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Originally Posted by drewfox
so i just finished watching "Accepted" and let me tell you it really hit me hard...
off of others input what do you think? isnt the whole idea of higher learning to learn what you love to do?
and for parents did they really learn what they wanted? or were they forced to conform?
I guess thats what i really like about the movie..it shows how society and everything has us conforming to what others set the standards as...
my question is, why? why do we have to conform to what others say or do or think? why cant we all be free to do what we love instead of HAVING to become slaves of school?
remember im talking collage only....up to the point of collage general education is of course needed
collage is all about what you want to do with your life....my parents always stressed to "do what you love to do" but is that really possible?
please your input is greatly "Accepted"
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The movie is aimed several generations below my own so I'll probably never watch it, but since you're just talking philosophy, I'll throw in my 2 cents. The idea of setting up a phony school and all the trimmings to fool one's parents makes sense if you see your parents primarily as opponents, not people you actually care about. And this easy come, easy go phoney college reminds me of those "medical" school in the Caribbean where even a practice cadaver can get a medical "license" or the "correspondence" course where for a fee you can walk away with a divinity degree or learn to be a
veterinarian at home, if the neighborhood doesn't run out of unleashed pets for you to practice on.
The purpose of college is to prepare you for a career not simply provide a degree. Many careers require a license--medical, legal, aircraft, engineering, accounting--where you must pass and maintain certain standards. And because these qulifications are closely checked by government regulators and employers, it's hard to fake.
And in most of the better and higher paying jobs, if the employer later discovers that you've lied about your education, that's grounds for for dismissal. In some jobs you can even be jailed for faking records.
OK, that's why the concept of
Accepted won't work. More than that, it's possible to get the career you love. When I was in junior high, I decided I wanted to be a news reporter, go places, meet people, get the behind the curtains skinny on what's happening. But I couldn't go to college when I was graduated in 1961, so I joined the Army. Four years later when I'm a civilian again, they pass the new GI Bill of Rights which provides me with the financing where I can go to college. I was older than some of the faculty by the time I got in college and I was paying for everything myself, through GI entitlements, student loans, scholarships and working. And I made damn sure I got my money's worth, unlike some of the younger students partying through on Daddy's handouts. Anyway, I got the career I wanted and it's been a hell of a lot of fun. But it's not something I'll get rich at, so when my kids were ready for college, they had to work for it too. My oldest son joined the Navy Reserve, decided he wanted to an engineer working offshore, got money from the GI Bill and a little from me to attended Texas A&M and became a damn good engineer, respected in his field. My youngest son kinda loafed through high school. Smart enough to be a whiz at guitar and martial arts but I couldn't motivate him to bring up his grades. Graduated in the bottom level of his high school class. But then he married a young lady who has more than enough ambition for both of them and she got him motivated. He started off going to community college at nights after work, then transferred to the University of Houston adult education program. It's taken him longer but he'll get his degree next month in management and accounting. It's not what I would have picked, but he likes it. My daughter wouldn't even talk of going to college when she graduated because her mom told her she wasn't smart enough. But 20 years later with two sons in high school, she decides she wants to teach. Works two jobs to go to school Graduated at the top of her class with her whole family there to cheer her.
So you see, there's nothing to getting the education you need for the job you want. All that is necessary is that you want it bad enough to work and sacrifice for it.