I think I Hate Myself, The Birds Are Spies They Report to the Trees, and Rue Montmartre were on my list, those are Emo bands.
The Emo I am most familiar with is Emotive Hardcore which stemmed from Hardcore Punk in the 80's. Rites of Spring was one of the most influential founders as far as I'm aware. I'm not very familiar with the wave of mainstream Emo that came out in the late nineties. I've heard Dashboard Confessional and a few bands like that, but that kind of Emo doesn't appeal to me.
I love Hardcore, Powerviolence, Crust, Grindcore, Metalcore. I like Death Metal, and Thrash Metal too, but my favorite type of Metal is Black Metal. I especially like Black Metal that has a lot of Punk/Hardcore influence. I do like Venom and some stuff like that, but a lot of Metal doesn't appeal to me. I really can't stand Metallica, Slayer, Megadeath, and stuff like that.
Yeah I know of Rites of Spring, that's what people call first-wave emo and the bands I mentioned are considered second-wave emo.
I've only gotten into second-wave emo over the past couple years or so when I discovered American Football on Youtube. I was only like 9 years old when the genre reached its peak so I never really got exposed to it until then. It seems like a genre that fell just as fast as it had risen.
Dashboard Confessional were on TV quite a bit a long time ago, and I myself was never a huge fan of them, I don't really consider them the same as the bands I've mentioned.
I mainly like Metal, Hardcore, and Hard Rock; Melodic Hardcore, Deathcore, Metalcore, and Post-Hardcore being my favorite sub-genres.
Judging by your list and preferred genres have you heard of a band called The Saddest Landscape? If you haven't check out the song "The Temptation That Is You" I have a feeling that you'll like it.