd tendency to speed every relationship up so that they're exclusive in a week and their love transcends time and space in three.

If you really care about someone, you don't have to make a show of it. You don't go out of your way to take a picture of the two of you kissing, and you sure as hell don't go out of your way to post it so that friends and ex-boyfriends alike can see it. I don't think this is about you or this new guy; I think it's about the idea of being in love, and showing it off.

She wants actual romance so bad she's willing to speed relationships up (yours, and now this one) to an unnatural speed and display them for the whole world to see to convince people -- possibly herself, as well -- that she has it.

Equilibrium

02-06-06, 11:57 AM

I don't know about that. It's been, what, a week or two? So many people my age have this odd tendency to speed every relationship up so that they're exclusive in a week and their love transcends time and space in three.

If you really care about someone, you don't have to make a show of it. You don't go out of your way to take a picture of the two of you kissing, and you sure as hell don't go out of your way to post it so that friends and ex-boyfriends alike can see it. I don't think this is about you or this new guy; I think it's about the idea of being in love, and showing it off.

She wants actual romance so bad she's willing to speed relationships up (yours, and now this one) to an unnatural speed and display them for the whole world to see to convince people -- possibly herself, as well -- that she has it.

Food for thought.

She most likely IS trying to convince herself that she has it. And now that I think of it, I did the same thing at one point in my life.

Equilibrium

02-07-06, 03:26 PM

I feel like I am not doing a good job of moving on, because too much of me is holding on to hope. Holding on to the hope that one day she is going to wake up next to the new guy and realize she was only after his looks (hes very good looking according to my girlfriends but he and I are a close match they say so I'm not too worried). Maybe she'll wake up and realize that she misses me and call me. Maybe she'll just get a rush of "i miss him" and do something impulsive and text me....does stuff like that happen???

Maybe shes too distracted with the new guy to realize that im not there....

gummo

02-07-06, 03:46 PM

Maybe she'll wake up and realize that she misses me and call me. Maybe she'll just get a rush of "i miss him" and do something impulsive and text me....does stuff like that happen???

...like the stuff that happens in movies? Don't wait around for her to come back! You NEED to try and find some way of getting over this girl. Trust me because I have been there myself. She has moved on and probably will not come back. I don't mean to sound so harsh but it is killing you, isn't it? It is so sad but you have to get this girl out of your mind somehow. Though it is perfectly okay to be depressed about this, it is only going to eat away at you the longer you hold onto this hope that she will come back. Get back into the things you used to love doing that didn't involve this girl. Anyone who would leave a decent, attractive, sweet, caring, intelligent guy for some "dude" who most likely has nothing spectacular about him, is not worth your time anyway. You will find someone who appreciates you and all you have to offer her. She is the loser in this, not you!!

Eyes

02-11-06, 02:51 PM

I'm sorry that I wasn't around for this Equi, but I'm glad that you're feeling better about it.

I can tell you that if you just work through the hard times, you will eventually find in the days to come, that you can really smile for no apparent reason, a real smile that comes naturally too.

Equilibrium

02-14-06, 09:40 PM

Eyes

02-14-06, 10:40 PM

Doesn't matter eyes, you're ehere now and you responded..it shows you care.

I am doing really well for those of you who care to know...but on this day im wondering where she is..but i know that if i were to imagine the most probable answer..i would be hurting myself....****ing her new man.

please excuse my bad grammer and spelling....

well, I may know of something that may help. You just have to sit down, and ask yourself one question... more of a riddle actually...
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Equilibrium

02-15-06, 11:40 AM

well, I may know of something that may help. You just have to sit down, and ask yourself one question... more of a riddle actually...
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:) You ask him for it.

Pyro Tramp

02-21-06, 12:23 AM

Strummer521

02-21-06, 12:27 AM

Thread hijack: Help...

The girl i really fancy kept texting me in a club, telling me to meet her and when she saw me, she started flirting with this guy. Later on MSN, i ask how her night was and if she got with the guy, and she replied "not tonight". People that know both of us claim we have sexual tension, that we'd make a good couple and i should just get with her- so we had plans to go out to the cinema, and i was going to ask her out then. But now it seems a new guy is in the picture that she's getting with. What the hell?

Wait a minute. So you had plans to go out with her. And then you were going to ask her out, while the two of you were out...at the movies? You crazy kids....

Pyro Tramp

02-21-06, 12:29 AM

Go to cinema as friends, leave as a couple.... or was that a joke? :)

Xui Wan

02-21-06, 05:54 AM

wow ur really in love!!! I think prior to this last year I would have said ditch the *itch... but then I had a really horrible year! misunderstandings and everything. I didnt know what was up down right left!

My father died and well this really amazing person was there for me. He meant the world to me... He means the world to me... See he believes that I cheated on him, when in actuallity I hadnt. I lost everything when I lost him I thought that the world would stop and all of a sudden take me out of it!!! I turned into a total and utter recluse! I started talkin to whomever would hear me and they would try to give me advice, some were complete tards cause they really only wanted to hear a cute voice and imply certain things!! this went on for awhile the whole time my heart was dying for him. it still does!! I went on for months like this just existing and chatting playin the games I regular, every now and then someone with a name simular to his would show up and Id try not to act like I noticed and really I was dying to say omg ur names perfect and IthnkIluvu if ur who I wish u were! I was told he was over me and that he had a new gf and that they would be happy no matter what! I was hurt and torn lol only to find out that it was some guy who befriended me, he was both my ex's friend and mine and thought that it would help if I thought he had a new love interest. ass&*^%s!!! I played the "Im with someone" card, after that I didnt get pictures lol I used the emails from creeps I knew! why why why??? I know that hurt him cause not long after I gots me an IM that still hurts when I think about it... hmm not very nice on my part, I still regret it! idk maybe she never diserved the chance or love you gave her, and maybe she does maybe shes just a little messed or alot messed up!! I think its important to let the ones that you love, know that you love them! no matter what!! I mean WHAT WILL I DO TO MAKE MY DREAMS COME TRUE??? we all have dreams we all have wants needs and yet somehow we forget that we are responsible for our own happiness. I miss him and I love him and I have told him! I pray everyday that he will call me! not a day or night goes by that I dont think of him or kiss his picture goodnight or sleep with the teddybear that he gave me not a day or night goes by that I think I will never get over him... Im certain I wont but I will be happy in the meantime cause well I have that choice... I can be a miserable sh*t or a pleasant one!!! so I guess the choice is yours! you can tell her that you are madly in love with her and that she had better get her crap together cause ur not into being the guy on the sidelines waiting for a chance to be mr. forever!! or be content in knowing that you have a broken heart and it may never completely heal but that you have learned from it and that when love comes again it may not be what you had before but that you can accept it! and it will be new! As f*kcd up as we are we do learn!! sometimes it takes awhile... and Im sorry I hurt you!!!

ash_is_the_gal

02-21-06, 10:22 AM

wow, ill have to get back to this thread in a few hours, its too early in the morning to try to read all of that now...;)

Caitlyn

02-21-06, 11:36 AM

Thread hijack: Help...

The girl i really fancy kept texting me in a club, telling me to meet her and when she saw me, she started flirting with this guy. Later on MSN, i ask how her night was and if she got with the guy, and she replied "not tonight". People that know both of us claim we have sexual tension, that we'd make a good couple and i should just get with her- so we had plans to go out to the cinema, and i was going to ask her out then. But now it seems a new guy is in the picture that she's getting with. What the hell?

And some people think fog is the only thing that is dense... :p ;) :D

Dude, that is the oldest trick in the book... make guy/girl jealous and maybe they'll come around. If you want my advice, just call her and ask her out on a date... not a just friends date... a real date... and let her know that is what it is.

I hate games...

ash_is_the_gal

02-21-06, 11:56 AM

And some people think fog is the only thing that is dense... :p ;) :D

Dude, that is the oldest trick in the book... make guy/girl jealous and maybe they'll come around. If you want my advice, just call her and ask her out on a date... not a just friends date... a real date... and let her know that is what it is.

I hate games...

the lady is right! as much as women fancy playing games, they love it when a man has the guts to be direct.

do you like how i am referring to my own gender in "fourth person" ? :rolleyes:

Anonymous Last

02-21-06, 01:32 PM

Dear EQ

One on one and the cringe is a poor face with a sour look not knowing where you'll end up. I think you should walk away from driving Ms. Crazy. Choking on a poisonous piece of pie with a bitter sweet of looking glaze dripping from your mouth crack...melted when you said it. Hold the thoughts of her under the water tightly, make her smile, swallow the bubbles that pop up on the stagnant surface and spit em' out in the vision of her liquid ripples.
The hope you hold... builds a character that she refuses to see and God bless the blindness in her poor taste and stale breath you love so much.
I know it hurts to have the heart disturbed and the friction of it all pumps like a fist through a wall. Looking at your charm of bloody knuckles never answers the questions of why... the truth is, that it just is. Take credit for the person you are, step away and shake your head at Ms. Crazy for breaking stuff. Or keep dwelling on the stagnant surface in her empty arms.

Love,

Mr. Last

Equilibrium

02-21-06, 05:28 PM

Pyro. As many have mentioned before, its the oldest trick in the book.

But perhaps shes been trying to get with you for a while and shes fed up with it. t/heres only one way to find out for sure. Ask her and tell her what it is you feel. The worst that could happen is "oh im sorry i lead you on but im not interest in you that way and i really like this ne w guy" which sucks but at least you'll know and you wont waste your time getting hurt.

Anonymous..thank you for that.

As for me...I'm doing much better. Still doing alot of thinking, but more thanking than hurting.

Pyro Tramp

02-21-06, 05:47 PM

We've darted around the relationship issue before, and i'm sure she'll say no, last time it was "you're my best friend and nothing will ever change that"- i'm pretty sure she doesn't want to get with me.

How you faring btw Eq?

Strummer521

02-21-06, 10:32 PM

This is a bit off topic, but does anyone else cringe every time they read the phrases "get with her", "get with me" or "get with him?" I mean no offense to those who use the expression because it has become common in everyday speech but the english language seems to get more clumsy with each year that passes. Our language has the potential to be so expressive, yet we keep denying that by using such awkward slang. They one big attraction for me with old books and movies. Those characters could talk circles around all but the sharpest linguist and they were mostly averege common people. I'm sorry to rant, but so many of our generation's slang is extremely irritating to my eyes and ears. Just wondering whether or not I'm alone in that.

Strummer521

02-21-06, 10:32 PM

Caitlyn

02-21-06, 11:02 PM

I'm sorry to rant, but so many of our generation's slang is extremely irritating to my eyes and ears. Just wondering whether or not I'm alone in that.

:nope:

Eyes

02-21-06, 11:39 PM

Thread hijack: Help...

The girl i really fancy kept texting me in a club, telling me to meet her and when she saw me, she started flirting with this guy. Later on MSN, i ask how her night was and if she got with the guy, and she replied "not tonight". People that know both of us claim we have sexual tension, that we'd make a good couple and i should just get with her- so we had plans to go out to the cinema, and i was going to ask her out then. But now it seems a new guy is in the picture that she's getting with. What the hell?
ask her out anyway, I think she's trying to make you jealous, though, without more details I can't be sure. Either way, what have you got to lose? and what have you got to gain?

Pyro Tramp

02-22-06, 12:26 AM

How old are you Strummer, just out of interest- got no qualms with your post.

Strummer521

02-22-06, 12:29 AM

How old are you Strummer, just out of interest- got no qualms with your post.

17. How about you?

Anonymous Last

02-22-06, 12:41 AM

How old are you Strummer, just out of interest- got no qualms with your post.

Quit trying to "get with" Strummer!

Sorry... I had to do it.

Caitlyn

02-22-06, 12:55 AM

I suddenly feel an urge to borrow one of Ash's favorite words… :p

brat

Austruck

02-22-06, 01:45 AM

Austruck

02-22-06, 01:48 AM

Actually, Strummer, I had been hoping in the earlier days of being online (late '80s for me) that having to type everything and communicate in written words would help raise the level of literacy in society.

However, I think the axiom is true that the least common denominator has kicked in everywhere. AIM and text-messaging have people shortening words and whole phrases down to single letters and numerals, with absolutely no regard any more for proper grammar, spelling, or punctuation. And no one corrects anyone because it makes you look nerdy or rude or shallow -- or all three.

I am happy to say all four of my children use complete sentences and proper spelling when they communicate online, except for the youngest (age 12). Her emails are great, and her IMs are very good, but her online blog/page has a lot of the jargon-y abbreviations in it, I've noticed. But that seems to be the only place she allows herself to do this.

Austruck

02-22-06, 01:51 AM

Oops, off-topic, sorry. As for Equilibrium's dilemma, it seems everyone has already pegged this girl for you -- and done it well. Although the heart wants what it wants, try hard to think LONG-TERM about this. You do NOT want to get involved with someone who keeps her options open. Doesn't sound very monogamous to me, and once the heart gets involved, it desperately wants monogamy.

It'll only hurt more from here. Run for your life. :)

Pyro Tramp

02-22-06, 10:35 AM

17. How about you?

18 and three quarters.

In regards to my earlier post, after chatting with her, I think y'all were right about her trying to make me jealous though not sure why. Pretty certain it wasn't to make me ask her out. Anyway, cheers for the replies.

Caitlyn

02-22-06, 12:12 PM

In regards to my earlier post, after chatting with her, I think y'all were right about her trying to make me jealous though not sure why. Pretty certain it wasn't to make me ask her out. Anyway, cheers for the replies.

http://www.cnn.com/EARTH/9608/27/cloud.harvest/clouds.lrg.jpg

ash_is_the_gal

02-22-06, 03:22 PM

17. How about you?

you're kidding :eek:

Pyro Tramp

02-22-06, 03:59 PM

http://www.cnn.com/EARTH/9608/27/cloud.harvest/clouds.lrg.jpg

Huh?

ash_is_the_gal

02-22-06, 04:15 PM

too funny.

Caitlyn

02-22-06, 04:19 PM

Huh?

*Sigh*... Pyro, just call her and ask her out... if she says no or I don't like you that way... then ask her what's up with the games she's playing...

ash_is_the_gal

02-22-06, 04:33 PM

cliiiimb evvvery mountaaaain.....

Pyro Tramp

02-22-06, 04:38 PM

*Sigh*... Pyro, just call her and ask her out... if she says no or I don't like you that way... then ask her what's up with the games she's playing...

Yeah, i will, i just didnt get what the picture was of...

SamsoniteDelilah

02-22-06, 04:39 PM

Yeah, i will, i just didnt get what the picture was of...
Fog.

Pyro Tramp

02-22-06, 10:42 PM

Failed. As we walked home and all systems were go, she says "i don't want till be in a relationship till October"... A year after she broke up with her ex.

Equilibrium

02-24-06, 04:59 PM

cliiiimb evvvery mountaaaain.....
lol that made me laugh uncontrollably.

Caitlyn

02-25-06, 12:54 AM

Failed. As we walked home and all systems were go, she says "i don't want till be in a relationship till October"... A year after she broke up with her ex.

If that is the case, she needs to stop playing games... but out of curiosity, did she break up with her ex or did he break up with her? And do you know why they broke up?

Pyro Tramp

02-25-06, 11:55 AM

She broke up with him, though he made it really hard and refused to let her. She stopped loving him as far as i know, and didn't want to be held down at Uni.

Since i took her out for a meal and cinema yesterday, I think i'm still going to give it a pop while there's good groundwork laid.

ash_is_the_gal

02-25-06, 02:20 PM

how do you just "fall out of love" with someone? i'd be weary of that if i were you...

Austruck

02-25-06, 02:30 PM

how do you just "fall out of love" with someone? i'd be weary of that if i were you...

I usually just focus on all their bad qualities. :D

Pyro Tramp

02-25-06, 02:30 PM

Well, not out of love, stopped fancying him, which i can understand if i were in a three year relationship.

ash_is_the_gal

02-25-06, 02:39 PM

Well, not out of love, stopped fancying him, which i can understand if i were in a three year relationship.

well if that is the case, she probably doesn't really know what she wants, does she? I'm not knocking it....i don't know what i want either.

Eyes

02-25-06, 11:53 PM

i don't know what i want either.

it's hard to figure out

Anonymous Last

02-25-06, 11:57 PM

I usually just focus on all their bad qualities. :DI usually just focus on my bad qualities.

Pyro Tramp

02-26-06, 05:36 PM

*Sigh*... Pyro, just call her and ask her out... if she says no or I don't like you that way... then ask her what's up with the games she's playing...

Well, couldn't have gone much worse. We're not friends anymore and aren't talking, which is actually quite a relief in some ways. I'm glad i confronted my feelings so even if what's happened isn't what i wanted, i'm not left wondering in the dark, and she clearly was a bitch to be so manipulative and take me asking her completely out of context and have a go at me. I think i'll still have feelings for her for a while and it's going to be weird when i next see her but meh, can't be helped, i don't regret asking her.

Good riddance.

Austruck

02-26-06, 06:18 PM

Yuck, pleh. But as you say, better to find out now. I usually prefer quick surgery to lengthy chemo-type situations.

SamsoniteDelilah

02-26-06, 06:47 PM

Well, couldn't have gone much worse. We're not friends anymore and aren't talking, which is actually quite a relief in some ways. I'm glad i confronted my feelings so even if what's happened isn't what i wanted, i'm not left wondering in the dark, and she clearly was a bitch to be so manipulative and take me asking her completely out of context and have a go at me. I think i'll still have feelings for her for a while and it's going to be weird when i next see her but meh, can't be helped, i don't regret asking her.

Good riddance.
Good for you for asking, anyway. That took courage. :)

Caitlyn

02-27-06, 08:13 PM

Well, couldn't have gone much worse. We're not friends anymore and aren't talking, which is actually quite a relief in some ways. I'm glad i confronted my feelings so even if what's happened isn't what i wanted, i'm not left wondering in the dark, and she clearly was a bitch to be so manipulative and take me asking her completely out of context and have a go at me. I think i'll still have feelings for her for a while and it's going to be weird when i next see her but meh, can't be helped, i don't regret asking her.

Good riddance.

I'm sorry it tuned out the way it did… but you did need to know one way or the other… and, IMO, are better off without a chick who apparently doesn't know what she wants… or how to recognize a good thing when it comes along... ;)

Pyro Tramp

02-27-06, 09:34 PM

ash_is_the_gal

02-27-06, 10:06 PM

Women, jeez, why can't they be as simple as guys.

its not the complication that bothers you.

its the immaturity. not all of us are like that.

Pyro Tramp

02-27-06, 10:08 PM

Mmm fair point. I'm thinking this girl is actually a nut job.

adidasss

02-27-06, 10:47 PM

Just heard from my mate that she's pulling some guy in a club, which i'm not sure how to feel about, i mean, i shouldn't care really but it goes against what she ranted at me about when I asked her out, so she's contradicted herself a fair amount

Women, jeez, why can't they be as simple as guys.
i'm sorry for stepping in without really knowing the subject, but could it be that she just doesn't find you attractive and was trying to do it so she doesn't hurt your feelings too much? i mean it seems like a classic excuse, sorry i'm not ready for a relationship right now....doesn' it? what was the question again?

Pyro Tramp

02-27-06, 10:55 PM

Yeah but c'mon.

Seriously though, never given that much thought really. Guess i just thought that were everything we had went so well, it all suggested that there was meant to me something more.

adidasss

02-27-06, 10:57 PM

Yeah but c'mon.

Seriously though, never given that much thought really. Guess i just thought that were everything we had went so well, it all suggested that there was meant to me something more.
yeah, but it seems you assumed too much and when the girl blew you off you were upset for no good reason. maybe you mistook her friendship for something more? i applaud you for asking her out or what ever you did, it took guts, but don't dwell on it too much, she just doesn't fancy you, if she did she would have done something about it already....

Equilibrium

02-27-06, 10:57 PM

i'm sorry for stepping in without really knowing the subject, but could it be that she just doesn't find you attractive and was trying to do it so she doesn't hurt your feelings too much? i mean it seems like a classic excuse, sorry i'm not ready for a relationship right now....doesn' it? what was the question again?

Gotta agree with him.

I don't mean to offend you or hurt you but think about it man, she probbaly just wasn't attracted and didn't have the balls or emotional maturity to just say "look man, im just not that into you" .

for everyone else calling her a nut case and an immature person and this that and a thiurd..thats not necessarily true...the girl has a right to refuse whomever she wants if she isn't attracted to them

We have all said no to people before, so..that doesn't make us immature or crazy...we just weren't attracted.

So move on dude, I've realized they always notice you the most when you're the least available.

Xui Wan

02-27-06, 10:59 PM

maybe she's been getting away with it for so long she really doesnt get it!!! put your foot down about what you want and stick to your morale if thats not in your agenda of how a relationship should go then boot her to the door!!! or pack up and ditch!! the longer you say its acceptble to treat you like crap the longer she will!!

adidasss

02-27-06, 11:01 PM

^^i really dislike your fonts...

ash_is_the_gal

02-27-06, 11:02 PM

i don't know.

maybe she doesn't want to be commited. can't say i blame her. its better she takes that route rather than lead him on and then does him wrong. that would be horrible.

i know what its like to have strong feelings for someone that doesn't feel that way, and i was glad to leave their life. it hurts much more if you try to stick around and squeeze into their life where they don't want you.

ash_is_the_gal

02-27-06, 11:09 PM

^^i really dislike your fonts...

that was pointless.

adidasss

02-27-06, 11:11 PM

that was pointless.
not as pointless as this.... :D

Pyro Tramp

02-27-06, 11:25 PM

Yeah, you're all right. I'm over her, well, there wasn't even anything to be over, so i'm not really upset. I don't think my mates egging on me on helped which is why y'all posting helps since it's from a completely different perspective and actaully true. So yeah.

Xui Wan

02-27-06, 11:35 PM

^^i really dislike your fonts... hmm should I be offended?? i was just wondering... :Do

adidasss

02-28-06, 06:44 AM

only if you personify yourself with your fonts...and those are much better....:)*spam*

Anonymous Last

02-28-06, 09:00 AM

hmm should I be offended?? i was just wondering... :Do

May the fonts be with you.

Xui Wan

02-28-06, 03:48 PM

May the fonts be with you. heh thanx :)

Anonymous Last

02-28-06, 04:02 PM

heh thanx :)

I didn't do anything...

Xui Wan

02-28-06, 04:57 PM

lol ok

Blister

02-28-06, 05:06 PM

I didn't do anything...

he strikes again...;)

Anonymous Last

02-28-06, 05:17 PM

he strikes again...;)

I did?

Xui Wan

02-28-06, 08:43 PM

Curious.... i just figured may the fonts be with you was a good thing :(
i'll go back to my pleasantville blandness of black and offwhite color is so overrated anyways ty mr croatia

gummo

02-28-06, 09:23 PM

Curious.... i just figured may the fonts be with you was a good thing :(
i'll go back to my pleasantville blandness of black and offwhite color is so overrated anyways ty mr croatia

No way, choose the font you want! That's why they're there. Be yourself Xui Wan!!!
Anyone who takes the time to play with fonts to get it to the style they want, I think, shows an attention to detail....a quality I admire.

Pyro Tramp

02-28-06, 09:26 PM

Just because something's there, doesn't mean you have to use it.

Xui Wan

02-28-06, 09:30 PM

No way, choose the font you want! That's why they're there. Be yourself Xui Wan!!!
Anyone who takes the time to play with fonts to get it to the style they want, I think, shows an attention to detail....a quality I admire. omg thank you i know it may not seem to be much but it means alot :modest:

adidasss

02-28-06, 10:47 PM

Curious.... i just figured may the fonts be with you was a good thing :(
i'll go back to my pleasantville blandness of black and offwhite color is so overrated anyways ty mr croatia
never mentioned colour....it was the fonts themselves...

ash_is_the_gal

02-28-06, 11:00 PM

stop complaining Pyro and adi, and let her do her thing. we let you do yours, whatever it may be, afterall...;)

Anonymous Last

03-01-06, 12:48 AM

Curious.... i just figured may the fonts be with you was a good thing.

I meant it as a positive thing... but I didn't do anything special for a thanx. Just stick up for what you like and believe in until the issue is seizure causing fonts and then I'll ask you to please take one for the team, to prevent the occasional brain aneurism. Don't pay any attention to the negative around here... cause there are no good technological solutions to some of our behavioral problems.

adidasss

03-01-06, 05:21 AM

I meant it as a positive thing... but I didn't do anything special for a thanx. Just stick up for what you like and believe in until the issue is seizure causing fonts and then I'll ask you to please take one for the team, to prevent the occasional brain aneurism. Don't pay any attention to the negative around here... cause there are no good technological solutions to some of our behavioral problems.
i KNEW you fancied me!! :love: *twists words*

Xui Wan

03-01-06, 06:12 AM

ok well I have a real issue.... to hell with the font I like comic but serious... I love him sooo much y is he being a numskuckle??? ooo nvm o and thank you

Anonymous Last

03-01-06, 07:06 AM

i KNEW you fancied me!! :love: *twists words*

I fancy you like this...and by this, I mean always.

jackscolon

03-01-06, 11:52 AM

She sounds insane- at the very least, so attention hungry that I couldnt take it.. so immature of her to call you... goood call acting unaffected tho.;)

Equilibrium

03-01-06, 12:18 PM

She sounds insane- at the very least, so attention hungry that I couldnt take it.. so immature of her to call you... goood call acting unaffected tho.;)

Thanks for the advice though this thread isn't about relationships any more lol

its about fonts...

Lol here's a cool font..well maybe its not cool im just testing it out we'll see how it turns out....love u all u homosexuals/lesbians/politically correct/politically incorrect/catholic/atheist/jewish/muslim/any other group of peoples

gummo

03-01-06, 06:38 PM

talking about fonts can help get over breakups.... it can!

ash_is_the_gal

03-01-06, 07:24 PM

talking about fonts can help get over breakups.... it can!

you're so cute :p

Austruck

03-01-06, 07:27 PM

Thanks for the advice though this thread isn't about relationships any more lol

its about fonts...

Fonts ARE relationships, dude. Fonts are LIFE.
I don't know how I'd live without a good Palatino Medium, or a lovely Caslon OpenFace.

(sigh) :modest:

SamsoniteDelilah

03-01-06, 10:52 PM

Curious.... i just figured may the fonts be with you was a good thing :(
i'll go back to my pleasantville blandness of black and offwhite color is so overrated anyways ty mr croatia
I don't care what color you write in, in fact I sort of liked the raspberry and have no qualms with comic sans. But your grammar is that of a 14 year old. In fact, I thought you were 14, til I checked your profile. You need to cut the AOL-speak if you want to be taken seriously on message boards. There are places where you'd actually get banned for that. Here, you'll just likely get ignored by a good half the people if you talk like U been stampin' lic plates 4 teh last 6 yrs.

Pyro Tramp

03-02-06, 12:19 AM

I just assumed she was foreign.

adidasss

03-02-06, 05:18 AM

hey, me too!! that's why i didn't mention anything....maybe she is?

Equilibrium

03-03-06, 12:07 PM

Maybe she's just retarded. Give her a break.

Pyro Tramp

03-03-06, 12:19 PM

Ouch

chicagofrog

03-03-06, 01:16 PM

you mean "ai!"? or "aua"?

Xui Wan

03-04-06, 12:06 AM

Maybe she's just retarded. Give her a break. I spose responding to this post shows that I am somewhat self destructive. Athough, I think that I might as well say your words however slight had hurt my feelings. Knowing that I know nothing about you, means nothing, but that the original reason for me even posting here was to give you another point of view post #40 http://www.movieforums.com/community/showpost.php?p=312608&postcount=40 I know crappy grammer, and all nothing to read!! I am a student, an insomniac and when making blahsai blahsai posts Im not treating it like life! though I spose I should. Allows others to maybe have an Idea of how they can or should treat me. Though one point I would like to make, even if I was 14 or foreign is this how you would like to be treated???

ash_is_the_gal

03-04-06, 12:19 AM

Xui Wan, I would like to formally apoligize for the way you have been treated by some...please try to disregard what was said against you...I am sorry your feelings were hurt.

I think everyone else that took part in this should hear this: if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. You hurt her feelings and there was no good reason for it.

And I am out of this thread...:indifferent:

SamsoniteDelilah

03-04-06, 02:04 AM

I spose responding to this post shows that I am somewhat self destructive. Athough, I think that I might as well say your words however slight had hurt my feelings. Knowing that I know nothing about you, means nothing, but that the original reason for me even posting here was to give you another point of view post #40 http://www.movieforums.com/community/showpost.php?p=312608&postcount=40 I know crappy grammer, and all nothing to read!! I am a student, an insomniac and when making blahsai blahsai posts Im not treating it like life! though I spose I should. Allows others to maybe have an Idea of how they can or should treat me. Though one point I would like to make, even if I was 14 or foreign is this how you would like to be treated???
I'm sorry if people expressing their opinion hurt your feelings. However, you should take the opportunity to note that people do base the perception of you on how you present yourself.

Ash.... you are in NO position to apologize for me or anyone else or their comments. Take your self-righteousness and make a nice paper hat out of it. Her feelings were hurt because people expressed an honest response to her lame grammar. That's perfectly fair. SHE chose how to present herself, not anyone else. I'm tired of sounding out her posts, and if she chooses to continue to present herself like a 14 year old, I'll simply stop taking the trouble. If you choose to do otherwise, that is up to you, but it's pretty standard on message boards for people to go to the exhausting trouble of typing out ENTIRE WORDS. You don't need to make out that people are expecting overmuch of her, for her to do the same.

gummo

03-04-06, 03:00 AM

Just skip over her posts if they are so hard to read, Sammy. Sometimes I have to skip over posts. But in my case, I just don't understand what's going on. hahaha

Xui Wan

03-04-06, 03:49 AM

SamsoniteDelilah, I would like to thank you for your criticism. However I would also like to add I personally find your antics rude and in all honesty not showing any benevolence or pureness. A private post would have been suffice to say the least. If there is such a huge problem with the way I type then maybe ignoring me would have been the best solution. Public humiliation is to say the least unwarranted! Also I recognize that I have just contradicted myself though I feel that it is acceptable in this case. Lastly I would like to mention that it is our insecurities that shine through when we are unable to see the good in things.~ something to think about....

SpoOkY

03-04-06, 04:10 AM

woah this thread has more twists than the cheese and garlic roll I had for lunch! (mmm yummy) It goes from serious to silly to random to silly to angry to hurt to personal...not the best turn of events after such a good start....rather than comment on the many relationship issues discussed in this thread (which I am very unqualified to answer for the simple fact that I could have made several similar threads like this over the last year all about my own issues, but it's a bit scary to expose yourself online plus I'm a bit wary of advice at the best of times, so props to EQ for putting yourself out there + to Pyro Tramp too- I would give you rep but it's not in operation at the moment).

Xui Wan I am sorry also to see a new member feeling personally hurt, yes I can see that this public exposure could make you feel humiliated but it was never the intention of the members I am sure. Rather I saw it as them simply letting you know something that bothered them, I know the way they said it hurt you but it wasn't a personal attack, just a message. It may help to think of why they said it instead of how they said it or else the discussion will just become a circle of retribution/clarifications/misunderstandings and right now you are the only one I can see who can break the cycle.....just my thoughts ;)

chicagofrog

03-04-06, 08:07 AM

Xui Wan, there are simply some people you shoudn't mind on the MoFos. especially self-righteous bigots who tend to call others self-righteous and bigots. ignore them. they don't need you anyway, they're sooooo self-satisfied they don't (or *shouldn't) need anyone else in their petty life.

adidasss

03-04-06, 11:29 AM

i'm assuming this was all taken as a grave insult because the girl is not actually foreign? still not clear on that....if she is foreign, then there's no reason to take it as an insult, i'm "foreign" and my grammar is far from perfect so i welcome any suggestions and corrections on that department ( although i do refuse to spell i with a capital I, i just don't like the way it looks mmkay?).

Thursday Next

03-04-06, 11:39 AM

Xui Wan

03-04-06, 01:17 PM

I think it was because she was called 'retarded'. Yes, thank you! Refer to post #123 for full details... grrr lmao

gummo

03-04-06, 07:00 PM

Do we need a certain IQ to be on this site now?

Austruck

03-04-06, 07:05 PM

Depends on how you mean that. Minimum or maximum? *koff*

SamsoniteDelilah

03-04-06, 07:48 PM

Xui Wan I am sorry also to see a new member feeling personally hurt, yes I can see that this public exposure could make you feel humiliated but it was never the intention of the members I am sure. Rather I saw it as them simply letting you know something that bothered them, I know the way they said it hurt you but it wasn't a personal attack, just a message. It may help to think of why they said it instead of how they said it or else the discussion will just become a circle of retribution/clarifications/misunderstandings and right now you are the only one I can see who can break the cycle.....just my thoughts ;)
Exactly.

Equilibrium

03-04-06, 08:39 PM

Xui Wan

03-04-06, 08:48 PM

I was purely fueling the comedy. I apologize for hurting your feelings though that was not the original intention. I do thank you for posting here when my situation was dire and again, I apolgize for what I said. No hard feelings I hope. Thank you! apology accepted and no:nope: hard feelings. :modest:

chicagofrog

03-05-06, 11:11 AM

exactly
;)

Eyes

03-05-06, 09:51 PM

...and if she chooses to continue to present herself like a 14 year old...
HEY!, careful, some of the people on this board are 14

chicagofrog

03-06-06, 01:50 PM

HEY!, careful, some of the people on this board are 14

and some like 14-year old!

:p

okay, shoot me!

:eek: :D

Caitlyn

03-06-06, 02:43 PM

and some like 14-year old!

:p

okay, shoot me!

:eek: :D

chicagofrog

03-06-06, 02:57 PM

ouch!!! Caity got me! :eek: ouch!!

http://www.kprf.ru/clipart/misc/dead_frog_at_road.jpg

:D

Caitlyn

03-06-06, 03:39 PM

Well... you said "shoot me" ... :p

Just be glad I got you before the 14 year olds father/brother/mother/relative did...

chicagofrog

03-06-06, 03:45 PM

Just be glad I got you before the 14 year olds father/brother/mother/relative did...

wado Caity, for saving me so much suffering! :p

Eyes

03-11-06, 01:51 PM

wado Caity, for saving me so much suffering! :p

you're not dead YET!!!!!!

http://www.cs.cmu.edu/afs/cs.cmu.edu/user/wbardwel/public/nfalist/triplemini2.jpg

+

http://www.scorpioncity.com/images/art/frog.jpg

=

http://www.crazydeadfrog.com/images/cdf-logo2.jpg ----->http://www.denijsdesign.de/dd_images/i_foto/v_c4_froschgequetscht_1.jpg

chicagofrog

03-11-06, 02:06 PM

now that's funny! laugh laugh as long as you can!
:D ;) ;)
i'll come back as a frog warrior
http://www.natashascafe.com/images/photos/bronzefrog.jpg
or even a superfrog!
http://www.needledede.com/images/8809J_Super.jpg
:p

Eyes

03-11-06, 02:22 PM

chicagofrog

03-11-06, 02:25 PM

hiding...
http://allaboutbecca.com/newhouse/august11/frog1.jpg

nebbit

03-12-06, 07:25 AM

http://bestsmileys.com/leapfrog/1.gif

gummo

03-12-06, 12:35 PM

frog, you are crazy!

chicagofrog

03-12-06, 02:28 PM

http://www.crazy-frog.de/images/crazyfrog.gif :p

Eyes

03-15-06, 01:07 PM

http://www.crazy-frog.de/images/crazyfrog.gif :p

http://www.lostcoders.net/download/crazyfrog/crazy_frog_.jpg

Caitlyn

03-15-06, 01:10 PM

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

chicagofrog

03-16-06, 01:33 PM

idem! :)

abandonedimages

03-24-06, 10:55 PM

(So sorry, I know I'm late but after reading this I had to say something.

You dont need someone like that, honey. I know it's hard to walk away from someone you love so bad, but what shes doing isnt right. I've done things to my boyfriend to get a rise out of him or make him chase after me, but I've never gone as far as she has. Thats not right on so many levels. If its true about her wanting power - it shouldnt even be like that. Love/Caring doesnt care about who has the power.

If you find it unbearable to walk away from her maybe she will come back and you can tell her what she did was wrong and if she cares she wont do it again. I know your heart probably brings you back to wanting her, but one day it might not. Either way I advise against you going back to her/taking her back.)