Originally Posted by SamsoniteDelilah
I'm not sure you are aware of the assumption behind what you've said here. Let me see if I'm getting what you're willing to assume:
1. From your use of quotations around "official reason", it appears that you feel that it was disingenuous of the moderator to state that posting profanity repeatedly and instructions on how to get around the censor. Do you feel that Caity would not ban someone else for not only blowing off the stated rules here, but telling others how to do so?
My quotes around "official reason" was put there because of me thinking the phrase was rather bombastic in this context, but I couldn't think of any better phrase to use. And no I didn't think it was disingenuous - he did break the rules - but I don't think that was the only reason he was banned, as I've stated a few times now.
I do not feel like discussing Caity and what she does with you or with anyone else here. As I said, I think Caity, and all the moderators, are doing a fine job.
2. Adidasss, in his post above states that he realises that he was rude to me, that he made a second comment that was intentionally offensive (that he hates all Slovenians, in direct response to my saying one of my best friends is one), and that he followed that up with purposely trying to bait me into an arguement. Do you think that is in line with the rules of the forum? To assist you, here they are, verbatim:
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Well, thank you!
To answer you question: No.
3. Do you feel that personal attacks on a member should be overlooked by moderators? It appears you do, in that you seem to think Adi's previous behaviour was excusable.
I think you could say that the personal attacks
were overlooked by the moderators in the sense that none of them saw the thread with the fight before it escalated and turned really nasty. I think that was the case anyway. If they had seen it I'm sure they would have gone in there and stopped it before anyone had to leave or be banned.
And I don't think Adi's behaviour was excusable, and quite frankly, I don't think yours was either. I don't care who started it. The fight was juvenile and really, really low and I was surprised that there were adult people involved in it. I'm sorry if you get upset for me saying that, I have absolutely nothing against you, but that is how I felt.
That's exactly how I felt. I felt I was being personally attacked, and at that point, it was by the third person in a short period of time. I make no apology for being ready to leave here, after that. One of the things I value at this forum is that it's not a Lord of the Flies atmosphere.
And I don't blame you for feeling that way or for leaving and I can't see why anyone would be expecting an apology for you leaving. I just wish it hadn't gone so far.
I don't understand what it matters whether you classify him as new or not. He'd read the rules, and he had ample opportunity to see that people generally speak with consideration to each other here. He has, in fact, stated that he now understands and values that. If you're looking for a place where people are inconsiderate, hostile and mob rules, Yoda posted a link to one. I don't mean that to sound flip, I'm just saying: the fact that people can post here unmolested is of value to a lot of people. Not just me.
You're absolutely right. The same rules go for everyone.
How long should a person be able to create problems for the sake of it.. and break rules... and tell others how to break them.. before you feel they should be banned? Just out of curiosity.
Luckily for me I'm not a moderator and do not have to care about things like that. "But it's ok for you to have opinions about their decisions!" you might be saying. Yeah, Yoda asked for the input of others and he got it from me as well as from others. Mine is perhaps a bit harder for you to accept but it's just how I feel, and now I have to defend it and explain it over and over.
If I really had to answer your question, which is not very productive for the discussion, just a way for you to tell me that you don't like my opinion, I would have to say that it depends on every single individual case. I'm sure there were tons of reasons for banning Adidasss in relation to the forum rules. All I am saying and have been saying is that I don't think that him breaking the rules was the only reason he was banned.
You didn't just not love what she did. You questioned her motives and her honesty in stating her motives, and her judgement.
That's nice. I don't even have to type anything anymore since you allready know my deepest thoughts on everything.
Despite what you may think, I'm glad you've brought this up. I think there are a couple of people who feel as you do, and it's better to discuss it than to foster an ongoing feeling that things aren't right. It's just that in this case, things were right. Caitlyn had perfectly justifiable reason to ban Adi, and she did. Starting trouble for the sake of starting trouble should not be tolerated, because when it is, the atmosphere in a forum changes quickly for the worse. One of the things this place has going for it is fair, hands-on moderation. People often state differing opinions. But the way they're stated is within certain limitations, and that is why there are so many people here who can usually converse like adults.
Sure, I concur. And am totally out of this thread.